Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

liz

yeah i agree leave him why plan with someones feelings? remember you also can be in the same place in a not so far future.

Make sure your ex boyfriend feels the same way as you do, and please break it off with the husband...it's really not fair, right?

Monster

of course your ex is always going to treat you better because you guys dont live with each other.

cave man

The first question I have for you is if you really feel this way, why didn't you and your ex get married in the first place? There is a reason he is your ex. If he was really so great of guy or if your relationship with him was so great you wouldn't have broken up. Secondly, as a married woman you should never put yourself in a position where you should be thinking about another man. The problem with our society is that people often take marriage too lightly. Marriage is hard work. It takes a lot of love, dedication and commitment. One reason things seem better with your ex is because it is a carefree relationship. When you are with him you don't have worry about any of life's responsibilities. You don't have to worry about paying utility bills, the mortgage, car payments, finances or any other typical responsibilities that come with marriage. What I am trying to say is that your relationship with your ex is really an illusion. The two of you have absolutely no responsibility or obligation towards one another whatsoever. However, it will be an entirely different situation once you add responsibility and commitment to the equation. If you were to leave your husband and marry your ex, you find yourself in the exact same situation that you are in now. The reason things seem good with your ex is because the two of you are only dealing with the physical aspects of a relationship. Let the time come when the two of you have to worry about kids, paying bills, such as rent, mortgage, car payments, insurance, etc, etc. You need to grow up, stop being selfish, kick your ex to the curb and work on your marriage. I have one final question for you. You talk about how your husband doesn't treat you as good as your ex, how do you treat your husband? If you were to become seriously ill or injured right now, who do you think would really be there for you? Your ex or your husband? Allow me to answer this one for you. Your husband. Peace and God bless.

if you don't feel that way towards your husband..maybe you should divorce. and especially if the ex treats you better. don't waste both of you guys time being unhappy. leave your husband, and get with the ex who treats you better, and who you're actually in love with. you owe it to yourself to be happy. stay with whoever treats YOU better.

freida.

LEAVE HIM?

Are you stupid? You sound like the horrible one, not your husband. If you don't love him, get out now, for his sake. Maybe he senses this and resents you for it and that's why he treats you "badly." Ever think of that?

ndm1958

There is no answer that will not end up hurting someone. The question is does you ex feel for you like you feel for hm. Also it is unfair to compare your husband to him they are two different people. You need to ask yourself why you really married this man. Aa long as you compare your husband to him you will never be happy. Why did you and your ex break up for in the first place and was hooking up with your husband a rebound relationship or were maybe trying to make your ex jealous. I would write down your thoughts just as they come out until you have nothing left in your head to write then read it a couple of time and then destroy the letter. Good Luck

stevoe2

Look the word commitment up. We don't always get what we want, but keep it up and you will get what you deserve.

rpetch007

then you must go to the x as he will treat you well again .. dump you husband now ..

teenie

If your EX treated you that good then why isn't he your husband instead of your ex .I think your just remembering what you want to remember when it comes to your ex. Your husband is your husband so treat him as such.

SinZombie

You will fall in and out of love over the years. You've made a commitment to your husband, and I encourage you to talk with him about your feelings and see if you can make the marriage work. It's pretty easy to find someone you don't have to live with appealing.

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