Guys, would it bother you if your wife/GF goes out with her male friend?

She and him alone? For a walk or something from time to time? And he drives her in his car. Also, would it bother you if she had 2 or 3 guy friends? Also would it bother you if she had an old friend of hers who's as old as her dad, married and has two daughters older than her but he flirts with her (jokingly) and compliments her often?

Would you break up with her for these reasons? If not, what would you do?
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It's not me people, I'm not married nor do I have a boyfriend.

R.M.G!

It would depend on how I perceive their relationship, and how secure I feel in OUR relationship.

Since it is not You, why do You want to know?

midnightrambler

What is the matter with you? Are you married or not? Go get yourself a brand new sports car and have your husband sign the loan papers. He will hang around then, otherwise time to file for a divorce. Plus if it is not you...why even ask? It is none of your business!

ranger_co_1_75

Sounds like you aren't ready for a commitment to one man. When you are ready, you will make him the center of your life and do nothing to create suspicion or doubt, like having boy friends.

How would you like your husband spending time with girl friends and flirting with women?

Not a pleasant feeling.

RitzCracka

I probably wouldn't go for it, but thats just me.

FairMale

I'm a quite chilled out man but I would mind. I don't know about breaking up I would explain my hurt etc..then its up to her.

Nick

Hey, well first off it would bother some guys if they had like a history together. If they didn't, but are just friends there shouldn't be any need to break up. My previous ex girlfriend had a few guy friends and it didn't bother me a whole lot because i trusted her an got to talk with her guy friends unlike one of my ex's who did cheat and made me more cautious now. Now if your spending more and more time with the guy friends guys will become suspicious and ask if you are cheating on them. Most guys will break up because they jump to conclusions, you should just talk to him and reassure your guy or who ever nothing is going on and make sure that nothing will go on between you and the guy friends that could really affect your relationship with the husband or boyfriend.

Tracy H

It would bother me. If you are happy with your mate, you would have no interest in seeking attention of any sort elsewhere. It's common sense and mutual respect on the mate and their friend that you just let the friendships pretty much disolve. If you run into them great, beyond that it's just not appropriate. She should find some girlfriends to hang out with this will make for a happy relationship.

Naeem

would it bother me hell yeah, yeah, yeah, fu** yeah, and the flirtin n i new bout it his @ss would b grass. then she would b HISTORY

Amber

I'm a girl and I wouldn't even do that... that's just playing games.

don't mess with peoples hearts like that.

Lifes not fair.

Hi!
It would kind of depend, because if the guy is attractive - that would be one con. If she spent more time with him than you - that would be another con.
I think in your case though, people would break up with the girl.

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