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How can I quit being so jealous of my bf's female friends?

my bf has male and female friends, but I get jealous of his female friends, its not like he spends a lot of time with them but he hangs out with them sometimes how can I keep my jealousy in check?


    




L P
There is nothing that you can “do.” It's a matter of maturity, security, and confidence you have in yourself. You have to come to realize that just because he is a friend with them, it doesn’t mean he thinks any less of you or that does not mean he does not love you. The “maturity” part of the equation is that you have to understand that you are not the center of the universe (I know that sounds a little mean but it isn’t meant to be because you sound like a really nice person).


Electro-chick
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To: Lonely Wife, are you seriously that stupid? If so, I feel sorry for your husband... no wonder he doesn't want to spend any time with you...

Anyways, to answer your question... you'll just have to trust him with his friends... either that or sleep with those girls yourself first LOL (kidding)...


happywjc
Lear to enjoy the friendship also,
and develop your own "male friendships", as long
as it stays "just friends"!
Learn&earn trust for each other!


free_angel
It's okay to have friends. Hang our with your friends wether they be male or female.


Shan
nope im the same way, just got to live with it


silly_duck96
Remember that they are just friends and remember that jealousy destroys relationships.


PyroMexiMike
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being jealous is very normal just so you know but it can also ruin a relationship if your too jealous, the thing to do is just realize that no matter what your going to have to show trust in him. if he doesnt seem like the type to cheat or unless you have a good reason to suspect him then there is no reason to get jealous, alot of times people get jealous over nothing but it is very understandable to get jealous just make sure its not too much jealousy


billscott92787
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Jody,



That isn't a bad thing, it shows that you care. I mean if you didn't whose to say he wouldn't make a pass at one.


Suspend me PLEASE
I suggest you make a male friend who you see whenever he sees his female friends (be careful not to make it obvious that is your plan)

If he starts getting jealous, he is cheating on you. If he's OK with it, he doesn't think like that and you've got your answer. He's a good boy.

This doesn't work with men on Yahoo Answers - they now know the secret.





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