Give her a second chance or move on?
Find answers to your legal question.
Give her a second chance or move on?
|
a woman i wanted to date 4 yrs ago approached me today
and basically said she feels diffently now even though i am still the same guy i was then. The catch is she has gained weight and had two kids since we last spoke, now i kinda feel like she is willing to date me now because she is having a hard time dating anyone LOL
I feel bad for her and her kds but i feel kind of bitter that she didn't want me til she had little or no options, and honestly i have moved on and no longer have any feeling for her
|
 
|
Sue M
 |
If you have no feelings for her stay on the road your on and turn away from her. It's not easy raising someone elses kids. They can cause a lot of problems, even in a good relationship. It sounds like your a very causious fellow about women stay that way. And some day you'll get the sweet heart you deserve. One more thing my friend has a saying becareful they eighter want your purse or a nurse. This applies more to the grandma's. Take care have a good life grandma sue |
|
CJ B
|
Well if you don't have any feelings for her, you have answered your own question haven't you?
The one thing I do want to point out however is that it is your assumption that she has no more options but you do not know that for a fact and remember just because you haven't changed doesn't mean she hasn't changed. Often times people don't realize something that they have given up or missed out on till a while later when they themselves change.
But if you don't feel strongly for her anymore just let her know that you did have feelings for her before but don't anymore and you wish her luck in her search. |
|
msi_cord
 |
You have already moved on. Why give her a second chance? |
|
Jane Marple
|
Nope....too late for her. She looked down on you in the past now it's your turn. |
|
~* Autumn *~
|
never look back.
she has lost you |
|
♥The Mrs.♥
|
Is she married? |
|
jude
 |
maybe the difference is that she grew emotionally, and just because she has kids and may have put on some weight it doesn't mean she has no options. if u have no feelings for her don't lead her on and let it go. she may have realized that u were the type of man she wanted all along. some people do mature as they get older, and see men they may have once rejected as being the real deal. |
|
Joseph
 |
You really don't know if she has not options or not. But it doesn't matter. You're not longer interested anyway. She's changed and you've changed to. So just move on. Good luck. |
|
tweetybrrd
|
If you have no feeling for her, it doesn't matter what she looks like and how many kids she has.
That boat has sailed. Move on :) |
|
Jeff Vee
|
Move on and tell her "you had your chance". Sweet. |
|
|
|
|
|
 Guys, if you like this girl but..you told her you dont want a serious relationship..? |
You wouldnt call her everyday would you? This guy I like he called me everyday during school. but now since school is out he doesnt call me that often. What's up???
He told me i would be ... |
|
 My parents are splitting up, my grades are dropping and iHave been getting in a lot of trouble. Is this bad? |
Am I a bad kid? Will iChange? Does Baltimore have anything to do with it?
Additional Details
Ms. Gia, what do you mean?... |
|
 My mother has threatened to call social services on me if I file for a divorce from my husband.? |
| I have nothing to fear because I am an excellent mother. I have a special needs child and a neurotypical child. Both are in therapy five days a week, the neurotypical in therapy because of speech. ... |
|
 Why is this the case? |
| If a child is abducted by her mother when she is five years old, and not located until she is 21 years old, why would it not make a difference if she wants to see her daddy or never wants to see her ... |
|
 How do you know the difference between love and lust when you kiss someone? |
| I've kissed several girls throughout my life and haven't felt anything different for any of them. However, I've married 2 of them. Obviously, the first marriage didn't work out. ... |
|
 Please help: Is it too soon or just right to start a new relationship? |
| I've been talking to this amazing guy for over a month & have gone on 3 dates so far with him. He's 24, (I'm almost 23), and he has said he's looking for a relationship, ... |
|
 Is it difficult for a man to fine an illegal alien from central America (excluding Mexico), if he does not hav? |
| Is it difficult for a man to fine an illegal alien from central America (excluding Mexico), if he does not have allotted of money, but she can stay in the United States? That same man would be a ... |
|
 Do women always think that there men are cheating? |
| because on Y/A answers it seems that way,if he doesn't come straight home he's cheating or if he work late he's ... |
|
 would you forgive your son for sleeping with your wife? |
| my friend has a son that's 24 he didn't have anywhere to live is dad feel so bad that he give him a room cloths and food and even got him a job he has a wife that he love so much they ... |
|
 she left me for another guy because I wouldn't marry her .? |
| Its been 7 years OK thats a long time to sit and think should I marry her I suppose its just I`m a slow type of guy and I was thinking that I'd get to it .. well now its too late . My question ... |
|
 Husbands working with a woman tonight. I need advice on how to handle this maturely? |
| My husband has to work CQ tonight. It's a 12 hour night shift where he runs the front desk of a dorm on his military base. I found out that he will be working along side a woman and this makes ... |
|
| After a month of simmering over a prenup I just broke off my engagement. Any immediate advice? |
| She wouldn't sign my prenuptial agreement and so put my business would be in jeopardy. She's been divorced. She has called ten times and texted me 8 times in the last hour and wants to ... |
|
 I don't think my fiance should be entitle to anything if we divorce. I am much wealthier than her? |
| and she says she isn't with me for the money why should she take anything if we break up. She does fine on her own and I'm not asking her to leave her job. She is a doctor. But I happen ... |
|
 Do you REALLY think that there is only one person you should marry. Do you Really think you found them ? |
Out of 8 billion people in the world. What you looked through maybe six to ten of them.
Doesn't that mean say 1 out of maybe 100 guys or girls you will settle for.
If that the case ... |
|
 Is this CRAZY for a WIFE and MOTHER to do? |
I live in a suburb just outside of Toronto ....I'm married (happily) and have a 4 and 9 year old.
For some reason, I REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY want to go to New York ALONE for a few days (... |
|
 What if i was staying at your house for two weeks and it was? |
just you me and your daughter whos my age in the house. Would you be wary of me? And would you feel comfortable leaving me in the house alone with your daughter?
im 18... |
|
|
No Spam
Adult 
Gambling
Unfinished
Deception
Plagiarism
Not English
