Have a great wife, so why do i still adore looking at other women?

precious pat

You desire to do good, but of course evil is always lurking. There is nothing really wrong with looking at other women unless there is more to it than just that. It's what you do after you look at the other women. Do you think about them in ways that you shouldn't? Sometimes, we want our cake and to eat it too. Then sometimes, things like this are placed in our presence to see if we will be able to pass the test. The test is whether you can remain faithful. Like I stated early, I believe there is nothing wrong with looking. It's what you do after looking.

Babe

You can look but don't touch. When you're with her don't look either.

You are married not dead.

Judy the Wench

Your normal?

Royalhinney

Because every human eye is drawn to visually pleasing images. Human nature. Just be respectful when you are with your wife and keep your eyes to her!

yp_cindy_lewisburg

Because men are visual creatures.
Nothing wrong with your reading the menu. Just don't order up!

daljack -a girl

You're in love with your wife but you're not dead.

You can still look but do it with respect and discretion.

Be a man ....not a teenage boy.

Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo

No harm in looking, but when it goes beyond that is the problem...

Beth m

every guy gets attracted to a physical appearance.. i think that there is a part of your body that likes the look of other woman at the same time loves your wife..
lots of luck happy holidays...

dce1dg

we are men it is in our nature...but it is all about holding on to the thought of seen your wife the first time you guys met.that way she is the only women you look at.....

misty blue

alot of men do, its not a sin to look, you can look but you can't touch. well you could, but normally you don't if that makes any sense at all..

mr_crankypants

Have you seen other women? They're georgeous!

Dicky Snapples Hides Apples

Men have two sides to them.
Love and lust.

Love is commited, adoring and respectful

Lust is filthy, superficial and visual.

Enjoy them both.

melody g

Because you are human!! I think that it doesn't matter how much you look, as long as you refrain from touching! In my opinion, ALL men and women look whether they are happily married or not. My husband looks at other women and sometimes his eyes bulge out of his head, but then again, I look at other men, and sometimes my eyes bulge too!! So, no matter how happy you are, you will still check out the other women (and whether she will admit it or not, she probably still checks out other men). It's perfectly natural!!

Rhode Island Red

Well if all you are doing is looking, it's because you are human and a man! Just because you have a ring now does not mean you cannot appreciate beauty when you see it. Now ogling and being piggish is a bit far and if you are cheating that is a problem, but believe me harmless admiring from afar is not a crime. And I bet your wife does it too, women are just more subtle than men.

Leijla B

being in love with someone, does not make other people any less hot....

beamer

It's ok to look just don't touch! You are a man and men admire the beauty of another woman. You're perfectly normal as long as you don't act out and start screwing around. Take a load off and enjoy the holidays and the women at the malls. Merry Christmas!

shayney boy

my husband does the same but i understand he is only window shopping its if he ever touched then he would have a problem. you are only doing what men do and that is look, just don't touch.

llsnwtsn

because you're married, not buried. looking is not a bad thing. anyone that denies looking at others, tell lies.

Baps .

There is nothing wrong with looking at over woman as long as you are only looking. It only starts being wrong once you start touching these other women

Aday

You are normal. Men are made that way. But do not embarrass your wife. let her know you love always. you should be satisfied with just looking.

icewitch54

Maybe you just enjoy the window shopping

kazzadanni

Trust me you are very normal. Most guys do the same thing. As long as you are only looking and not touching it's perfectly healthy. I have a really cute hubby but l also enjoy looking. Just because we are married it doesn't mean that we are also blind !!God gave us eyes so l figure we should use them !!

horseknickers

unless you are dieing,you will always look.

because it's human nature

rwhz199

Nothing wrong with just looking, just try not to get caught.

John B

For a man to not look at someone that is attractive to him takes a huge amount of will power. It is just what we do.

What counts however is what you do about that looking.
Consider it window shopping with no money. You can look but
you can't buy. If your wife is first an foremost in your life looking will not cause a problem. Only when you have problems in your relationship can looking turn into trouble.

So enjoy the look but then go home and give your wife a hug and kiss. You will be fine.

ben b

Its perfectly normal, thats why your wife looks at other men, and has the same feelings you do, with the other women.
What? you thought she didnt?
and she adores them looking at her, probably, moreso, this way round, with women.
The amount of admiring glances, she responds to with a flirty smile, when your not there, you wouldnt believe.
I know you wouldnt, thats why the smug question about your lovely wife, and "your" straying eye...like youve got it all on a plate.
Trust me, you really dont know the half of it, that "girls night out", quiet drink with mate...etc.

Binky

Because you are a man, plain and simple. As long as you dont act on your feelings of adoring other women you are being a normal healthy husband with a great wife. At least you are admitting it and there is no harm in looking.

rowdy rick

Do you think she isnt!!!!!!!!!
Everybody goes window shopping, its when you want some other merchandise you have a problem.
Human nature 101, people look, some admit it, some dont.
Those who say they dont are kidding themselves only.

random

cos you are normal - all men like to look
a few go a bit further than looking but generally most men look

women also look and if we are honest dream!!!!!! ho ho ho

i see it like this : I like the look of those fancy Jimmy Choo shoes
BUT i know my comfy trusted black boots are the best!!
I may TRY the Jimmy Choos on for size BUT I wear the black boots all the time because I love them - often think what i woiuld do without them..

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