How can I get even with my husbands ex wife ?

MissDeviance

Sounds like you already did. He's your husband now.

Whatever else there is, leave it alone. It's just bad karma.

Steve

You don't.

Darrick

What has she done that you feel the immature need to get even.

billscott92787

You can start by not seeking revenge. I'm not sure what she did but you shouldn't do that. You should seek revenge by showing love and that you are the better person in life. You will be rewarded in the end.

Donricky00

I don't think you should. Because if you do then you could become the ex-wife...

FloridaMOM

Why do you need to get even? What did she do?

Piggy

Go, tell us more.

twatllama

Sleep with her.

Trust me.

gufbal

First you have to let us know what she did that has you so angry that you feel you have to get even. If she slept with your husband then getting even with her won't do you a bit of good. So here are some examples of things to do that are vicious in how nice they are.

If she is just always trying to get involved in your relationship, or won't leave your man alone, always be sure to do the sweetest most loving things for your husband when she is around. Cater to his whims like your some love struck teeny bopper. Nothing gets under an ex's skin more then his new gal being so sweet that you want to gag.

If it involves kids its harder, and more serious. Basically to be a good step mom just do what the real mom doesnt do. Be nice to them, never talk bad about either their mom or dad, and always ALWAYS listen to them without judging them. Having a person they can talk to will bring them a lot closer to you and will help them to realize how childish their real mom is.

Whatever your husbands ex is doing, its really only a problem if you let it be. Its called baggage and everyone has some. If she is doing thigns to get under your hubbies skin, just let him know that whatever her issues are, they arent his. He has you know and nothing else matters about that. The best way you can get even with her is by being a better wife to your husband. Kiss him lots when she is around, and even when she isnt. Showing him how much you love him will usually make both of you feel better. Thats the best I can do with limited details, good luck!

Angie

Be happy and make your husband happy. That ALWAYS pisses them off.

theplantlady.barbara

Believe it or not Forgive her for the crap she puts you through, Your life will be better and Karma will deal with her. I Know because I have an EX-husband that as soon as I forgave him for all the B!S!! he put me and our daughters through his life fell apart.

And IF there are kids involved esp. do not talk bad about her to them, they won't like you.

Liberal Girl: I hate Republicans

You don't get revenge.

Why would you revenge. Please give more details of the situation that you're in.

Misty B

Nothing you can do. Karma will take care of her. Focus on your husband and your marriage. Don't get caught up trying to make this woman's life miserable- it could bring misery to your relationship. Get over it and move on.

accentedflirt

You can grow up, for one.

The Truth

That's not your business to "get even with" He's your husband now, enjoy your life and don't loose any sleep over her.... but after reading why in your other questions... it seems like he still might have "feelings" festering somewhere for her, but I don't think he still wants to be with her. They were married twice and it failed both times. He is now in love and married to you. I think that you should show him in this marriage what he has missed out on his whole life, thus taking any possible attention away from her. He will ween himself completely away after time (but seems like one of them didn't have complete closer before they got remarried). It is totally inappropriate to text your ex husband/ wife love messages when either is remarried. You really need to sit down and tell him that you find this disrespectful and you don't appreciate him sharing his love for you with another women (joking or not). Don't turn to the "I can't trust you phase and therefore I'm going to snoop through your stuff all the time)... BUT HELP HIM TO ENJOY HIS LIFE WITH YOU!

BTW, if they don't have kids together, they especially don't have anything to talk about!

Good Luck and Hope This Helps:-)

Janet W

Why do you care about your husbands ex wife. Leave her alone and live your own life.

h2ogirl

I remember your last question, so I assume this is what you are referring to? The fact that your husband told her he loves her through text and she responded with that she loves him too? I think you need to forget about her and talk with your husband, he is also to blame here, and from the way you explained it last time, he said he loves her first; therefore, the issue begins with him and ends with her. You need to find out from him if there is more to the love statements through text or not. If there is, then you need to have a serious talk with him about his priorities and where he is planning on taking that! As far as the ex goes, don't let her concern you at all, he is the one you need to be concerned about! Good luck to you!

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