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Help Im in love with a guy who is married??
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the first time i met him, was in the clinic i always took my nephew's to, he is a doctor.
he took my number and called to check on the kid cuz he was sick, i asked him for a specialed doc and he gave me his moms # who is also a doctor and his aunts# she is also a doc, from what i heard about every one loves him and adores him, he is a sweet heart. we talked back and forth, until i found out he was married, I stoped and took a step back, then i went to see him in the clinic one last time. i stopped any contact with him. It was the hardest thing i ever did, its been 1year now. i went back almost a year later to the clinic cuz i could not take this anymore. his coworkers told that he left the town. I felt even worse, cuz his coworker told me why did you not come, he kept hinting stuff like i broke his heart or sometning,,than he finally said this is what happens when you wait too long! he gave his number and left. I dunno wat to do, he means the world to me, I tried to forget!
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chrismc30590
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just forget it, hes married, you don't want to be a home wrecker, no matter how much you might love him. Probably best thing to do is find someone else, someone who's not married and doesn't have a family, it will help take your mind off this guy. |
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ehrlich
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Well keep forgetting it. Don't be a home wrecker and whats to say that if he left this wife that he wouldn't leave you |
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Wildflower
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He's married, he's married, he's married! Leave it alone. Obviously he had your number and if had chosen to pursue you, he would have. He didn't and he continued to choose his wife. Keep trying to forget and move on... |
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poppyday..
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don't be a silly sue... |
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lady_phoenix39
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Oh please. His "co-worker" told you that he left town because you broke his heart?? Give me a break. If you never dated him and the guy was married, why on earth would he go around telling his coworkers about it?
I'm not sure I even believe that part of it, but even if I do, HE IS MARRIED. HE IS OFF LIMITS.
You think being a cheater and a homewrecker is better than being hurt????? |
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fancyfacehotgal
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would u like someone hittin on ur husband???
there is ur answer |
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t
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He has obviously gotten over you. You need to do the same. Move on and call it experience. Don't make the same mistake again. |
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nupeper
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get over it... he's married, move on, cuz he sure as hell did lmao |
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Exey
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Sounds like a real professional that I would want taking care of my kid....................... tell yourself to get over it. I work in a hospital and yes, I too am "hit on" by married doctors. It repulses me, as it should you as well. Believe me when I tell you it's an ego trip for him and nothing else. He's already moved on to his next "heart break". Poor wife. |
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danieloholic
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forget him. there such a person who really meant for you |
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MJ
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Sue it was just a Dr fantasy.... move on and leave his family alone..... |
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DaBoy1414
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It'd not right to cause a man to cheat and ruin a happy marriage. You will find love again, trust me! |
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carol t
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What you give you will receive 10 times over. Be it good or bad. Do not destroy a family.
If you take him from her, someone will take him from you.
You are accountable for all that you do in life. |
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jaded
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he was never yours. you did the right, admirable thing. you can hold your head up. there actually is really nothing more to it. |
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pro_steering_wheel_holder
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he's married... don't be a home-wrecker. |
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thirty9raindrops
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you have no right to try to contact this man, he is married.. do you really want a man that is a cheater? or to become the other woman? put yourself in her shoes! |
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Helen W.
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Honey, I'm sorry to tell you this, but you are out of your mind. I can't tell whether or not you made up this relationship in your head or whether the guy did something to encourage it, but either way, the guy is married. Worse, he's a doctor, and I can tell you from personal experience that there is no worse relationship material than a doctor. Get your head on straight and stop obsessing about this. |
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AMNESTY
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You better forget! I'm married and as a married woman, I say if he want to leave he will.....end of story. He didn't leave when you fell in love, so it wasn't love. Get over it you got used. I feel sorry for the wife. Don't worry about him hes probably doing another parents ant. Once a cheater always a cheater that goes for both of you. So, if your lonely call someone else! Don't you have morals, you need to read the bible and get a clue. Don't be a home wrecker!
I CANT BELIEVE YOU TOOK THE NUMBER IN THE FIRST PLACE! I HAVE 3 KIDS THAT'S NEVER HAPPEN TO ME. I THINK ITS MORE HOW YOU PRESENTED YOURSELF FROM THE BEGINNING! |
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Maria
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HE
IS
MARRIED !!
LEAVE
HIM
ALONE !! |
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Funny Girl
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You better fall out of love real fast. Let it be on your terms, otherwise you are going to get so burned. |
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annynoumous
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Daaaaaang woman! Get some self respect. If he wasnted to contact you he would have he knew how to get a hold of you,but he didn't. You need to move on cuz he ain't even available to you anyway...
You deserve better and it will come to you. Just be patient and not a patient of his.....lol lol No pun seriously intended |
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heyy
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get away from him.... stay him happy with his family.... |
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mary j
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i know it wasn't your fault that you fail for a married man. you also have to put in to play that what goes around comes back around, so what i mean is it can happen to you, now that you know that he's married and still with his wife you shouldn't be contacting him on that level ,as a matter of fact you shouldn't contact him period |
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Carolyn
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Okay, it's obvious that he had feelings for you, but if he was willing to cheat on his wife to be with you, I don't think you should pursue this. If you ever see him again, and things start working out in your favor, how do you know he won't do the same thing to you!? |
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M K
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If only there was a pill we could take, a switch we could flip, to turn off love.
I know this will not be a popular piece of advice, but give him a call. See where he is in his life right now.
I think getting the answer to that question will be a defining point in your life. |
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hooahwife
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HE is married. If he would date you or sleep with you or whatever you desire from him and cheat on his wife...then he would cheat on you too! Don't be stupid and don't be a homewrecker. Get over it and move on to a single man. |
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jess l
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DO NOT PURSUE THIS MAN |
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Kat
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First of all, you aren't "in love" with him. You don't know him well enough. You have a crush on him. Second, how do you feel about guys who cheat, especially on wives? If you think they are pigs, why would you want to date one? And if he's willing to cheat on his wife with someone he doesn't even know, how do you know he'll be faithful to you? And do you want to ruin his marriage? Put yourself in his wife's place. Obviously I say get over it and do not pursue him. It'll save a lot of people a lot of heartache. |
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Fran J
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let it go hes a married man and someday when you get married you wouldnt want your husband to cheat. put yourself in her shoes. what it could do to her. walk away. |
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