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How can I get my husband to let me close the door when I go to the bathroom? I need privacy sometimes!?

I feel awkward sometimes because he says I have to leave the door open when I go to the bathroom and sometimes I taking out my feminine things and such and I feel weird. I don't know why because I know he is my husband but I guess its because I was raised to be modest and things. He told me I have to leave the door open but he gets to close it when he uses it and when I ask him why he makes me leave the door open he just says because he said so. I just feel uncomfortable sometimes.


    




~NIKKI~
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WTF? Tell him you are closing the door, end of story!!!


chaoss13
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Yea, he's a bit of a control freak, and a pervert. Not good hubby material IMO.


Amy S
Shut the door anyways.. he needs to get a grip


Bryan M
Stand up to him and tell him no, he is your husband, not your master. I would never force my wife to leave the door open while she's using the bathroom. That's a private thing, and he should respect that privacy while your using the bathroom.


Allison, aka Nice Lady
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Do you mean unlocked rather than open? If you want the door closed close the freakin door. I appreciate my husband closing the door when he's stinkin' up the place.


Sara
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Sounds like he is controlling. If my hubby told me I couldn't shut the door in the bathroom I would tell him to shove it and I would close and lock the door.

He needs to treat you like an equal...your not a child!


diamondbullet66
The last thing I want to observe is my wife taking care of her feminine hygiene issues, let alone sitting on the toilet. Outside of soaping her down in the shower or bath, I have no business in there. Makes me glad I am me.


cooter726
What a control freak, that or he's a pervert.


floridaman39us
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I think your husband is very strange and weird. I have never heard of someone forbidding another person to close a bathroom door. You need to leave him, today.....


Hawai'i
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--He told me I have to leave the door open but he gets to close it when he uses it--
Never listen to a hypocrit. He'll never learn. Just close the door and when he says no, tell him "well you get to, so i do too." And leave it at that.


monicanena
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Go in the bathroom, close the door and lock it. If he forces you to open it, that's a perverted form of abuse and you need to get out.


Dood
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That's ridiculous. You must be very passive and submissive to let him do that to you. There is no chance in hell my woman would even consider a request like that. If I demanded it, she would divorce me. Other people's privacy is something we need to learn to respect.


smith
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he sounds like a right control freak. i would shut the door and make sure you lock it behind you. everyone is entitled to a bot of privacy!!!


abc
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you have to be kidding me??? You have to get your husband to LET you close the bathroom door.....this is a joke surely


angel of senn
Dear god are you not an adult? People stand up for yourself. Screw him its your bathroom shut and lock the damn thing if you want. If he asks you why say because I felt like it. Hello don't let other people control you to the point that you can't go to the freaking bathroom!


holy molyp
I don't know how old you are, but you need to stop this right away.... he will be ruling you the rest of your life!


countryguyhfc
And what would he do if you did close it?
He sounds like some kind of control freak.


Jessica C
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Girl, the problem is not the door. Your husband is a control freak. Put some back bone in yourself please. Close the door, if he asks you why you close the door tell him "because I want to". It's not about the door. My husband likes to open the door and look at me when I do my business. I don't mind as long as he is nice about it. But if he ever tells me "because I said so" I would tell him to "go to H****"


DIOCHICK
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This man has some serious control issues. Come on, call his bluff and slam the door and lock it. If he breaks it down or freaks out on you. leave him immediately and never look back. He's the type to begin physical abuse if he hasn't done so already.


Godless AM
Some things are better not seen. Using the bathroom is one of them. Just close and lock the door when you go.


juan r
he is dumb close the door if you want.He sounds like a controling dib sh*t


DEAD
Sounds like he wants too much control. Have you tried locking the door?
Talk to him again. Tell him if he respects you and loves you, he will leave the door alone when you are in there. Tell him again that you do not feel comfortable when the door is open. If he cant understand that, if he cant do a very simple thing like that, I'm sorry , but it sounds like the guy has issues.
We all need our private time. Esp when it comes to the bathroom.
But it does sound like the guy has major control issues. I hope it doesn't get worse for you.
Good luck.


rodriguez m
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tell him " i am closing the door annd tha't final ". i need privacy. he sounds like my ex. bossy and controlling. what a troll .kick his aZZ. tell him to shut up already.


Miss J if ya nasty
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How do you get him to let you shut the door??????Kick his *** out and do what ever you want. He is controlling you. That is so bizare.


dr. phillian here..
Just do it. Are you going to obey EVERYTHING he says? If you feel uncomfortable about leaving the door open when you are changing your delicates....than close it. If you need to take a #2....and want to close the door, than go right ahead.


rorybuns
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That is not okay. That's abusive controlling hypocritical behavior. A woman has a right to her privacy, just as he has a right to his. He doesn't get to "allow" you to do or not do anything. You're your own person. He doesn't own you. You should seriously examine this relationship and decide if it's healthy for you. This is borderline abusive behavior on his part, and you're allowing him to step all over you like a doormat by not standing up to him.


steve h
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you have to tell him straight, tell him you feel uncomfortable
with keeping the door open and there are times when a girl needs her privacy.


tilishabingo
Sounds like he kind of controlling, watch that. I don't understand why that is, maybe he gets off on it.


Pattyboy
Your husband has a fetish!!! I would just close the door and lock it...if he gets mad oh well he will get over it!!! Is he a control freak or just a sick individual???





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