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Hi , I just got married and I don't ever want to work!! I have not worked for 5 years and don't want to

How can I get my husband to agree. I just finished school and now he wants me to work. I don't want get pregnant anytime soon either. He makes more than enough to support us.


    




TMAC
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So what do you want to do? Just lay on your back and get screwed? Eat bon bons all day and play with your computer? You aren't all there girl and you don't seem to have any self esteem either.


I'm Gonna Tell You
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You sound like a lazy brat. He'll cheat on you in no time. Probably with a hard working white woman.


the_memory_of_ashes
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Why don't you try temp jobs? My husband makes a lot as well, but temp jobs give me the flexibility to quit anytime and keeps me entertained a couple of months per year. Beats just staying at home and doing nothing.


numba_1_babii
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ur just lazy get off ur azz an work


iwantsomeonetoeatcheeesewith
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good for u!
dont let anyone say u useless. if u are a good housewife, take care of the man, then it should all be cool. but please have kids for him in the next 5 years or so, if not, then u are useless.


julesl68
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Get off your diva a** and get a job. I have a sneaking suspicion that's what he thought you were going to school for, and he didn't marry you under the pretense that you were never going to work. It's not right for you to take this stand now.


angel_eyes_31_31
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well 1. if u go to work theres no time really to make babies
2. if u stay home theres plenty of time for babies
3.work for both of u is good keeps ya both busy.
4. keeps u in shape off the couth and out of the bed if u work.


waney
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Too late honey, you should have had this all laid out BEFORE you trapped this man into marrying you. It's too bad you were not honest with this man by being who you REALLY are, which is a lazy, dishonest, brat wo thinks she ought to get her way. Marriage is not 50/50, baby, it's 110/110. That means you have to give, too!


~*bunny*~
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tell him u wanna get the house ready and things for when u guys have kids and then when u have kids say u wanna be a stay at home mom tell him ud love it if u could jus stay home and clean and fix dinner in time for when he gets home


LaQuisha P
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Look Leticia, homegirl, I'm coming at you woman to woman. I have worked every since I was 17, and I'm almost 30 now, and believe me you getting out there working is no problem, if you get out and work for yours, you will enjoy the VALUE of nice things versus enjoying the IDEA of Having nice things. I guarantee you ain't nothing worse than having your man be embarrassed to say "Oh she got a degree, but she ain't doin' s**t though! A man loves to have a woman that can take care of herself, eventually it will become a huge argument in your household. Look at it this way if he ever leaves you can handle your own. Depend on NO MAN! The bible tells you that. Why, because Man (man or woman) will let you down every time. As far as kids go looks like you guys should have sat down and talked about what you both expected out of this marriage.


altorn_achm
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Ladies and gentlemen...Laziness at it's finest. SOrry chick but it's either get a job or pop out a couple little ones. My suggestion, get the job. Save the rest of us from your kind procreating


?
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get a job ya slacker!

Actually, if you can afford to stay home do it.
What do you plan on doing anyway?


marieandlucaspape
Um from experience, you want to work! Atleast part time! It may seem all good and dandy for awhile, but eventually you will start to go brain dead! Not only will that happen, it will cause problems between you and your husband.


Maria O
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I'll tell you I worked all my life and hard but our buissness has soared in the last few years so I decided to quit working for the past year this is not a life im bored to tears and looking for a job so take your time you just got out of school you may change your mind


vvvlambert
I hear ya sister. My best friend hasn't worked in seven years and she has been married seven years and she doesn't plan on working. It is a mans job to support his family! Good luck!


Joel M
all that means is that you are usless and lazy, and he should think about an enollment, it sounds like he is in for a long tough ride, untill he gets smart enough to leave you


Elana
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If you aren't going to have children and you aren't going to work,
what are you contributing to the wellbeing of the relationship?

Money? Time? What?

I'm guessing he's feeling pretty used right about now.


mini_stef26
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I would divorce you. Move your butt and work like everybody else unless you want to be a at home mom soon. Don't you have any pride? You want to ask him for an allowance every week? Be independant.


DEEDEE Y
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I havent worked in 4 years either, at least not a paying job.
Being a mom is a job, just not recognized as work.
I love not working, and I go shopping all the time.
My man makes about a 120,000 a year, in Canada.


?
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i see divorce in your future no one wants to support another with good health it take two to make it have more two incomes are better than one


cinsaint1
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What did you go to school for? Did you get a degree? What about working part time? Contributing to the world will give you a sense of self worth!


MaryBeth
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HaHa.
I really don't know what else to say...


bluez
Why did you go to school if you didn't want to work? Quit being lazy.......


lapeer_gal
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about the only way you can get him to agree with you is......get a job and devote all your time to it..... don't make time for anything else.
even him.... your to tired from working all day. to tired or have to work so house work don't get done or time to make dinner.... things like that.... then he will want you to quit and stay home. trust me it works !


juju
I hope you signed a prenup. If you didnt, your husband is stupid.


racenangel_gurl
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i dont blame you, take a year off start from there, i did.


zether
ahhhh, so you just want a free ride?

get to work and contribute to the family effort


chloë
what do u do in your free time? stop being lazy and get your *** to work! seriously he works why shouldn't you that doesn't sound fair at all. your just being spoiled.


laa_dee_*****_daa
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Hey Princess, get off your spoiled azz and buck up. You won't have a husband for long with that lazy attitude.





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