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sandeep k
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be natural
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Fishgutts
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Why not be yourself so when you get married your husband doesn't divorce you for being someone else. |
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Jet
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Denim miniskirt, no panties. Short, tight, low-cut cotton blouse, no bra. High (CFM) heels. |
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Mystic
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Are you serious? K.................just be yourself and you will find someone. |
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enamorado1691
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Justbe yourself, enjoy your life...make friends.....expand you rcircle of influence.....learn new things, do new activities |
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Lilith
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First of all, you have to find men that are ready for marriage. Men unconciously start to look for a mate around 30-37 years of age. Men will marry whatever woman they are with whenever they are ready to settle down. It really has nothing to do with finding the right person. You can tell that men are looking for a mate when:
1) They aren't driving a sports car or spending thousands on stereo equipment or high ticket bachelor pad items
2) Aren't hanging out in bars
3) Live in a house - not an apartment
4) Have a steady job
When all those things are in place, men look to move to the next level. You don't need to change yourself, you just need to keep an eye out for the men in the "ready" category. |
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Oo T
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yes, just be yourself. that's all it takes. always remember, everything is fated. i believe your dream guy will come to your life... |
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L
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Good luck in finding one! There are not many out there. Just want to let you know that no one is perfect, so if you meet a nice man but he doesn't meet all your criteria, don't throw him out the door yet. Give him a chance. My best guess for you is to be yourself but act in a sophisticated manner. Don't act childish at all or that is what you will attract. Act decent, caring, educated, and well established, and that's what you will find! Don't rush on the marriage thing though quite yet. It is 2007, we wait a while now before we jump into that. You don't want to be a statistic. Good luck in finding a good guy! |
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RAMAN IOBIAN
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BE ATTRACTIVE INTELLIGENT AND LOVELY BY NATURE. |
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Jasmeen
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well just be ure self cause if you try to someone you are not is a little weird |
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keral
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good carector with don't smok and drink |
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KNOWALL
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Males are attracted to females only because of their appearance in the first instance. Therefore you must devote time to improve your appearance- especially the important part of your body.Once a man is attracted to you then evaluate his qualities and then decide. |
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Tacyella
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well if you wanna get married and difforced then change your behaviour and style. if you want something real, just be yourself. the harder you look, the less likely you'll find something worthwhile. |
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morbidmoon
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Find a widowed man in his 50's at Starbucks...that should work. Good luck finding one younger than 35....seriously. |
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Heather S
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First off you need to respect yourself and love yourself for who YOU ARE, not for what you feel they want you to be. If you can't love yourself unconditionally then how can you expect a man to love you in the same respect?
You can attract them all you want, but you should want a marriage to last forever, and that involves being the person YOU want to be, not who you think they want you to be. |
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k_quraim
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when u make some conditions for ur husband u mast be the same first then .... go ahead |
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Joel
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Don't mention marriage and act like an independent women. |
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mickey g
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you HAVE to be you. thats all there is to it. you wouldnt want a man that was just pretending to be decent and caring until you got married and found out it was all a lie. |
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Harvinder
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just leave it 'mere ko dekh akela hai phir bhi tension free' |
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m
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Don't talk to guy's that drink and party a lot. Maybe church or the gym. Stop being attracted to badboys you gotta leave them for good |
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bbluckylove
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You sounds like a desperate housewife. You will get married when you find the right one. You can not look for love. You find love. Love happens when you least expect. Marriage happens when you find someone that is truly committed to marry you. Be yourself. Do not pretend to be someone else. People can sense that. |
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Sandeep G
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When u say the man is decent well educated and well established, then your good behaviour and smile can attract that person. Try to understand more of that person, what he likes etc.. |
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Execusuite
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Then make sure you are all those things and join eharmony.com. Wish you well. |
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yourfreind_forlife
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be yourself. |
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DKlyde
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Be out there, make yourself available but not to available. Men like the hunt so don't give it up early. |
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Forlorn Hope
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don't tell them you want to marry them for a start... :D |
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BabeHeart
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If a guy won't like you for you, you don't want him. And being marriage-minded is likely to scare off all those but the desperate/needy/codependent types. |
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berry
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Seek the help of match-making agencies. |
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Bondgirl
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Read "The Rules" . It gives some great advise and guidelines for attracting the marrying kind. |
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rcbricker33
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Be yourself. Nothing phony or played up to.
The most important part of finding a particular type of mate is to identify what you want and place yourself in environments that increase your chances of meeting them. If you are looking for Young Professionals go where Young Professionals go. |
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