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Guys, do you think a girl's virginity would be the best gift she could give you when you two get married?
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Guys, do you think a girl's virginity would be the best gift she could give you when you two get married?

I'm just curious what guys think about this.


    




Brian M
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virginity is vastly overrated--male and female


Bill C
It would be a wonderful gift, but the best gift was when she said yes to marrying me.


GW
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YES That would be the best thing for her to give to him BUT it works BOTH ways. For her would be the best gift if he was a virgin as well.


Happy-2
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It would be great, but not the best. The best gift my wife gave me was her sincere and loving commitment to me.


MJ3000
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I suppose. That assumes that her adoration, love, attentiveness, trust, etc. don't mean much. Once virginity is gone, it's gone. Those other things are there to stay (hopefully).


Ugly McFluffy
As a chick, I am not gonna lose my virginity untill I am married. If they love you enough they will wait untill your wedding night.


?
Nope. I think the vows, if made seriously, are the best gifts husbands/wives can give each other at the wedding.

When my future wife and I walk out of that hall hand in hand beginning our lives together as husband and wife, that's a great gift in and of itself.

Virginity has nothing to do with the promise of eternal love in a relationship.


stand alone complex
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i think a girls virginity would be the best gift .


origamimark
Nice thought, but I prefer money.


;-
I don't think guys will answer this honestly. My boyfriend and I had a talk like this when we were thinking about becoming physical. I asked him if he enjoyed thinking that he could be the only person i'll ever be with. He said he did. He wanted to be the only person for me but at the same time...didn't want to wait till marriage. On one hand, I think if the relationship is serious and you're in love, they like the idea of being the only person who's been with you. But on the other hand...they don't want to wait until marriage. If that makes any sense. Do what you feel is right. If you think it's best to wait until you're married, go for it. If you think you've found that person you love and want to, why not? It is something you can only give once. But it's also not like you're going to feel like a different person, at least I didn't. Good luck!


bootsontheroad
Most men view having a virgin as a conquest, not as a gift.


Alex V
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No,
I would not marry someone unless I allready knew that we are compatible physically. Not all people work together.


Jody
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I'm not a guy, but I don't feel like virginity is a "gift." It is merely a state of being. It's there, it's gone, who cares? Why obsess about virginity?


Marie
Why is it that the man doesn't have to give his virginity as the "best gift" but the girl does? Double standard.


Pulkse.co.uk
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It's alright.
I'd rather a PS3.


whatamess
her gift to you is marrying you.


Link
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Definitely. And likewise, one of the best gifts a guy could ever give his bride is his virginity too. It works both ways.


aaron.forr
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i think its cool, but other usually arent as nice as me.


Casiopea
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Well as far as I'm concern this is a big issue for us girls no so much for guys...they don't give a damn so it's not wonder they don't appreciate the gift that often. thought there's always the exception it's not that common...


leerus
yes it is because you no that you are the only person that has had it and it should make you fell really good because your wife isn't a garden stole and she waited until she got married and saved her self for you


Dove4ever
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That is the ultimate gift for a wedding night gift.


mr. czar
Only because it is soo hard to find a girl like that nowadays.


Adopt a Serviceman (or woman)
I'd much rather be the first person he fell in love with. I don't think you have to go running around doing things with everyone but in this 21st century world, it's important to make an informed decision. You have to have some experience. If not, there's always the chance that curiosity will rear its ugly head.


Patton
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A lifetime of faithfulness and friendship would be better. But it is a very honorable gift.
Virgins make me nervous. That's just me, though.


lonewolf
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That has been my advice at every oppertunity I am given !!!





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