Have you or would you cheat on your partner?

RScott

Nope and nope. RScott

pbJ

i never have and i never will.

Dr S

no way. I love my wife no matter what and would never do such a hurtful thing.

Momma

never

ASHRAF

Baby Nolan arrived Apr 18, 2009!

No!! Never have and never will--- I respect my marriage and love my husband too much to do that.

Kay X

HELL NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I WOULD LEAVE BEFORE I CHEAT

Princess

Never, I've never had any desire to do that. I would never cheat on him, that's just wrong!

Rein

No and no and nothing could start that, I wouldn't do that to my husband or much less...myself.

hotmommadru

why have a partner in the first place if your thoughts are on cheating???? no I have never ever cheated on my partner and I was 14 when I got my partner,he was 19 we are still in love and togther its been 40 years this past November the first....he is my teddle bug.....

sarge927

Never have and never will. First rule of cheating on your partner: Make sure he/she will NEVER find out. Second rule of cheating on your partner: He/She will ALWAYS find out.

Melanie T

I have, it was found out, and it was a horrible thing to do. It was selfish and short-sighted. There were serious problems in the relationship, and what I needed to do was stand up for myself and speak out for my needs rather than chickening out and then sneaking around to get those needs met elsewhere.

When it was found out, it was the worst time of my life. Our marriage survived, and now it is better than ever, and my needs are met. However, my husband will probably never recover from the loss of trust, and there will probably always be moments where the pain of that time re-emerges into our lives. I will never be able to completely erase the taint it has left on my character, that I was a person who would do this thing.

When I look back at family pictures from during that time, I can see the pain in my husband's eyes. It still hits me hard, even years later. Yes, he was failing as a husband. I needed to speak up, and things needed to change. But what I did was the equivalent of shooting him in the leg for having a broken foot.

Aida

NEVER- I'm married now but I cheated on a previous boyfriend and I ended up feeling very suspicious about HIM afterwards,

Sachin Kumar

10 mins of fun and chance to repent it whole life...well not my idea of fun..sorry

Green Eyed Bride

No, I have never cheated on my husband and never will. I love him and he is a part of me. I would never do anything to ruin the faithful bond that God gave us.

purplewaterhorse

I would never cheat. I have been cheated on and I wouldn't wish that pain and heart break on anyone.
If the relationship has weakened to the point that you want to see someone else...just say so. It saves more pain for everyone when the cards are on the table.
How many times do you hear someone say...you just should have talked to me?

cindyokie1

Never, He is an extension to myself. My soul would not be whole without him. Why would anyone want to hurt someone they love and Cherish?

Tina C

I have NEVER cheated on my boyfriend, and I would NEVER want to. I don't understand people who do such things? If you're meant to be in a loving and committed relationship, then why would you want to do that in the first place. The only thing I have to say to these sort of people are, be single if you want to sleep around. Either way, you'll earn yourself a bad name. And that's the truth!!!

-Tequila9+

No, not according to the commitment I've had with various partners.

If I had a monogamous commitment, I honored the deal.

Peace.

Deb W

Not on this one, NEVER on my husband...but I did in the past with another. I was honest about it a few weeks later (the relationship was not a good one, we had tried for years - I had been completely faithful for 28 years to this man, whom I never loved romantically, but married on account of pregnancy - back then, you married the father of your child), and we divorced soon after.

skittles_ga1986

Well the thought has crossed my mind but only because i wanted to know if i really loved him...I know that sounds crazy but i wanted to but could never bring my self to it so i guess i got the answer...lol But cheating is really never a good thing it could really miss everthing up in the long run...

BBQ MAN

Never you can not just pick love up. It's lust

Ernie D

nope got devorced then went out but its still cheatin acording to god

jrc000

I have never, I believe you have to have standards. If you are unhappy with the person you are with then you ought to dump them.

kathleen m

no..i'll never do that..even if he will cheat on me..i would rather want a break up. if he'll do that.,.but me? i'll never do that

Maria

Been faced with this with someone who was married too, but we both let it go. It started with alot of eye contact and smiles.

raininonsunday

I never have - even though the thought has been there once or twice.

aye

Wait, are you asking this because you have cheated or will cheat to your partner? Or are you asking this because you have a doubt that you partner has cheated or will cheat on you????
Ok, I have NEVER cheated on my partner although he had cheated against me coz if I did take a revenge, it will just make things worse.
I forgave him and now he respected me much more and became faithful to me.
We forget past hearthaches and failures and move on to our future together.
But IF EVER (or incase) I plan to make something that will displease him, I will tell him the truth although it would hurt him. It's better to be honest than stabbing your partner at the back because the former is less painful than the latter.
I tell and show everything to my partner, even the details. And it makes him feel secured because he can see me very honest and faithful to him. I show it through my actions rather than just talking. And he also does the same thing to me and our relationship is more comfortable and happier.
Do to your partner what you want her to do to you. If she doesn't please you back, then she doesn't love you.
Also, if you have already done something against your partner, tell her right away rather than letting her know of it from someone else which will be a lot more painful. All truth comes out no matter how you hide it even if it takes a year or more before everything comes out.
Appreciate her if she tells you the truth even her pasts...and it is a sign that she wants to change or that she wants to let go of her guilt. Forget the past and make better things for you future.
If she hated you because of your mistake, then accept it because you're at fault and show her how sorry you are and that you want to overcome your mistakes. Show it through your actions rather than talking too much. Also, don't wait for the time to run out. Do it at once and don't leave it for tomorrow.
Well, this is IF YOU LOVE HER.

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