How can I stop my boyfriend and husband from meeting up?

sarz

you could tell your boyfriend you are going to visit an elderly aunt or uncle in another part of the country, and they do not have a phone on, so can't ring your bf. you could turn your mobile off and claim you forgot to take it with you. depends how long you will be in hospital. You could get a friend in another part of the country to claim you are with them and send a postcard from you? How about having to go away for a week of intensive training with work?

special_edd_yay

Well, you could try to stop cheating you little s.l.u.t.

kiss me

you've got to be kidding. I think most people have NOT dealt with a situation like this and strive not to. It is a ridiculous situation.

angel

Oh my God, Well i hope you get caught, because you are cheater and a liar. Get well soon.

ABC

I hope you get caught!

Carolin

I am not really sure exactly how, but i would suggest comng clean on what you are doing, cause honestly it is wrong, i am married, and i know that if my hubby would be doing something like that, i would be highly pissed, since it seems like you arent happy in your marriage to be going to someone else.....Good luck

lillyflower

just because it is 2006, it doesn't excuse a thing. when you chose to have an affair, you also chose that there may be a possibility that you would get caught out.

all of your 'concern' seems to be about yourself, and not about whether or not your husband or boyfriend gets hurt. it will all blow up in your face one day, and i guess even then you'll be crying about how unfair it all is on you.

i don't really care if i sound judgemental or not - i have morals and i am proud of it!!!

Dizzy

You shouldn't have a hubby and a boyfriend. You should tell the boyfriend about the hubby, see if he still want to be involved with you. What do you plan on doing, keeping both of them forever, do you think one day the boyfriend will pop the question?

MANC & PROUD

You should be more worried about your husbands feelings and not your bf,why be married if you want to cheat tell your hubby and let him have a life of his own.

navanodles

this is the least of your concerns. what are you going to tell the boyfriend when he sees your surgery scars???

LadyC

To be honest, if you've got a boyfriend and a husband you must have had to conjour up quite a few lies in the past and get yourself out of a few tricky situations. In fact, you must be an expert liar. So.... just lie your way out of this one too? Tell your boyfriend you're on holiday, pretend to call him from abroad, say you sent him a post card and it got lost in the post. Theres no other way around it. But you should remember that one day you probably will get caught and could risk loosing both men.

broj7400

You are a mess, let me know what happens. Tell the story on Jerry Springer.

Bridezilla

No, cos we're normal moral loving partners.

You complete moron.

flagger

Karma will always get you.

Lotus

Your husband will probably be very busy with his mistress, so don't worry about it.

Bev

With your karma, I don't think I would opt for a medical procedure.
I don't care what year it is, adultery is still wrong. Stop being a cheat and liar and people will stop passing judgment. Simple as that!

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stop being a hoe man i wish my wife would pull some **** like that i would **** her up. Stupid ***** what you trying to do give them aids I bet you got a disease.. If you gotta be like that just let the whole hood run a train on you since you want to be a hoe.

Feel better so you can get what you got coming

bowmanhlrc

How about being honest and dumping one or the other, or is that a bit TOO honest for you.

Kodie's World

well girl i think you need to cut it off with one of the dudes. If you couldn't be faithful then you shouldn't have got married... Its sad to say that it is woman like you that could really f*** up a good dude for every one else. I think you deserve to get caught because you put your self in a situation that could have easily been avoided had you kept your skirt down and legs closed. Although I do hope you get better so that when you get caught you can be alone and feel worse. I don't know your situation but I figure it can't be to bad with your husband if your trying to keep him. You need to make the choice about who is more import and WHO you want in your life.. I''m married and and if my husband pulled some s*** like that I would kick his a** and put in his face what he lost because of being an adulterating w****. It seems to me that to you marriage is a joke because if it was something that you took seriously and was interested in you wouldn't have your self in this ridiculous situation. It doesn't matter what year or century that we are in marrage is supposed to mean somthing and if you don't want to be called things like s.l.u.t or what have you stop putting on their uniforms.. You keep on and your going to catch a virus and end up back in the hospital.

SEXY JP

hmmm, its hard for you im sure.

obviously not happy in your marriage. but not fair on your hubby.....

or the unsuspecting bf.....

really you need to sort out ur marriage first and foremost. if you however feel it cant be saved then leave.

this of course doesnt help you right now.

i think you need to tell the bf at the very least. if they end up meeting, you wont have either of them.

if you cant face telling your bf then lie and say you are on holiday and just send texts!

but you really need to sort yourself out. marriage shouldnt be taken lightly and im sure if the shoe was on the other foot, you would be gutted if you found something like this out and you were still in love with your hubby...

so think about how you would feel. its not fair on either of their feelings

fucose_man

Yes it is 2006. But I don't recall any time when people began to generally agree that this sort of behaviour is OK.
If you really think it's OK then why are you hiding them from each other?

Queen D

Uh, stop f***ing one of them would be a really good start. Sorry but it's the truth!

Kingbee

I would hope that very few have had to deal with this situation.

I'm not surprised you don't know what to say? What can you say?

I would like to think that time away from both will give you an opportunity to evaluate your life as it stands now. I would hope that you don't like what you see. I would hope that you would ask why you need to have two men in your life? Are you insecure? Are you worried that if your husband left you, that you would be on your own? Or is just the thrill of having two men love you?

I really don't know what you are going to say? I just hope that the operation is a success, & that you take steps to put your life back in order when you come out, whether it be with your husband, boyfriend, or niether.

icewitch54

Seems like you are either going to have to lie to your boyfriend or come clean to him about having a husband. Alternatively you could come clean to hubby about the boyfriend. Your dilemma is the price of 'having your cake and eating it'. In these situations there always comes a 'crunch' time where the two worlds collide................this is yours.

~MIMI~

STOP CHEATING!!!

cowgirl

tell them both the truth ...i will set you free !!!!

marke

dnt cheat again its bad it will comeback to u one day tell the truth now to both of them n go with the one who s ready to forgive u (If both ready go with the BF cuz u choose him when u had a husband for some reason) n who ever u go with dnt cheat again
. U r not too late to tell the truth n come out from the mess

get well soon

Rick46

Dump the boyfriend. Divorce is much harder. If they meet you will probably lose both.

kdhiggs05

So you have a boyfriend and a husband? I have never been in that situation! I dont want to be negative because I dont know the situation. I would tell your bfriend that you are going out of town!! Good luck!!

wozza.lad

I dont believe for one second your telling the truth ,you are just immature ,and attention seeking,if your not,then you are just a tart with no heart.

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