*Help i need advice here please read*?

My great grandma passed away. I was her favorite.

She left me $283,000. I'm 18 years old, and all of my cousins has always treat me bad, and keep me out of the fun things like when they go out they will not invite me.

It's always been like this, when the new shoes came out i will be the first to get them. They will talk smack, and then go buy whatever i had.

But there is one that is a pain in the ***! , when i get something. He say's wow that's ugly. Next thing i know he has it!. Hes always comparing me to other people like he has more $ then you. Or i bet you can't buy a ferrari, when he knows i can.

I met this girl which i liked. He also liked her, he told our secret about this day when me, and her mess around in the beach. Which then scared her off, so shes gone now.

Is all my family hating on me?, and what should i do about this?

SweetiePie

Look inside yourself and figure out your own self worth ( It has nothing to do with money) . You need to stop looking for and seeking approval from others. Discover for yourself what ...
1. Makes you happy.
2. Makes you a good person

If others want to compare themselves with you, let that be their issue. YOU Be your own person.

Thou you are 18 here are some great ideas by H. Jackson Brown, Jr.

21 Suggestions for Success

1. Marry the right person. This one decision will determine 90% of your happiness or misery.
2. Work at something you enjoy and thatâ€™s worthy of your time and talent.
3. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
4. Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
5. Be forgiving of yourself and others.
6. Be generous.
7. Have a grateful heart.
8. Persistence, persistence, persistence.
9. Discipline yourself to save money on even the most modest salary.
10. Treat everyone you meet like you want to be treated.
11. Commit yourself to constant improvement.
12. Commit yourself to quality.
13. Understand that happiness is not based on possessions, power or prestige, but on relationships with people you love and respect.
14. Be loyal.
15. Be honest.
16. Be a self-starter.
17. Be decisive even if it means youâ€™ll sometimes be wrong.
18. Stop blaming others. Take responsibility for every area of your life.
19. Be bold and courageous. When you look back on your life, youâ€™ll regret the things you didnâ€™t do more than the ones you did.
20. Take good care of those you love.
21. Donâ€™t do anything that wouldnâ€™t make your Mom proud.

askalicious

go to college or move away from your family or something.

idk i think alyssa's advice is pretty good.

Quasimodo

LOL Alyssa

januckey

You already asked this and it's already been answered.

Guytheterrible

Put your money where even you cant get at it for a few years while you try to get your head straightened out. You sound confused and a bit scattered to say the least.

put your $ in something and don't touch it. Don't buy things and wait to see what your cousins say about it, obviously you don't have a good relationship with them so who cares what they have to say about things you buy. $ can ruin things in your life, as you are finding out. Separate yourself from it (invest it in something or put it in a high interest savings account) and work for a living and use it when you really need it, like making a full payment on a house! Trust me, you'll want to spend all of it now but later on you'll smack yourself on the forehead if you don't use some maturity with the decision.

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