How can I overcome jealousy?

There is no Time!

Ask him about it.
People are curious all their life... I don't see any reason why not to ask. When you'll find out about his X you'll feel release I'm pretty sure in that

Just Me

I think it's normal for anyone to not want their Si's ex to be involved with their Si's immediate family. I suggest telling him it's bugging you and bothersome and let him explain what is going on. Once you know you will be able to figure out how to address it. But, not knowing and wondering is going to drive anyone to distraction. You are being too hard on yourself.

Janet W

Is it really all about you in your world. What is it in your life that makes you so jealous and controlling?

Just Surfin

Do you trust him?

Why not?

You seriously need to consider that question and ask yourself the answer, because jealousy is rooted in mistrust.

Odds are the answer is "because I have low self-esteem and I know that if he meets someone else he's going to leave me for her" - and in that case you need to deal with YOUR issues, because it has nothing to do with HIM and everything to do with YOU.

rich485188

let your mate sleep with some one in front of u

BeeBee

do you know the history of relationships before you meet a partner are really none of our business sometimes it is better to know nothing

what is important is how your relationship with this man is today and the fact that he has chosen you

jealousy is something that is very hard to admit to sometimes you are better to acknowledge to yourself that you are jealous and then do something about it

jealousy is a inside job it relates to how we feel about our self and our own insecurities work on your own self worth
nobody would like the fact that a ex of their partner was staying in contact with the family etc but the less you react to it and see how pathetic the girls actions are and the more you believe in yourself and your boyfriend the better and stronger your relationship will become

good luck

THE LUCKY ONE

you need to ask him stuff.to get out of your shell. You will never stop this situation cuase its a part of his past.. He was connected in some way. So ether you ask about his past or you break it off point blank your with the person not his past untill it becomes a problem you shouldnt be to jealous. Just becuase your with someone for years your not really with them untill you know them.

Dzblueyes4U

If he truly loves you don't sweat it. They are his ex's for a reason. I've managed to stay friends with most of my ex's. Sometimes your ex's can even become your best friends. As long as he is coming home to you evey night, don't read to much in to it. I am in the playhouse with Mildred.

Chris

I think you need ask the question.

**** I AM IN THE PLAYPEN WITH MILDRED***

lady_phoenix39

Mmmmmm....grow up?

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