Has anyone had a broken heart that time didn't heal?

jude

what u will need right now is a close friend that u can lean on and talk about what happened.if u don't have any join a self help therapy group that deals with relationship problems, there u will get someone to help u. he treated u badly, and u allowed it because maybe u don't love yourself enough. it does feel like the end of the world when we loose someone we love, but u know what, things happen for a reason, and maybe that guy wasn't right for u. u will need family or friends, as its hard to get over something when u have to do it all by yourself. nothing wrong with u, its not your fault. just accept it for what it is, and remember all the times he was unkind, and disrespected u, and know that when one door closes another always opens up. be good to yourself, be glad this part of your life is over, and never let a man hurt u again.

utep99

The reason you feel alone is because it sounds like he isolated you from your friends and surrounded you with his. This is not healthy for you, What you must do is not fall into the same trap in a later relationship. You have a value too! everybody on Earth is special and there is only one of you so that means you are very special. Leave the relationship and do for yourself a bit it will not be easy but you will find before long you can do it. As you begin to do more for yourself your own self-confidence will come back and you can then find a guy who is not only your love but your best friend who sees you as a equal and not a mere doormat. You deserve better!

AKAO4D

Gray skies are going to clear up
Put on happy face ---

When you're happy and you know
clap your hands

Now give yourself a great big o hug.

There all better?

I thought so.

Tommy T

What you feel is normal... what do you like to do? Go do it.

Go on a trip... go out clubbing... take up knitting... whatever...

Rx4u

Why are you beating yourself up? So okay, he was more outgoing than you, so what? You probably do better in small groups or one on one. Lots of people like that. Don't feel bad, it just seems like you are more alone, because he has a more active social life. You probably isolated yourself from the friends you had or the friends you could make because he was doing all the socializing. Guess what the good part is.....now you get to choose who YOU want to have in your circle. You look great in your photo--so get out now and try new things, you can do it and you don't have to put up with his put downs! There are more people that would like to do things with you than you think..make yourself reach out.

10S Player

Your heart isn't broken, it's just bruised. Give yourself time. Think of the bad things he did to you, and be happy that he can't hurt you anymore. Be responsible for yourself, and take care of yourself. You are the only one that matters. You will find someone else, but that should not be your focus right now. Get the toxins (him) out of your system, and realize that you deserve better. It's going to hurt for a while, so let it. You will heal, and you will be fine.

love&kindness

don't go looking for some one right now. healing will take time. but true love is out there for you. learn to love your self more and spend some alone time with you. trust me you would like it ( me time is always good) do what you always wanted to do but couldn't. true happiness comes from with in. and not from some one else. hope this helps

Monday Monday

I agree with Love&Kin. It will take awhile to heal, relax breath enjoy the small things in life, like a nice hot bath soak, bubbles and all. Get your hair done buy some new clothes continue talking, laughing with friends and family and just let time heal you. Ask God to send you a man especially for you.

di-di

the wounds are still fresh and they will heal- i know what you are going through- i lost someone i loved very much to death... i realized after a little while that i was just dependent on him- all you have to do is teach yourself how to do the things he would usually do in the social gatherings and it will get easier and tell yourself I DESERVE BETTER AND I WILL FIND BETTER I AM NOT A BAD PERSON I AM LOVING AND DESERVED TO BE LOVED. i have had my share of bad relationships too

europe

be happy. be optimistic. be yourself. you will attract love around you.

Roger

i too had someone that walk all over me and i still wonder why i think of her after 1 year not seeing her so i have a little feeling how yu feel i too want someone but i am not trying hard i too want someone to talk you,so if intrested contact me woodie1961@gmail.com

mochabiznswmn

Time will heal trust me..all in God's timing. I have been there and it took time..allow yourself to hurt and confront the feelings just don't let yourself get depressed, don't look for a relationship and allow yourself to forgive yourself for allowing yourself to be mistreated, know that you are a beautiful sistah and sometimes we allow ourselves to become last in our own lives and when we walk away we are empty bc we put everyone before us. i pray that you ALLOW time to work in your favor and just know that it is a blessing now that he is gone so that the Mr. Right could come along and love you for real..i have been where you are after 13 years of marriage and it wasn't all bad but in the end it was terrible..and I chose to look inside and find me bc I gave me away and didn't know who I was..now I am a successful CEO, Engaged and Happy and loving me first but it was all through God and prayer and I keep good First ..read Psalms:91, I am not some religious freak..lol i just love God for who and what he has been in my life

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