How can I comfort my husband? This lady lied and said he got her pregnant, he was worried about child support

locuaz

what about the fact that he cheated on you?
does that bother you at all?/

A G

the fact that you know about his affair and are still with him without blinking and eye, should be reason enough for him to be happy.

partknit

Ok I have new respect for you. Your husband cheated and you want to comfort him. Why??????

master_der_man

Let him try it again.

alwayscurious

Are you for real? Your husband cheated on you and you are upset because the other women never asked? No one should have to ask a man they are sleeping with if they are married. Why would you want to comfort a man who thinks so little of you? You said it made him hurt when she called off the relationship and you want to make him feel better? You are so sad, are you that desperate to be with a man? I'd kick his sorry *** to the curb and tell him to go F her all he wants.

cupidgirl

are you fu*king crazy?! you should be LEAVING your husband, not comforting him! how careful & considerate was he of YOU when he was CHEATING?! and you better watch out before he gives you an STD. geeze

Queen Burn

Dang girl!!! Call 911 you must be in shock!!!
He cheated on you....
He was a selfish bum who deserves much more pain then that.

nichols5072@sbcglobal.net

ok, first off, not to question your life, but how do you feel about him havin an affair? Secondly, women get revenge on married men all the time! Im sorry that he was hurt, but unfortunatly couldnt he have deserved it in some way? He should have been up front with her all along!!! Just my opinion!

y_r_all_men_insane

HELLO!!! he cheated on you and you are mad at HER??? its not his fault because she didnt ask?? she shouldnt need to! your not even mad at him for screwin around?? i guess hes gonna do it again because hes got himself a wife who doesnt seem to mind at all. you sound like you feel sorry for him....pathetic dont ya think????

magdalina

if he kept it in his pants this wouldn't happen... tell him he's a scum pig! your gonna support him? what are you on.... or does he have lots of money???... tell him to go get test for std's

Dogface Manny

what the hell ! he cheated ! why be nice to him ! I would have left ! I would have told him I wish you would have had gotten her pregnant so you can be with her because I'm gone and you . He obviously don't like you if he is getting it somewhere else !

chr1

you are an idiot if you stay with him. who care how he feels? I think he deserved this past week. I hope he was miserable and you should too

Abs

After reading through your other questions, I think you should seek some professional help. If you are really in this situation where your husband wants an open relationship and you think to just go along with it because he is the "man" and makes all the decisions you obviously have no respect for yourself. As for the other woman, i don't blame her for reacting that way, i'd probably resort to violence if it were me and as for live in your house with you, my god open your eyes love. Look at all the bad feedback you got from your other question and you dare to ask again....are you for real or making things up? Your life is not normal and would not be appreciated by many people.

k2u

r us serious why r you being so naive. this is a joke right. this man cheated on you with no regards to your feelings. you can't believe she was so mean to him are you for real why are you taking up for this man, boo you need counseling i heard of stand by yo man i hope he rich cause you a good one. what can you do pray and ask god for assistance with your marriage cause he is the only one that can help you guys no one else can help you but god and that's real talk. good luck hun and god bless

Bassetlover

Get a life loser, the only good thing you've done is boost my points thanks for another 2

Jan G

People you know this is a joke right?

Laura

i suspect you must be a candidate for Cannonization. You must be the most understanding woman in town. How can you feel sorry for how badly he feels when he's been cheating on you.............

jude

have respect for yourself, and don't allow him to treat u like that, u are his wife, and he has been cheating on you with her. what about his part in this, is he not to blame for most of it. he definitly has no boundaries. i would be more upset that he cheated on me and betrayed me than i would be that he was all stressed out.

ersabette

Are you for real?

He cheated on you and you're wondering how to make him feel better?

Am I missing something here?

JustMyOpinion

Wow, you either need psychological help or you need to get a life. What is up w/ your questions???

freeman3905@sbcglobal.net

buy him a box of candy let him stay home for a month from work and you get his beer and what ever he wants let him know you love him with all your heart then tell him about us and our baby

KRIS

#1 d n a does not lie.
#2 you are worried about him?
#3 you should be seeing a divorce lawyer!!!
to hell with how he feels. how do you feel having him betray you that way???
#4 what ever course you decide to take, take notes because it will definitely happen again!!!
and next time maybe there will be a bundle for him to support for the next 18+ years!!!

sweettee

are you serious?you gotta be joking, right? i bet he was depressed all week cause he knew his a** was caught. why be mad at her anyway? you aren't married to her, it is HIM you should be angry at. i'll tell you what you can do to get his mind off of her:divorce him.

mouse in chicago

You are a very strong woman, he should feel very blessed to have you for a wife. There are not to many woman that would be this supportive and understanding right after finding out that their man cheated. This just happened tonight and you are defending him. MUCH RESPECT TO YOU. Now to your question, you are comforting him and showing how much you love him right now, whether it feel like you are or not. Unless he has signed paternity papers or has been declared the father through a test, he has nothing to worry about.
You though are going to have too release how you really feel about what he has done to you. Right now you say you're upset with her for upsetting him, but what about what he did to you. Express that, don't hold that junk in, it will manifest into anger and build up, express it to him. It doesn't matter how upset he is right now, you are the wife, let him know you love him but you are hurt by what he did. Don't let him get by with this, without you saying anything, you don't want this to happen again.

death upon you

Geesh, who is going to be his next fling? Are you going to be ok with that? You just enabled him to go out and cheat on you. Try cheating on him and see if he likes it.

magicallybeautiful10plus

Okay so you must be in an open marriage for you to feel she was at fault, is this something you and your husband do often?
If so fine but don't waste everyone else time wanting to blame her. The fact is your husband was not happy to begin with or he would of never started a "relationship" with anthor woman. It will happen again over and over. When you have had enough we will probably see you on the local nightly news as "Stressed Out Wife Went Rambo because of cheating Husband".

Mandy

LORD HAVE MERCY JESUS , I DON'T BELIEVE YOUR POST .LOOK I DON'T WANT TO SOUND MEAN TO YOU BUT GIRL I HAL FT TO ASK YOU . ARE YOUUUUUUUU CRAZYYY? HONEY I AM GETTING ANGRY FOR YOU . OH YOUR ID NAME SUITS YOU . LOOK KICK HIS CHEATING BUTT OUT AND STOP WORRYING ABOUT COMFORTING HIM . WHO IS GOING TO COMFORT YOU WHEN HE LEAVES YOU FOR ANOTHER WOMAN AND TRUST ME HE WILL . BECAUSE YOU ARE SAME AS TELLING HIM TREAT ME ANYWAY YOU WISH I WILL BE HERE WHEN YOU ARE DONE PLAYING AROUND. AND YOU ARE MAD AT THE OTHER WOMAN ? WHY MAY I ASK ARE YOU NOT MAD AT YOUR DEAR SWEET HUBBY ? I THINK YOU NEED SOME SERIOUS HELP HAS IN A DOCTOR OR COUNSELOR , BECAUSE IF THIS IS THE WAY YOU THINK A MARRIAGE IS YOU ARE WRONG. I WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK BECAUSE YOU ARE GOING TO NEED IT .

Owen E

I'm sorry but you should be laughing and kicking him to the curb where he belongs with all the other dogs. You sound to sweet for some guy to treat you like crap. Comfort him LOL get rid of him!

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