Here is a brill questions.....read on?

lazarlin

this happened to my next door neighbour for some reason the vasectomy had,nt taken properly...
they sued and won....

jade4e83

well even after a vasectomy this can still happen, it's actually pretty common from what i've heard.

Gaspode the wonder dog

He should go get a fertility test. They can sometimes reverse themselves.
One thing occurs to me - his wife must surely know about his vasectomy. Or maybe not. And there's his dilemma!

rozefyre86

his wife doesn't know about his vasectomy. therefore, he should be careful when he's finally honest with her if he wants her to be honest with him.

to be absolutely sure, you can do genetic tests after the baby is born.

tell him to be patient. things aren't always what they seem. and if he doesn't want a divorce, he'd better handle the issue well.

Niamh

Vasectomy's are not alway's 100% effective..
If his wife is over the moon and knows about his vasectomy then she has nothing to hide and the child is his.

Alex

Vasectomies are not 100% guaranteed.

It is sometimes possible to impregnate even after a vasectomy. Think leak!

Finally, in order to put his mind to rest, suggest he asks for a DNA when the child is born.

That is guaranteed!

beez

My advice to Mark would be to go to doctor and get checked out. If he is sterile, then he has a serious decision to make. The fact he got a vasectomy without his wife's knowledge--it appears--says something.

Courtney S

those things can reverse themselves..has he every thought that she might be cheating maybe he should confront her or go to the doctors to see if it reattached...

Maid Angela

I depends on how the vasectomy was done. When I had mine done the surgeon told me that he had stitched back each end of the cut tube so there was not chance of them growing together again. If this was not done and quite often I understand it is not (cheap NHS job I suppose) then there is always a chance of the tube joining up again. His best bet is a test to see what it happening.

lilmissdisorganised

The first thing he should do is get tested to make sure his vasectomy was a success. One in two thousand cases actually fail, as the tubes can join back together again.

And to be completely honest, if he has had it done without his wife knowing, then i don't think he's in a position to complain about his wife possibly cheating behind his back.

Elt

I'm wondering if the wife knows about the vasectomy....and if not, why not? Did he suspect her and was he just trying to set her up?

lost man

suggest to get medical expert to help in this situation. making assumption won't help much here.

anything can happen, till proved, no assumption and don't jump into conclusion yet pls.

Teri ann Sensible.

unless he had the vasectomy reversed than obviously the baby is not his but surely his wife would know that he had a vasectomy? he should be talking to his wife not you seems rather strange to me.

papabear098

Nothing is impossible just go to the doctor and have it checked out

REENIE29906

Before jumping to any conclusions, he should schedule an appt with the Doc who performmed the surgery, if test results come back showing he's not fertile....he should contact a Lawyer and get the divorce ball rolling!!!!

superstar

Same happened to my uncle turns out that vasectomy's arn't 100%. My cousion is the spit of my uncle, so theres no denying it!!!!!!!!

kathy_f

vasectomy is not 100% so ask him to go for a check up b4 he tries to confront his wife ....

lisab

First off did he go and make sure the vasectomy was successful? If yes then I guess he never informed his wife. I would have him go get tested to make sure he is still firing blanks. If he is...then she obviously cheated.
However I don't think she would tell him full of joy she was pregnant if she wasn't sure it was his or she is really great at being a liar.
If indeed the baby can't be his if he wants to try counseling wtih her that is up to him. If not be a true friend stand by him and encourage him to move on.

gunzi14

well u could ask him how does he feel about it... and how would he feel about telling his wife...

i cant think of anything else pal im sorry... i'll keep thinking for u...

xxx

lexi a

I think that all you should do is help him figure out what he is going to say to his wife, and then let him worry about it from there, because it sounds like a personal issue and he is a grown man he can figure it out himself =] i hope this helps!

The Mrs.

The wife didn't know he had one? Talk about poor communication...yipes.

montagne de jade

Mark can say it quietly to his wife. In any case, they should discuss.

ana

ouchhh

clo

Tezz, stay out of it ! He is a grown man, he needs to confront his wife by himself !!

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