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Honest answers please- Cheating on your partner....?

If there was a stunning man/woman willing to sleep with you- no strings attatched and there was absolutley no chance of anyone finding out about it would you go ahead with it if you had a partner??!


    




advice guru and mom
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No because there is not such thing as no strings attached someone always gets hurt someone always ends up with more feelings than they expect... and the guilt you will feel abut cheating is not worth the hour of pleasure.


SHoward
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No, I'd still have to live with myself


INTERNET HATE MACHINE 4.0
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No there is never any valid reason to sleep with someone else

You are just looking for an excuse


KJ
see here's the thing... you can talk about 'no strings' till you turn blue but in real life, every action will have some type of reaction. (strings).


Claudia
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no!! your still gonna feel guilty and eventually your tell your partner because the guilt will be eating away at you.


marie
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i had the chance but i dindt


Forlorn Hope-only 5 suspensions
nah, there is always a catch... like they are diseased!!!


blues breaker
nope. it doesn't matter if one gets caught. what matters is what's right.


//{*_*}\\
NO WAY .. never never never in a MILLION years !!!!


Sasha's Mommy
No, because I would always know I did it and carry tremendous guilt about it. I've learned that lust gets you no where, it's love that can carry you to the end of the rainbow :)


Elley
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Nope. There is no way. I couldn't live with the guilt. I couldn't do that to him.


daisyflower_x
Erm nope.
Surely if you are with someone its because u want to be with THEM?
If you want to sleep with someone for no strings fun, leave your partner.
Its not fair on them
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wytchey
I wouldn't, not because I am trying to take any kind of moral "high ground", but just because I couldn't imagine sleeping with anyone else but my partner! We have been together all my adult life, 12 years, and it would just feel weird for me to be intimate with anyone else!

I guess I am lucky as I have never felt "tempted" by anyone else, so haven't had to test myself in that way!


Happy-2
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I don't know the definition of "partner". Isn't that a euphemism that long-term gay couples use?

However, if I had a "wife" (which I do), I would not do it, unless it was one of my celebrity crushes.


Mrs. Heather Schabby
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No, because I value the commitment I made to my husband. I'm too moral of a person to take advantage of such opportunities.

And, I value myself too much to be somebody's sl*t.


blondie
nope id never cheat i had it done to me and it was absolutly horrible id never do that to my boyfriend x y wuld u lol ???


Underwater Angel
I had the opportunity to be with someone from my past that way only add intimacy (friendship) to it
yet I chose not to because bottom line its dishonest. I could not live with knowing I had made a choice that could hurt someone I cared about.
Even if I no longer felt in love with my spouse, I could never break my vow or lie to him.
Bottom line, you have to live with ONE person forever that is you. You have to be someone you can respect and love. Loving yourself makes you able to be all that you can be and more.


Complicated
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No. For all the obvious reasons.


wornout
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Absolutely NOT!! I'd know and God would know and that's enough for me to remain faithful to my husband!! I don't want any other man and I never will!


Gina in Texas
No way! What if the person you slept with decided not to keep it quiet and started talking? What if you got a STD? How could you look your partner in the eyes knowing you'd cheated and were dishonest? How would you feel if your partner did the same thing to you??


GRACE H
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NO .because even if no one knew you will always know and now the question is what type of person have you become ?


gottapoke
how much is he paying me? It's got to be a good amount to get some of this...but yeah I'd do it!


LUKE M
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But you will always know. Your view of your spouse and marriage will be changed forever. You would have to live with your own conscience. The brief interlude of pleasure, is not worth a lifetime of shame and pain.


Birdie2006
Honestly, no. I would never forgive myself and the years of emotional torment I would put myself through for doing it would make it not worth it. The times I have been cheated on I have been evil in revenge and have never forgiven or forgotten. I can be as cruel as I have been because I hold myself to the same rules.


~Venus~
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No never, you dont do that if you love someone its just wrong.


Mrs Chicagosgirl!!
no way!
if i was that desperate to sleep with another man i would tell my husband and set it up so he could come and watch (and maybe join in!) lol


Miss Nikki â„¢
No--When I'm with someone, I'm in a relationship for a reason. Love is much more worth my time than a one-nighter.


Chinese Dumpling
Probably not. It would depend on the relationship.





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