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How Can I Get Revenge On My Cheating Husband?



    




ShaMRocK
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Give his best friend a BJ?


MBBRC
Sorry to hear about your cheating husband. You must feel all sorts of different levels of awful right now. My heart goes out to you.

When I first read this, I begin to think about all sorts of bad things like broadcasting a video web stream of your husband and his mistress or spiking his coffee with some laxatives or convincing him that he has an STD by giving him some medicine that turns his urine blue or something ridiculous.

But then it dawned on me that all of those things are temporary and might not really help you.

Here is my best advice:
Succeed in life. Move on. Be happy. Find the kind of contentment that people dream about. Get a job you love. Do things to better yourself. Never, ever look back.

That is the best revenge that you can have.


marcia f
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Revenge is a waste of time and effort. What goes around comes around. Eventually he will get his. Mean while use the time and effort to decide if you want to save the marriage or divorce him. If you want to save it then you will need marriage counseling so you can both get to the bottom of the problem as to why he felt the need to cheat. Usually it has to do with a lack of communication. One person is saying one thing but the other person is taking it wrong. If you think the marriage is not worth saving then you need to get a good lawyer and go for a divorce. Don't drag either one of these things out. Get on it right away. I mean if you want a divorce, file as soon as possible. If you want to save it then find a counselor tomorrow.


only 1 me
Leave revenge is for god


bandaid_46
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Living well is the best revenge. Seriously, getting even will hurt you more than it hurts him. Besides, it is immature.

If he is still your husband, file for divorce. Cheating is a deal breaker every time.

Then, pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and get on with your life. Good luck.


jude
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u get even by divorcing him, cutting all ties, being a success in life, and being happy in spite of your heartache. never let him know he hurt u. revenge will come to him in the form of karma, it did my ex. he did not get to live the happy life he thought he would with the other woman, as they fight like cats and dogs. he did not get to share in my inheritance i got right after we divorced, and he got something much worse than he had with me. he finally met his match with her.


WENDY G
Why waste your time? Leave him and find happiness in yourself then another.


bombhead
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why bother? revenge never makes anything better. besides, alimony hurts pretty bad - or so i'm told...


phelista
divorce him. who wants a cheating husband? that's revenge enough isn't it.


Kasja
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File for divorce, cut off all contact and never speak to him again. That is the best revenge. Anything else and you would be stooping to his level, don't be immature. Besides karma's a b*tch, he'll get what he deserves!!!!!!


benninb
nothing will ever change what he did, so move on with your life.


Nothingusefullearnedinschool
See if you can set a new world's record to beat Pamela Anderson ! And put it on You Tube, or similar.


Starlight4u2
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You can do all kind of things but really Karma~ karma!
It happened to my X`boyfriend and he was the cheater and I knew he was and I told him your going to get it right back at your face and he did!
This woman he thought he was in love with kissed another guy right in front of him at a dance club! Lol!!
Ps.. I like SusieQ anwser! Lol ;o)


Michael
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Instant message me...we can chat about it...and everything else on your mind...

Yahoo messenger IM: blarneystone72


Daddy's Girl
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Revenge is pointless...

what got him to this point?

Revenge - waist of time. he is just going to turn to another woman if not the same woman.

move on.


Alice S
DON'T TWO WRONGS DON'T MAKE A RIGHT Hes not worth the getting even ,and if you do what does that make you? happy even
what will it accomplish ? it will make you as low as he is
IF YOU HAVE KIDS ,you don't want to do this think this over


MetalHeart
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Threaten not to leave him.

You couldn't take greater revenge than sticking around.


AKAO4D
You can't and as long as you try, he's still winning. When you get yourself in gear and decide to go on with your life, things will change in ways you could have never imagined.

Good luck with that...


AlisonJonshon
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1)www. getrevengeonyourex.om
2) divorce him and kick him out ofrom the house
:)


Sleepy bum
Living well is the best revenge.


mimzy
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Don't let him have a divorce. When you do, have plenty of evidence that he's cheating and get everything he has and ever hopes to have. (I bet no good woman will want him if he's broke.) :)


angelbaby
I would say cheat on him but 2 wrongs don't make a right.Instead go to a online joke and gag store and purchase itching powder and put it in his underwear.The thought of him scratching his umm area all day would make me lmao.Do this anytime you think of what he did and it will help getting over it.


nydp02
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By divorcing him


Ace I
Stay with him


jumpinjupiter69
Well, what would you want done to you if you were caught?


Faith
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Move on with your life and be confident and happy. Your husband is insecure and selfish. Lookup the words narcissism, egotism, and egoism on the Internet.


billy p
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catch him,file for divorce,and get alimony...........money will break anything...........


Hello
Deal with it, grieve it and leave it (not Him the issues).
Revenge is a dish best served cold, whatever that means. But there is no fun in that since you have all the power and you will be adversely affected as well.

Don't divorce him for a one time incident if he comes clean and straightens out. Simply withdraw intimacy in a quiet and respectful fashion until you are ready to take him back. Life is too short and precious to focus on revenge. Deal with it and enjoy life again.





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