How can I deal with my pregnant wife's moodiness? I live with a dictator and I'm always wrong.?

LindaLoo

First of all realize that MOST of what she is experiencing and you are having to experience because of her pregnancy too - SHE has no control over! She is being ruled and directed by her hormones and all the changes and chemical developments going on in HER body with this new life that is growing inside of her! A LIFE YOU created too you know! SO just cut her some slack - be willing to calmly and kindly TALK TO HER about it, about how she is feeling, about WHAT she is feeling and experiencing because she will have to feel these things for MORE than just 9 months because post partum stuff happens AFTER birth too!

If you are gentle, sensitive, patient and KIND to her and help her as much as you can in this event in your lives - it CAN and will make a world of difference in your marriage and your parenting lives together as well. You should do some READING UP on pregnancy and child birth and hormones and ALL that she is literally and really GOING THROUGH by being pregnant with YOUR BABY.... don't be such a schmuck and selfishly think this is at ALL ABOUT YOU... being pregnant is tough!

ohiostatebuck_i

Lol...thats marriage and pregnancy. Its only temporary so just deal with it. Her body is going through all kinds or changes and her hormones are crazy right now. It'll pass and she'll go back to normal. Just hang in there. Congrats on the baby!

Lovebug123

Yes Honey, You're right, I'm sorry

Valerie X Account #20! At Last!

When the baby is born it will pay her back with it's "moodiness"...so rest easy, the baby will pay her back for you!

LOL!!!!!

â™¥HisBabygirl?â™¥

Tell her to get in control of her moods.
That you do understand she feels uncomfortable but she needs to treat you nice.

If a cop was at the door she would not pull this on him.

With that said if she flies off the handle.

LEAVE.... When she phones you when she is calm. Tell her you will gladly come home when she gets in control of her moods.
Good luck!

mr.c

you gotta stand up for yourself. dont be a wuss.

needstoknow

congrats on the baby. just man up and take it. in a couple of months it will all be worth it.

Nasebina

U should think this way: U both are expecting so share the feelings, try to be more understanding for these 9 months, women have weird feelings and moods when they are pregnant
so whenever u get tired or mad, think about the little baby on the way :) it will pass

happy wifey

Pregnancy is only a 9 month temporary thing. Trust me I have been pregnant before and when pregnant it is really difficult to control being moody and everything that comes with it. You just need to be patient and know that it is just temporary and try not take anything personally because trust me it is not you it is what her body is going through.

blackman_in_your_bed_again_2008

just say " yes dear", ok dear," I'm sorry dear, " you're right dear,I love you dear"," right away dear" ,dont start drinking or else you will never stop.,life will be easier in the long run,you might want to document everything with a video cam, then later in life you can play it back for her when you start getting on her nerves, be carefull she might destroy the cam during this time,, all I can say is good luck brother you're going to need it there is a storyline on a soap opera" General Hospital", you may want to watch it , it deals with after the baby is born, go into the delivery-room with her you can get some payback there, but dont get into her arm range

viper j

trust say alot of okay, if that's what you want, yes dear no dear but do not lay it on to thick.

Big J

So being pregnant caused it, not jsut being a woman...hm, yeah deal with it. Just know that if you are always wrong, you know you can do whatever you want (with in reason) because you are going to be introuble anyhow.

Meghan M

It will be okay. You are married and expecting a child now! when women are pregnant they go through many different body changes, feelings, emotional roller coasters that are undescriable. Not to mention the new pains, sickness they get everyday. When my friend was pregnant she was crazy and we could say something like "your hair looks so good today" she would respond with "WTF DOES MY HAIR ALWAYS LOOK LIKE CRAP OR WHAT!!!"
We look back at it now and laugh. She has appologized after she had the baby. But don't expect her to when she is pregnant that is a big NO NO. So just tough it out and remember you are going to be a FATHER

willn2pleaze

a good stiff drink

miranda1

first hormones ,no control of her`s second you are dealing w/ 2 people now and third who got her pregnant, have you noticed a change in you. and I`m sure the both of you are a little scared. as far as dictator ,ir you tried to overly, to comfort her , sh`d probbably break down and cry and u know you`re not always wrong, see how pregnancy effects you both

Nikkimarie

I am 5 months pregnant right now, and I gotta say.... It makes me so mad when a man acts like he has such a hard time with a pregnant wife. My husband yells at me and calls me names everyday when I am not at my happiest. If my mood shifts to negative in any way, I am called every name in the book and made to feel really low. So I just want to say to you that pregnancy is extremely hard on your wife, trust me, I do understand that it's hard to deal with the moodiness, but just try to understand what she is going thru, if she sees you trying that would probably imnprove her mood ten-fold anyway.

Keeping it real

You will always be wrong - deal with it. You married her.

Christina

Yes you are wrong no matter what. Remember you are against 2 people now. It's not nice being pregnant and feeling like crap so let her at least have the fact that she is right.

douchbag

assert yourself
tell that bee-otch wats up and stick to your guns

if she dont learn now, then she never will

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