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John
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The easiest way is to seek a relationship with someone who wants the same thing. You can fight the temptation together. |
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Stuart
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Keep your pants buttoned. |
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Stick
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Avoid putting yourself in situations that may compromise your virginity. |
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sexii_becca
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Don't be alone with a guy you like in private
will make it very hard! |
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Poppet =)
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im in your position too. I just think "Will God be proud of me?" yyou can only lose your virginity once, so best with the one you marry, right? Also i know plenty of people who when they found out their partner wasnt a virgin where heartbroken. Why would you do that to some one?
Also think about all the negatives. KEEP STRONG! |
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rockyfella25
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be with someone who has the same beliefs as you, or make sure your partner understands your beliefs. |
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maryd4love
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The best advice would be don't let yourself get into those situations. |
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jsr
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If you date, go on group dates. Rent movies to watch at your house or his parents so that they will be around. Meet him at the date place. Tell him up front how you feel and if he cant respect you then you are better off without him |
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Jaysmomee
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Tell your potential husband that you are saving yourself unitl marriage. Or just date inside your religion with someone who shares your vow, that would make it much easier. I gotta give you credit though, i would've never been able to do it! Good Luck. |
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Ms Pollyanna
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How i kept my virginity, was to only go out with boys i had a lot in commend with, and i stood away from the bad boys, you know the players. No matter how much they bugged me to go out with them, because i knew what they only wanted. I stood home a lot but i was ok with that, but my girlfriends believe otherwise, and i did get a lot of pier pressure. Don't let other people influence you to do anything you don't want to, and hang out only with girls, and boys that believe in the same things you do, and try not to be alone with a boy always have friends with you. |
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Dragon
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if you're in a relationship with someone that wants the same thing, it makes it a lot easier. that, plus not allowing yourself to be in a situation that makes it easier to keep a secret. you know, try double dating or something instead of going alone. also, tell the person first and foremost that you wanna remain a virgin and that beggin or tryin to bargain their way into your pants won't work. it all begins with willpower. |
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Mom 2 a boy & a girl on the way!
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Keep strong in your faith and don't give in to peer pressure. |
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maxmom
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Don't put yourself in situations where the temptation might be too great.
And remember, there is nothing wrong with your feelings. They are natural. You are hard wired to "mate". |
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ncsufan
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Commit not to go to a guy's house or have a guy in your house without someone else home. Try to limit the amount of time you spend kissing. There are a lot of other things that will not lead you to a place that you are tempted. Go on group dates or hang out with others. Go to public places where it is not as easy to make out.
Let your boyfriend know that you want to wait. My daughter asked for a purity ring that she can wear to remind her and her friend of her vow.
Congratulations on taking this step. It is wonderful to know when your on your honeymoon that you can give this first time to someone who is commited to you and will stand by you in everything. That is what I did and I am so glad I did. (By the way, I did date regularly.) |
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QWERTY
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Keep 'em zipped. |
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sarah
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surround yourself with people who know your values and share them. make sure yuu surround yourself with men.boys who respect you and themselves, try to avoid being completely alone with any boys, double dates are a good way to do that, or go to public places, bowling, mall ect ect.. dont be embarressed to make your vow known to any boys who are interested in or that are interested in you.
good luck, stay strong! |
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Belinda J
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Are you going to be faithful when you are married, so be faithful to yourself.
Avoid temtpation. Avoid heavy making out and being alone with a guy to much. The right guy will come along who values that in you.
If you find yourself in those spur of the moment situations remind yourself of what you really want in the long run. Try not to put yourself in those situations to begin with. It will not be hard if you can stay out of the way of getting to hot in heavy.
Plus do not tease a guy this will only make him hate you. Don't lead a guy on and not give him any. They hate hate hate that.........even if it is fun...lol....knowing you have that effect...just don't do it |
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KitKat22
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SELF-DISCIPLINE is the key. |
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♥ค๓א♥
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you could bring one of your girl friends, if you will be alone with a man she will always be there! xxx good luck |
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Sretlaw
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Stick to your morals and virtues blah blah blah. Just stick to what you say, and mean it. |
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juggalette widow
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i give a lot of respect to ya girl my brother is the same way I'm surprised cuz most guys are not like that but he doesn't want to be like every guy he wants to make it special and with someone he trust. all i can tell you is respect you values and make people respect them as well. yes there is temptation but its all about the way you think if there someone tempting you think about your vow and how much it means to you is it worth it? |
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imzy
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just get married! |
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Katie
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It is NOT impossible to stay virgin as long as you have the right reasons to and the right partner. I am a virgin myself and I am 23. I will be getting married in 2 years and still planning to stay virgin until my wedding day.
Bible is a great start. You can ask God to give you strength to fight temptations. But you need more reasoning to stick to it.
First, think of your virginity as the best wedding present to your husband. I'm sure your man will be very happy to be your first and your wedding night will be very very special.
Second, even if you found a man who you think could be "The ONE" and tells you that you should give it up to him. You will never know if he really is the one until you are married to him. So, better to be safe than sorry. If he truly loves you, he will wait.
As for the Spur-of the-moment, think what your future husband will think and what a waste of a great treasure your virginity will be if you give it to the wrong guy. |
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Don't place yourself in a situation where you'll find yourself alone with a guy. |
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