Heavy Marriage Pressure?
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Heavy Marriage Pressure?
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Both of our parents are giving us pressure about getting married. We have talked about it and he isn't "ready" and I don't want to just because we have been together 2 years but because we both want to and are ready. We are planning a big move out of state within the next year. We have a beautiful home and 5 yr old son. When I talk about it he just shuts down.
How do I get our parents to understand where we are on this issue? How do I get him to realize I am happy and ok with where we are but it is an issue we have to deal with?
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funngirly
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I just want to ask: Don't you think you deserve to be with a guy who is DYING to marry you? Who can't wait to make that commitment? Basically you will receive whatever YOU think you deserve. For sure don't do what your parents want, however a guy who is not ready after 2yrs will likely never be ready. You don't want to be that gal who was "engaged" for seven yrs, wasted her time "waiting".
You have a 5yr old and you are not married. Can't blame the parents for trying to help you. Their intentions are good but your life(and more importantly your son's life)and how happy you will be, is up to you. Good luck! |
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abused no more!!!
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Your going to have to tell both sets of parents to back off! When you and your boyfriend feel the time is right to marry you will get married. Don't let your parents influence either one of you until the time is right and only the two of you can decide what is right for you! |
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meesh_nicole
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I don't think that you need to tell your parents anything. It is your life. you have a son, you know what you are doing. Tell them that when you are ready to get married you guys will. If you stop talking to him about it, he should get that it doesn't bother you. |
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T's world
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if you feel that marriage is an "issue" then maybe it IS best that you guys keep things the way they are. If you are both happy with it then tell your parents that at this time in your lives this is what is working for you. Tell them that there is a time for everything in life and that this is not the time for marriage. When it is time you will feel it and they will be the first that you will tell. Tell them that the pressure to marry when you ARE NOT READY is hurting your relationship and that they should give you some space on that subject. |
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♥B@BY~GURL♥
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oooooooooooo my DONT DO IT UNTILL YA'LL ARE READY |
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