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How can I break up with my gf without her posting our nude pics on the net? Seems I can't leave her?

We were a bit drunk when they were taken & she has all the digital photos with her. She said I have to stay for 6 months before she'll hand them back to me. What should I do?


    




jayo88
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Legally, as a pre-law student I can tell you that if she DOES post them it is NOT against the law unless she forced you take the pics. Otherwise any pictures taken with consent, in a common place or a place that the other person was invited to,and belong to her are her property and she can do with them as she pleases. UNLESS she willingly causes unecesarry or undue harm (i.e sending the pics to your boss causing you to lose your job). SO I suggest one, dont take these kind of pics with people you cant trust in the future, and just politely tell her you are no longer interested in pursuing a relationship. Chances are this girl doesnt really want to be with sombody who is just with her for some pics. And two, if you can record her saying she wont give you the pics unless you stay with her, and then you can take it to the police and file a charge for menacing/blackmail. Good Luck.


graysmom
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This is blackmail. Call the cops.


mad_xpert
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wipe her hard drive


ladylady4470
Tell her you will take legal action if she dose without your permission.....


lovely_lady
Doesnt sound right, just record her saying that, then break up with her. You have tape of her trying to blackmail you if she threatens to put em' up.


foxsuite
And then what'll happen after 6 months?

Blackmail! The nude pics she plans on posting....do they include her in them as well or are they only of you? If so, maybe you should bite the bullet and not give a crap about what she's going to do. Why stay with someone who threatens/blackmails you? If anything, most people pay attention to the girl in the nude photos, not the guy. I wouldn't worry about a thing.

Call her on her bluff. Leave the girl in the dust. Next time call her and demand for the pictures, but also tape record the conversation. And/or sue her for defamation of character. ha.


going postal
I would let her post them. You may get some new girlfriends out of the deal .


Jeremiah J
Call it a loss, bro


~*Bride 2 Be*~
**** your girlfriend.. She must be crazy to do this.. Call the cops.. its freaking blackmail and that **** is hella illegal.. tell her that... You don't have to do anything you don't want to do..

maybe next time don't take pics....


eauclaire101
whatever. It's not like she has your baby. 90% of nude pics that are actually looked at on the web are of women. Dudes aren't looked at much.


Marina
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She's twisted, so it's a good thing that you recognize this and want to get out. What she's doing is blackmail, and if she continues to hold such nonsense over your head and you can't stomach the six months (which you shouldn't because you will only empower her to get more creepy and cruel) go to the police and report what she's doing. Blackmail is illegal, and she is threatening your privacy. Does she realize people have been sued in this country for much less than that? Good luck!


hottie
just break up, then do not go to her website.....Maybe somehow get the photos.


paganmom
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Erase the pictures from her computer and memory card and drop her...she's obviously crazy.


Ms Foxy Girl
wow!! so she wants you to stay with her because she's blackmailing you? she doesn't love you that 's obvious so what makes you think she isnt going to post them anyway/????


scary mary
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Why do you have to stick around for six months? That's blackmail. Which is illegal.

I would steal them from her. Or just make sure you have something to get her back with.

Besides, who cares if your nudie pics are online? It's not like you're famous.


frank
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no big deal. at least other women will gett to see you naked with a chick. break up with her i your ready to. dont let her threatin you


butterflyfairykisses07
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Take her to court or wait 6 mos get the pics and then tell her to fuk herself


smiler21
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you say 'our' nude pics.to be honest i don't think she would put her own nude pics on the net? i'd call her bluff and tell her to do it.also is there anything you've got on her?any embarrasing info?threaten her with it.ask her what enjoyment she will get out of a relationship with a bf that doesn't want her.if you stay with her for the 6 mth she will keep doing it.good luck hope i don't see ya on the net lol


jaded
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let her post them. sounds like you have a SMALL problem here.

hahahah


Yner
Dump her! If you were only nude...what's the big deal. If they are more intimate photos then tell her that, should you see these photos on the internet or anyplace else, your lawyer will be contacting her. Do you have witnesses to these photos? Witnesses for yourself? If so, make certain she knows this. Also, remember, she is in the photos also, isn't she. Is she going to put her nude photos out there also. I don't think so! Dump her!


Lorenzo Steed
Are you out of your mind? Get as far away from this girl as fast as you can. You're breaking up with her! Who cares what she does with the pics? At least the pics will show you have some balls. Something you seem to be lacking at the moment.


Cinderella
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Call her bluff. That's what i would do. Do you really think that she wants naked pictures of herself on the Internet. The question is would you be willing to take the chance? The pics of you cant be that bad.

She's going to come off looking worse than you.

What kind of girl is she anyway? Who would want to blackmail someone into staying with them.

Get rid of her. If she does go through with it then you can do something about it.


Boriq D
that is fugged up, i would be cool with her and get at them photos...

lawd digitals can be anywhere you may get rid of one copy and she has 100 and also may have them hidden in a photobucket or a memory stick...

boy that one can get ugly, empower yourself and figure out something to put this flame out.

one thing is certain if you let her think that shizz is ok 6 month's gonna be a year, then two maybe 3.

At some point you are going to have to face the fact she is gonna put em out there. Also is she in any of those photos?

I kno you don't want em out there but if all is in order this may be a blessing! if she is in em she is the one going to look foolish.


Haunted
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Go through and delete them off of her camera and/or memory card, and if they're on the computer delete them from there as well.


Southern Belle
Just get over it and let her post them. Tell her to post them and tell her that it will only bring more women to you since they are seeing you naked now! Its her loss


mim
so stay with her a lil while longer...find her pics and cam...get rid of it and walk...if she has copies and post them...forget her...you can press charges..but i think she wants to push ur buttons


John
Tell her you do not want to break up with her. Then never call her anymore and soon she will loose interest.


sexkitten0208
stay for 6 months and then get them off her and dump her asss!





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