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Give me three things I can do, when I get retired in 6 months!?

I am healthy, married and a little bit worried about how to spend my time alone in the house while my wife is still working another 10 years.


    




evangldbrg
travel, watch tv, work out


la bombera
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1. travel
2. get a hobby
3. read books & listen to music


oracleofohio
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Learn to take care of the house. Learn to cook so she can come home to an amazingly healthy gourmet meal most days. Add on to the deck. Plant the garden you've always wanted. Volunteer your time in the community. Do all of those projects around the house that you've wanted to do for years. Find creative ways to spend all that retirement money! Plan vacations down to the detail. Most importantly, if you don't listen to any of my other suggestions, please listen to this one. Get out of the house at LEAST once a day. Find a local coffee shop to visit every morning. Become a regular and shoot the bull with the other locals. I've seen retirement become almost like a prison to some based on not following this one simple rule. You have to get out and interact with other humans on a regular basis or you'll start to shrivel up and age! Don't do it! Good luck and enjoy your retirement. Us 40 year olds are happy to see all of you boomers start to retire! Ahhhhhh the job opportunities...the move ups in senority....we're ready to be set! lol


Goodbye
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Take up a few hobbies. Help out around the house with housework. Start daily exercises, a morning jog, or afternoon run. Work in the yard. Start some home improvements you've always wanted to do, but didn't have the time to while working. Spend time with your children or grandchildren (if applicable)


Gabriel
fix stuff around the house, work on your car, write a book, pick up a hobby like painting


I'm with Stupid.
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Sleep late, cook dinner for your wife, begin a journal, get a new hobby, volunteer at a hospital. Enjoy!


A Non Blond Mom
housework
laundry
mowing

just kidding....

find a hobby such as guitar, volunteer a few days a week for sick children (certainly make you feel better), painting, etc........dont what ever you do turn into a couch potato!


kiwi
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take walks, read books, watch tv, spend time with your family, visit people, travel,...


lucylocket7258
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Golfing, fishing and volunteers to help the elderly. . .


jackielafemme
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Start a hobbie, carpentry for ex (which could be profitable in years to come)..--- or maybe a home business something through internet..could be profitable too..
Or doing something for the neighbourhood...
Don“t you like painting?---Astronomy?---Music?-----
I wish I had some spare time to do all the things I“d like to do!
Good Luck, and let us know what you chose!!----


Akitas are Bomb
Do some research on landscaping your yard, add a pond or what is called a relaxation place to the yard. My mom retired and she did research before hand and now has abeautiful pond and landscaped yard that she took her time with and now it has been 2 years and her yard is beautiful and keep her busy! Everyone love to set in her yard! Good luck


sparkling_apple
Anything just don't be on the couch sitting in front of the TV in your under-roos when she comes home.

That will really piss her off and then you may have to get another job because she kicked you out. Good Luck on finding an activity!


cope_acetic
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1. Go fishing!!
2. Read all the books you want!
3. Spend time on Y!A!!
4. Get a hobby (making birdhouses, cooking, gardening, golf)
5. Join Pogo.com and play fun games.
6. Remodel the house....but get permission first!
7. Volunteer at the Senior Citizen's center, a woman's shelter, or for meals on wheels.

Enjoy your retirement--I am envious, 'cause I have another 20 years!!


Simmi
Gardening, photography, take classes at an adult school, junior college. Go walking. Join a club. Become a gourmet cook. Do all the projects you thought about doing but were too tired to do after working all day. Volunteer - the library, zoo, museum, school, what ever is your strength, or what ever you would like to learn about, or something that is so the opposite of what you ever did. Travel, read, plan the great vacations for you and your wife (my husband was fabulous at this), play on the computer, go to the gym. Join a political group and play an active role. After about a month or so, don't let yourself sleep the day away. Get up and get dressed at a reasonable hour and organize your day to do the things you want. If you don't, you will find your day over with and you did nothing. If that is what you want, fine. But there are a lot of exciting things to get into. Good luck.


AT
Sign up for Martial Arts.
Learn a new skill/trade - construction, painting, cooking, etc.
Join the better business bureau and give advice to those who need it whom are trying to grow companies.
Volunteer at Worthy Causes
Learn another language.
Take classes at community college.
Get a part time job


Future Mrs. H
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Find a hobby....

1) Write a book
2) Learn a new skill and become an instructor (such as skiing, white water rafting, etc)
3) Volunteer

You'll do fine :) Good luck!


yak4the8car
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you need to figure out what you like and enjoy. if you like kids then be a big brother, volunteer at a youth group, hosp ect. find a part time job, get a dog (that is if you like animals) go back to college for something you enjoy, if you enjoy taking pictures take a photograpy class, learn to cook (the best way is jump right in and don't be afraid to use spices), woodworking. its really endless...you just have to find what you like.


Mack J
start your own business and spend the rest of your life worrying if your employees is running your company into the ground.write a book.or get another job.


denise m
go join your local gym what a better way to socialize and stay fit
take some art classes
take some cooking classes surprise your wife with a nice meal every night

i will no say golf that's for boring old people


Mandy Cat
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keep the house up,( that should keep you busy!) walks in the park (it's healthy, too), do you have grandkids? And of course, find a hobby, one that you really enjoy, and go at it! Oh! And you could always do my Wal-Mart shopping on Saturdays for me!


offline
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start an online business,expand your consciousness through reading,or go fishing,turn a hobby into a part time business.


just me
Get a hobby if you don't have one.

Do volunteer work

Garden

Cook for your wife

Get a new career


Brent
Only three?!?!?!

Work out....
Read...
Write....
Garden....
Take classes....
Learn a new skill or craft (stained glass, wood carving, painting, etc)....
Volunteer to work with needy or sick children....
Bowling....
Golf....
Travel on a mission trip....
teach a class....
There is sooooooo much! Enjoy!!!!


Shua X
Invest your money or donate it to the middle and lower classes. Hey, you asked!


goodmother
Okay now that you will be home take the time and give your wife back a little of what she gave you. like cleaning up , cook her a good meal Little things like that also travel and relax. And if you have grand children spend sometime with them


fnyunj
Do *something*! My father in law has this problem, and it's pretty tough. He couldn't figure out what to do so he went and became a WalMart greeter. For the fun of it.


Sick Of Your Ish
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Travel, home repairs, try a new hobby. And congrats to you! My father is getting ready to do the same.


Jami W
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Well the obvious would be home repairs......painting, organizing etc.

You could catch up on a few good books.

You good be a good Samaritan and volunteer someplace. I personally think that this is the best idea, it gets you out of the house and your doing something great for the community.

Become a big brother.


IJToomer
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Read, volunteer, do projects like build bird houses, get a part time job somewhere low key and fun, get an old beater car and fix it up, take up photography...


blondee
experience europe! you can go witha group of people..all roughly the same age..like a fun field trip! travel agencies put them together. for expampl: EF Tours

but..wait..

GOLF? any of your friends retired?
Volunteer
COOK fabulous dinners and plan fun dates for her
household chores etc..
catch up on reading
join a health club..lay out by the pool in the sunshine..play racket ball. do yoga
art classes, or piano classes---something that youve never had the time to do but always wanted to

try something new. take a few risks!

good luck





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