How can I get the flame or the spark back in our relationship, get back to the 'honeymoon' stage?
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How can I get the flame or the spark back in our relationship, get back to the 'honeymoon' stage?
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Hello,
I have been with my partner for years on end and I love him like crazy and couldn't be without him; we are currently planning children.
I know many couples experience this, if not all couples. They have the 'honeymoon' stage where it's all happy butterflies and romance and you can't wait to see them at the end of a day...but after a while you just get comfortable with each other and romance and passion seems to die.
I want to feel the 'spark' and the passion again, I want to lust for him like I used to and want to be able to keep it going once we do have our children.
What are some ways to add this back into a relationship?
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ogkmqueen
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Definitely plan a date night. Once a week, every single week, and do things that maybe you wouldn't normally think of doing like a picnic, hiking, or just watching a movie at home. Think of some questions to ask each other where you can find out things that you don't already know about each Other Tease each other (nicely), get each other laughing, step out of your comfort zone and put some effort into making your partner laugh, help out with their daily chores, anything you can think of. It might take a while to work but I promise it will. |
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cobots
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lust is great but unless something more develops the relationship can be in trouble |
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lilyflower
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plan date nights or somethin...cuddle more.....take a break from each other ?(sounds silly but ull miss them more) |
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Renee J
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That feeling never stays, no matter what. You can try your hardest and love him the way youd want him to love you, hell catch on and eventually things will get deeper. Also, try doing things out of the ordinary with him. Im sure theres things you both want to do that havent yet. Try it.. but it takes time. |
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