He want's to to trow me on the street?

2 cents

call 1-800-799-7233...its a domestic violence hotline...they will help with shelter and legal help...CALL NOW!

Munya Says: DUH!

Find your local battered women's shelter. EVEN if you ask a police officer where it is---GO THERE.
TELL THEM YOUR STORY!

He cant do that to you, he cant do it to ANYONE!!! Depending on your state, you are entitled to HALF OF WHATEVER HE OWNS since you're married to him!

MAKE HIM PAY!!!! MUNYA SAYS MAKE HIM PAYYYY!

Juillet

if you have proof of marriage contact a lawyer, most lawyers hopefully will help you w/o asking any money. if you feel in danger go to your local shelter. i would try to get a divorce from him he will hurt you more if you stay. talk to someone who is closer to you there so you can get real help for this issue you are going through

spaznskitz

As a married woman in the united states, you have rights. Go to the yellow pages under attorneys, look for divorce attorneys, and find one that will give yuo a free consultation.

take him to court... you are legaly married to him and therefore entitled to half even the house he is putting up for sell

rcsinga

contact a woman's shelter. They should be able to help you!

Dennis L

These are some serious problems that I think you should discuss with a lawyer. I am unsure of your rights, but you will have some that will protect you.

kingdomoflights

Tie him up by his gonads. The proceed to verbaly abuse him and kick hit and spit opn him till he knows what ts like ot be on the other end. After that find someway to get him on the International terrorist list and really make his life miserable.

On serious note report him to the cops, embasy, firends, family, his coworkers, and anyone else that can ruin his life the way he has made yours unberrible.

Then Leave him flat and don't let him know how to get ahold of you. There is many great very nice poeple in this world that are dedicated to their relationships and their word. Find someone like that?

angeldust

contact an attorney, contact your embassy......call the authorities. you are not a piece of rubbish. You might not be a citizen, but you are protected and have rights. you are HUMAN. That's the most important thing.I don't care if you are not a citizen or not, he should not abuse you and mistreat you.

this might be a long-shot, and I haven't browsed the site to see where you would inquire, or what your situation falls under, but it's worth a shot.

Contact the American Civil Liberty Union:

http://www.aclu.org/

(That is, assuming you are in America. I have only lived in the UK and the states, but in the UK I know you can go to an embassy/consulate...call the British consulate if in the UK.)

helpfull2u

since you married him half of everything is yours sweetheart! take him for everything he has , go to a womans crisis center than can help you and direct you,find you shelter and a job you are not alone! Good luck and im sorry for the ignorant man to represent my country this way, not all men in this country are like that

Jenny84

I am so sorry for you. What a terrible situation. You need to leave him and stay in a womems shelter until you can find a job. Get a job as a waitress and save money so you can rent an apartment. Go to google and type in the words Women's shelter in......and then the nearest city to you. Good luck to you, you will make it through this! It will be hard but I bet you can do it in one year or less.

2sexy 2cute

Get a lawyer and find you a new life in the States.

BeTheHammer

Did he order you out of a catalogue? Have fun when you're sent back to whatever 3rd world country he found you in.

a_lot_smarter_now

Talk to a lawyer anyway. He's trying to scare you, because he knows as his wife, you are entitled to half of what he owns. You need to get a lawyer, and take what you can from his sorry butt, then go back home to your family, Honey. If you want to stay here, then stay, but on your own. Don't keep hoping he's going to fulfill your dream for you. He's been very clear to you that he doesn't want to. Make yourself some good friends here to help you through this. Find someone you can trust to walk you through this mess and be there for you. I know what it's like to leave everything you own behind to be with someone (although in my case, it was just one side of the US to the other), and then be hurt so badly by them. You'll be okay. Someone ELSE will love you for the beautiful woman you are.....but not this guy. By the way, he cannot destroy you any more than he already has, so what do you have to lose by standing up to him? He's a loser.

ice_aka_ice

oh boo-hoo. You just wanted to come to this country and become a citizen without going through the correct process. You deserve to be deported back. Plus you must be a lousy lover if you are not properly servicing him.

MissUnderstood

You sound like a hoax. The first part of your rant is typed in perfect broken English, but you spell amazingly well for a person from another country.
I smell a rat.

SuSu

Fine a man that u belive in. And very strong. then let him know your husband. And tell your husband that you hate him. Don't live with him and he will know how it feel like to have a wife like you.

SECRET woman

NUMBER 1: PLAN
Number 2: make a plan b.

With in plan one think money, i know that this is something that you probly cant get your hands on but there are ways, think think, Think getting a credit card that you can fill, they sell them at wal mart or any department type store, always place money on this money card this will help you.

With plan TWO, think of places to go and hide. You didnt mention kids, so i assume that soon he will get another woman much younger from the same country so you must think of a place to hide out DO NOT GO TO SHELTERS they will not help you. and the rules are so that you will not succeed with the break up or Break out.

LAST but not least TRUST NO one, if he is the way you say, he has turned people against you in one way or other so dont tell anyone that HE KNOWS about whats happening. like your family and friends,

so in short,

SAVE MONEY

MAKE A ESCAPE PLAN

Keep quiet.

GOOD LUCK

Babe

you can go to a womens shelter until you get on your feet. And they'll help. Don't be afraid to talk to lawyer you don't want to stay in that marriage anyways so who cares what he's going to do. be a fighter don't let him bring you down

Sarah A

He is a horrible man and I am sorry that he is this way to you but, being here in America there are women shelters that you could run to and also since you are married you could get half of what he has you have that right now. Eventhough you don't have any where to run or to go to you could very well go to the nearest hospital and they could point out some local shelters that you could go to. I would get to a womans shelter to get away and think for a few days and then see if you could find a good lawyer and and get some of what he has and a divorce for sure. I would probably just try to get as far away as I could from him and start over with or without any money, or you could stay a while and try to find at least one good friend who could help you get out.

tor_bellydancer

Go to your embassy they will help you. They have people who specailze in this kind of thing

HEH

Ouch! Bad situation. I don't have any advice for you. But I do have plenty of sympathy. Find a job, try Walmart. Get some money saved up, and get your life together. You don't need him or his money. You will find someone (a good man) else in good time, but first wash your hands of the man you are married to now and get on with your own life. You can do it. I know you can.
If you need to talk or if there is anything I can do to help, I've been in a similar situation with my ex husband feel free to email me hehickey@yahoo.com. I wish you the best.

Grand pa

You need to contact imigrant service now. if he hurt you he can be charged with donmestic violence and go to jail..

Jill knows best

I think You should fight with everything you have. Woman are Strong Beings.... Good luck

Emi

I think you should not listen to him and just go get a lawyer and never talk to him. Cause if he distroy you, you would see him in jail if you went in jail for some reason.

Nekko

I hope this guy hasn't destroyed your image of this country. You don't have to feel like you are alone, if your marriage was real, that made you a citizen of this country, if he is threatening you, you can go to the authorities, you must report his behavior so that progressive measures can be taken. Speak to the police about a social worker, there are programs and assistance with finances and living arrangements you probably qualify for. Trust me, you will find someone who will honor and respect you, but right now, focus on getting this guy out of your life, then you can build your own future with your own hands.

Kat G

#1 you are his wife half of what he has is yours. #2 call the police if he threatens or hits you and he will go to jail for the night . #3 If he sells the house he can not send you back also he can not put you on the street as you have a legal address and are married. You can seek a YWCA in your area they help woman in your situation and also check with legal aide for a free lawyer.

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