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How can I get my wife to agree to this simple request?
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We do not want to have any more kids, and she isn't able to use birth control because of some health issues she has, so she expects me to wear condoms. I don't like that idea, so suggested that she let me have access that other famous way...ya know, her backdoor. Well, she says she doesn't want to, she is afraid it'll hurt, etc., etc.
Why is she being so unreasonable about this? I've told her that she must not really love me if she can't do something simple like this, but she is being stubborn. I think she just is being obstinate because I cheated on her a few times, but that is the past, and she needs to let it go! Geez, it's been three months already!
How can I get her to stop being so unreasonable? Additional Details No way am I getting a vasectomy! Why do women always expect a man to have SURGERY just to make things easy on them? Talk about unreasonable!
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Holy Smoked
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totally unreasonable behavior by your wife... and people wonder why you cheated. HELLO EVERYONE!!!! IF THE WIFE DOESN'T DO HER JOB, THE MAN WILL LOOK ELSEWHERE!!!!! |
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~NIKKI~
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I don't think it is unreasonable, in fact i think that in order to show her how enjoyable it can be, you should have her shove something in your @ss first. |
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sweetheather7
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why don't you have it done to you so you can decide first hand if it hurts, etc. etc. |
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chihuahualady264
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you are the one being unreasonable, Not her. so go get yourself a vasectomy then there will be no reason to wear a condom or physically hurt your wife. |
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Tracy M
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Ever hear of a vasectomy? Go get one. |
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verylonely1
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First of all i think you are being the unreasonable one here. If you are cheating n our wife, regardless if it was "already 3 months ago" you obviously dont care about her.
Maybe you should let someone do you up the butt and see if it hurts before you make her do it? Im sure you would change your mind. Id be making you wear a condom too! Who knows what STDS you could be passing to her from the affair(s) you have been having! |
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gala ria
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wow, you're lucky she lets you touch her after cheating...."a few times"... |
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Wally
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You post...
"Why is she being so unreasonable about this? I've told her that she must not really love me if she can't do something simple like this, but she is being stubborn. I think she just is being obstinate because I cheated on her a few times, but that is the past, and she needs to let it go! Geez, it's been three months already!
How can I get her to stop being so unreasonable?"
You gotta be BSing me. you don't really think this way do you?
Bless her socks off and give her a divorce. You're unworthy man. |
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the_hedda_lettuce
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So why not get a vasectomy?
How would you enjoy having a polish sausage in your back door? |
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sasavert
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If it's such a simple thing then why don't u do the simple thing and WEAR A CONDOM. I think you are being a little selfish, maybe you should go get a vasectomy and solve the problem because what you want is gross and most women don't like it |
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acedelux
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Vasectomy is the way to go.....peace of mind. |
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Pretty in INK
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get a vasectomy..and she is not being unreasonable because she does not want to do Anal..your being unreasonable because you do not want to wear a condom..get the hell over it. |
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sherl pagan vtâ„¢
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try telling her that she can do that to you before every time that you want to do that to her...i'm sure she'll agree then.
((jack)) |
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Captain S
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Man,you definitely can't argue about that or it'll never happen. Instead, in a completely non-threatening way, incorporate stimulating that area into your normal love play and let her decide when, if,and how things proceed from there. Don't get impatient, and for God sakes don't go buck-wild! Reminding her of the timetable will not help matters, either....that's just another facet of impatience rearing its ugly head. This isn't really a casual thing you're asking. If you want to try to internalize that point, try to ask yourself how you'd respond if she wanted to eagerly shove something up your a s s...(not an appealing thought, is it?) But if you relax, she'll relax, and sooner or later you guys will get there. Now, make room for the possibility that she might try it once and say "oh, hell no" forever; everybody doesn't like everything, so again be patient and understanding. Basically, that probing stimulation of the area during love play will tell you everything you need to know. Good luck, and remember...be patient. |
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pack23wolfden
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Two words for you "clip" "clip" there enough said........ |
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browneyedbeauty
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I bet you wouldn't want some dude pounding you in your back door.
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5/30/09 Soleil
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let her try sticking something through your back door. are you listening to yourself? she says it hurts. IT REALLY DOES HURT, for goodness sakes, get your tubes tied. be al little considerate, she cant take birht control for medical reasons, the least you could do is understand... |
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msblack24
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jack u r so triflin! u cant be serious u cheated 3 months ago!? ur lucky shes willing to do u cuz i wouldve ditched ur @ss along time ago etc etc. that crap hurts mu hubby interested too and no thanx! let us do u and c if u luv it. |
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ChemoAngel
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"You must not really love me, if you can not do something simple like this." "That" was the wrong thing to say. Perhaps you need to be a bit more understanding of her feelings. How thoughtful of you to cheat on her and just expect her to forget all about it. Talk about "unreasonable." |
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♥ seriously ♥
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PLEASE get a VASECTOMY. This is the only way that you can give us the piece of mind in knowing that you will NOT EVER REPRODUCE! |
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honey
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The only reasonable fact here is that your backdoor needs a boot. |
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variable
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she's not being unreasonable because it probably hurt her. i bet you wouldn't let her use a dil.do and can go in your backdoor.
as far as the cheating goes, you're lucky she isn't contemplating divorce. |
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Patience
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You cheated on her, so she doesn't want to give you "****". |
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