Help me...ex partner dilema!!!?

Me and my ex partner split up almost a year ago, we were together for 2 years he was my first serious relationship and first love. we went are seperate ways and he met a girl and was in a relationship with her for about 6 months. before they split up i heard he missed me and once they split up i have started seeing him again. we dont see eachother that much we just always chat on MSN or facebook. we have seen eachother a few times over the duration theyve been split up but i think hes still speaking to her? i cant be straight and ask whats going on because then i feel like im nagging but im so confused. this always happens and i just feel like im never going to move on if he is always there holding me back. i need to think of a way to back off to see if he does any chasing but its hard...what to do?!

Peter H

move on

Ruby Jane

Honestly.....
You should move on !

Pamela C

Be a "big girl !" If you are mature enough to consider yourself in a relationship, then promote that maturity by conducting yourself like a grown-up. Seriously. There's a big difference in nagging and being "straight up". Sit him down and have a good old-fashioned face-to-face about your alliance. You need to know, apparently. It's for the best because confusion in a relationship always breeds distrust, suspicion and stagnation. What are we doing? Are you communicating with your old squeeze? What are your intentions with me? These are all appropriate questions to pose to your partner. If they cause him significant discomfiture then beware. Best advice is: Don't play games!

Bella.xx [TWILIGHT RULZ]

Talk to him and tell him how you REALLY feel, truthfully and honestly that is!! Good Luck! :)

Garth B

If he has not asked you out again, I would say that he is still hoping for some reconciliation with the other girl. It sounds like he wants to maintain a friendship with you but for the time being has no further plans.

If you feel that you cannot move on without cutting off all ties, then you should do that and look to build a relationship with someone else. On the other hand, it sounds like you still want this guy. If so, you might decide to maintain the internet connection while exploring other possibilities.

chacha

Uhh sweetie, - He's not holding you back. You are holding you back. If you want to know how he feels about you, just ask him. It's not nagging and you've got the perfect forum to do so - the internet. While you're chatting with him, just casually ask him. You stated that you started seeing him again. So just casually ask him while your on-line with him if he wants to continue seeing you. It takes the pressure off of asking him in person. Okay?

And finally, find out how he really feels about you before you wait to see if he's gonna "chase" you. Hope this helps. Let me know how it works out for you.

Vek

He's not holding you back...you are. You should ask yourself if you want to be with him again. Whatever your decision, work towards that.

Douglas B

Gut feelings are usually never wrong. Also someone that is moving around as fast as he is is also a player, he's lining up as many women as he can so that one doesn't want him he can go to another or if he gets fed up with one he moves to another. Whatever the case just write him off so you can move on for you are right, he's the one who is holding you back, but that's part of his game plan. Don't be a played one of his.

metallica

good for you, at least you know that you have to move on and back off, you could start by not txting, phoning or leaving messages on his face book & don't start a conversation with him on msn, Let him start conversations with you & give him minimal answers, then see how much chasing he does.

good luck.

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