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gotstobe06
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Where have you been all of my life? No, honestly I feel bad, you sound like a great guy, and there are few of those now. I think you should just let her go. It sounds like she just keeps you around out of sympathy or to do you a favor. You don't need to live your life that way. I am pretty sure you want someone to love you back in the same way and be just as faithful. Unfortunately I don't think she is the one that meets these qualifications. Hit me up! (Just kidding) Good luck
P.S- I wuld like to know what you decide on, or what happens to both of ya'll. |
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bina64davis
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I'm sorry, but I think she will just continue to cheat on you, and who needs that constant worry in their life? I realize you probably love her, but it would be better to end it now, than wait until you are married, or living together with this child that may or may not be yours.
Good Luck. |
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melouofs
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If you're the faithful type, that's all the more reason to run for your life. Once the baby is born, have a DNA test performed, and if the child is yours, file for partial custody or whatever you feel is right. She is bad news--especially if she would cheat with your family! |
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Mike
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You can not trust her hense you can not be with her. |
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zyann0102
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This is really up to you but, do you think she could change? If not get out you don't deserve the abuse. Have the child tested to see if it is yours. Or if you think she could change try couseling together or something and make it work. It's all up to you weather you think she is worth it or not. People make mistakes that is ok but do they learn from them or not is what makes you question them. Good luck with this, I hate to hear stuff like this, I know how it feels and it can make you feel like you are a piece of **** and you are just not good enough. I really hope that you know better then this, and realize she is the one with the problem not you. Oh and by the way you say you have talked to this girl for over 3 years, maybe you two have never commited to each other and she don't think you are boyfriend and girlfriend and feels free to do who she wants. Otherwise wouldn't you say dated or have been seeing something like that? Talk sounds like you had a friend with benefits to me, not a relationship. |
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daniellecjm
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Just be there for your child (if it's yours), get a dna test when that baby is born, and be an exceptional dad, screw her.!!! You deserve better. |
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rene197320
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Get a DNA test and unil the baby's born go to the doctors appointments anything for the welfare for the baby. But i think you should leave her. You can be a father without being a couple. |
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matsystud
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run forest run, get away from the cheating hoochie! |
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txladybug_2
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nah dump her |
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Josie
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First of all, contact the Jerry Springer Show, they would welcome her and your story!!! Then - get away from the skank and demand a paternity test (that she should pay for). Will guarantee that baby is not yours and she probably doesn't know who the father is. She's using you and abusing you - run from this trashy girl and find someone else. |
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perfectxxromance
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I would end the relationship with her but remember there is a baby involved that is completely innocent but as soon as the baby arrives I would have a DNA test done. |
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Truth Hurts
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Bless your heart! It's usually the other way around. And here she has a good man and can't appreciate him! She's to the curb, time to clock out! |
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ERICKSMAMA
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wow...I would be thinking about the baby too..Wait it out and see if the baby is yours if it comes out to be yours, then try to work it out..if not just leave and let her live her life. |
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♥ Mae ♥
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I Think U Know What You Should Do And If You Don't Then You Deserve Whats Coming... Sorry But Truthfully Get Rid Of The B*tch And When That Baby Is Born Get A DNA Test Stat ! |
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FLOYD L
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leave now before you do something you really would regret. |
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s a
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Wait till the birth of the child and get paternity checked. If the child is indeed yours, you could warn her with dire consequences otherwise you could leave her for the good. |
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child of God
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This is from experience- don't trust someone who does that to you and you're not even married. Say thank God you didn't marry her cuz you'd be in a 'til death do us part' situation.
Although I know people who were like angels before they transformed into veritable devils...
Ask God to direct you. |
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dimples
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my dear leave her alone, its not worth it.you need someone loyal and guard your heart.x. |
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a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net
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Do, you think that you are not worth, anything when you let this woman walk all over you? When she cheated on you with your Cousin, is when you should have shown her the door, what makes you stay with her, if she is a cheater, and also, as you say that you do not know if the Baby she is carrying is yours. Make sure that when that Baby is born have a paternity, test to make sure the Baby is yours.Run, not walk from her, if you value yourself, because you will never be happy and she will never change her ways, does she Loves, you? I think not, she thinks that she found herself a scapegoat that will do her bidding. Good luck, and I hope that you will be able to go on with your life and forget she ever existed. |
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tic22
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once a cheater always a cheater i'll tell u one thig to get a dna test when the baby is born but just because she is carrying ur child dont mean that u have to b with her i say move on u can do better |
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se_sme
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your wasting your time once a cheater always a cheater, and i would make sure to get a paternity test when the child is born |
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palaboy
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Kick her *** buddy, she will kept in doing it, move on go an find better one for yourself. |
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christina30
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If she even messes around with your relatives who WON'T she do it with? Dump her, get a DNA test and move on. |
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sandilp72
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It is going to be hard, but you need to leave her. Once the child is born, go to the Child Support Recovery office in your area and file a case. Explain you need to have a paternity test and they will pay for it. Tell them clearly that if you are indeed the father that you want custody on the grounds that she is unstable and you do not feel that she would do what is best for the child.
My little brother is going through a similar situation right now. He is waiting on the paternity test to come back. |
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Tinker CW
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Just because she is supposedly carring your child is not a reason to stay with her. When the baby is born find out for sure and play your role as the father. Do not be with her for the wrong reasons because it will not last and only get worse with time. She has cheated on you and with family at that. This girl has no respect for you and as long as you are with her you are basically telling her...yeah its ok to cheat on me because I'm not going to leave you. Don't let her use you and use the baby as an excuse to stay with her. You can play your part as a father and not deal with the abuse from her. |
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niecey
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i hate when someone breaks my heart because than i won't let the next boy in my love. |
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momof3
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Call Jerry atleast he'll pay for the testing...lol |
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CARL P
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move on mate u mite catch something of it |
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Answer Girlz
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You stated that you have talked to this girl for 3 yrs so how is she pregnant if you only talk. You need to get a life and find some new friends. |
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