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Have you ever told your partner that...?
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Have you ever told your partner that...?

he/she didn't make you happy? If so, how did they react?


    




sewgoodmama
You are responsible for your own happiness. If you aren't happy then you need to do something about it, don't blame other people.


Slow Joe
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My ex wife told me that. Now she is miserable and alone and im very happy and about to get married to my fiancee next month.


TruthSeeker
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My ex husband told me that. He is now miserable with his immature anxiety-ridden young tramp he left me for. Karma.



Also, to the first answerer: That is why divorce is so out of control in this country. "If you're unhappy, leave. Why on Earth would you stay?" Ummmm because you made a commitment, took vows, have children to care for, and should attempt to work through problems instead of trading for a newer model every time you are unhappy...


adk_in_ar
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never happened to me but a friend of mine her husband told her that and he thought the grass was greener and left her for someone else about 3 months later he came crawling back and she agreed to move outta state to get a fresh new start with him and try to make her marriage work. that only lasted a short time because every time she looks at him she remembers what he said to her and she said he hurt her worse by telling her that than he would have if he would of just left and not said a word. she then divorced him and he has been beating himself up for over 10 years for saying that to her.


jisdaddy
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yes all the time and even when you cry....it sort of polishes their ego! be strong and don't let him see your tears or sorrow!


Curious
It's all in how it is said, start off with something positive and communicate it in a nice way...problems resolved.


mjc50
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Im not happy right now and I have told her several times she told me we are going to therapy, is been three months and still waiting to go to therapy and for what Im not happy. I forgot what it is to feel happy


Beth
Yes, there were some instances where his actions caused unhappiness. I told him about it and his reaction was to make an effort not to repeat these actions.


Rose
If they don't make you happy why are you with them? If someone no longer makes you happy ending it would be the best choice so no one gets further hurt.





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