How can I get revenge on my ex-fiancee?

jude

when u want to get even with a person who has used and hurt u, u go on with your life, be a success, show that person your happy, never let them know they got u, and u never speak to them again ever. revenge will only hold u prisoner and destroy your future with the next guy. u let it go, and consider yourself lucky u weren't married to this guy.

mrs_ohio

Accept the break up and move on. No need in revenge...karma has it's way of working things out.

Justin G

For starters...the male is called a "fiance"...not "fiancee". That is for women.

Secondly, is that your "fiancee" laying passed out and naked on your avatar? If so, you made a mighty fine choice. Next time you should hook up with a farm animal.

yumiebears

Ignore him when he comes back begging for you.

life goes on

You should just thank him for leaving.
Think of all the extra time and money you;ll have .
Why would you keep a looser so long anyhow?

WUWEI!!!

Easy, get a real man who would treat you like a princess
and forget about that freeloader...

Oh...Send him this clip to express your happiness since he's being gone:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3r4xYqhc3Ns

revenge?
you should be thanking him.

the good for nothing broke up with you and saved you from having to divorce him in 6 months.

now all you really have to do is figure out why you are such a bad judge of character.

Thumper

sleep with his mom. this is how I got back at my ex fiance. Sleeping with his friends are another way.

Jane D

so you want to stoop that low and take the lower road do you .. this will just remind him he made the right choice by your behaviour. . and also why do you want to waste this negative energy in that manner. I say forget about him move on. and find someeone who deserves you then.

Robert T

If you are willing to work, cook and do laundry. Hell sleep with me to get back at him. I will work, help you cook and help you do laundry.

poweredbysleep

find a nice guy let him love you for what you are. then if you ever see whats his face in a bar or any other place just give him a Smile hug or kiss the nice guy walk away with your head held high.

or give him the finger its up to you.

CindyLu

You let it go, forget it and move forward with your life. Thoughts of revenge just keep you tied to the pain and to the relationship. Revenge will eat at you and cause you far more damage than anything you could do to him that would not land you in prison. Why allow this person to still have so much power over you. A wise person once said "Living well is the best revenge" They were right

ragdoll1959

why do you want to get back at such a looser?You are way better off with out him. The best revenge however is a better life.If you spend some time making your life better,and not making him miserable,you will be taking steps forward,not backward.Life is alot more fun and interesting when you are going forward with it. You may even find someone on that path too!

Sarafina

The best way? Don't do anything! Revenge allows him to continue to hurt you. Don't allow it. Don't allow him to consume your thoughts and to hurt you more than he already has! Move on. Get out. Do things. Don't seek revenge.

Molly

I'm very sorry for what he put you through, but you getting revenge is only making him feel he won. Don't drop down to his level. The best revenge you can get is just being your awesome self and moving on with your life ;)

diamondgirl8216

The best revenge is to go on without him as happy as you have ever been, and make him wonder why you never thought about him again!! Trust me on this one!!! YOU are the one who let him treat you that way, don't do it again!!

Cut up every piece of clothing he owns.
Drop every phone/gadget he owns into the toilet/bath.
Warn other people about him via the internet.
Write on/scratch his car.
Tell people his secrets - be careful, people can view you in a bad light instead of him for doing this.

Ive never done these. Ive only broken a phone deliberately.
You don't wanna do all of these! You're aim is to temporarily set them back, not doom them for life, so be careful what you do! Once your anger's out, you can be like, ok, have a good life mate, and go on to live your best life also, afterall you are a successful, self sufficient person, dont forget that! :-)

Though, sounds like the reward is that you got this loser out of your life before the commitment became too great to leave, eg. you had children. Congratulations on freeing yourself from the slave driving leech! The alternative would have been years of arguments/stress draining years off your life!! Crack open the wine and celebrate baby!! Woo hoo! your life has just been saved/fixed and dont EVER let anyone slave - drive you again! You are SO much better than washing that asses clothes!!

frank r

hey sad get a real man who will treat you like a queen and show him how happy you are go girl i am in the playpen with mildred

CwboyBill

Marry him.

Goody 1 shoe

Send him a thank you card. Why would you want to be with someone like that? The relationship was wrong on many levels.

Crazy B

Steal his cigarettes.

susie12345

Well you should text him back and tell him that his is a "scrawny coward". He won't like to see scrawny.

Then, move on with your life. Don't call or text. Ever again. I hope you are glad to get rid of this loser.

Anna

Honestly, the best revenge is to go on in your life and to be happy. Getting back at him will make you just as low as he is. He was too cowardly to face you when he said it was over through a text message. Get back on your feet and just enjoy your life. Seeing you happy in your life is what will drive him nuts. No, he did not treat you well and he sure does not deserve your time. What goes around comes around, and don't be the one to lift a finger on him. He will be served with justice and you just need to move on. You are hurt that he used you and did not appreciate what you did for him.
Be glad he is out of your life, and that you don't have to stay any longer in a relationship with him. You were good to him, and there will be someone else out there who appreciates you a lot better than him.
Take some time for yourself and distract yourself. Spend time with friends, as well pick up on something you like to or join a club. Don't waste your energy on thinking on how to make him suffer, because what he does will come back to haunt him. He is one lucky guy to have you treat him that well. It is hard to come by, so he is the one at a loss. You deserve better, and it is important to have your own happiness. Don't let him get to you and be strong. You are a woman who is independent and can take care of yourself.
Don't be in contact with him, and just ignore him if he attempts to contact you in the near future. You are done with him and this is final. Go on with your life and don't look back.

Dior

Go on a shopping spree- Do your self up, hair and make-up and walk past him as happy as you can! Trust me, dont give him any attention! watch him crawl back! MOVIE "The woman" watch it and learn!

Malcolm H

marry him. I've seen the same thing happen to women the minute the ring goes on...

ST0MP3R

You can start by NOT being vendictive and be the better person..and grow up...did you 2 have years of marriage or kids together....NO!!! Lady i would love to trade my problems for yours.Just be a better person and dont put energy into revenge.I garruntee you it might jump back and bite you in the @ss..and maybe even make you look like a fool.Is it worth it????Think about it...Good luck and i trust you will make the right decision

something fishy

get a restraining order and never talk to him again!

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