How can I tell if my partner is cheating on line.?..he always clears the history so I cannot check it that way

â™ª pepperkittyn â™ª

If he's clearing the history, you can almost COUNT on the fact that he's up to no good.

If he's not doing anything wrong, there should be nothing to hide. PERIOD.

Dan O

Download a key logger (you can get a free one - just google for it), it'll log everything he types and you can then go and read it when he goes to work or wherever.

haha I bet you wont be able to resist from getting one now!

idler22

He's probably spending all his time on this site...

Lotus

If you really, really want to know, get a keylogger. It records everything a person does on the computer. Websites, passwords, conversations, everything. PC Pandora is a great one. If he is erasing the history, there is obviously something he doesn't want you to see. People with nothing to hide don't hide things. Good Luck.

whiisper

ya ii thiink somethiing fiishy goiin on...he probley cheatiing on u wiith a grl on liine!!

Tiffany h

just ask him.

red

How about you just come right out with what your wanting to know from him.
Your creeping around in a way you think he is.
Just because he deletes everything, doesn't make him a putabout.
I delete all my mail once read, and all txts from phone once read.
Only because its an irritation having them all stack up.
To me its like emptying the rubbish from the bin in the house, would you leave your rubbish 4 weeks without emptying it?

MKM

If he's clearing the history then you can bet there is something he don't want you to see.
Ask him what he does on line all the time but don't tell him that
you"ve been checking.

romipenne

If he's clearing his history and getting agitated when you went on the pc without him "preparing" for it by clearing the pc, then he's hiding something. Have you just directly asked him what he's doing and why he's hiding it?

If you ask him that (politely, not all suspicious), and he gets belligerent or nasty at you, install the keylogger. You need to know what you're dealing with before you go any further.

If he's open with you, perhaps he's been looking at some fetish site he's embarassed by or something, then trust him and let it go.

shaun j

playing poker and losing money my guess

I'm the same when my wife wants 2 look

~ steph j ~ The Shepherdess

If you really want to know get a keylogger.
Go to Download.com and d/l one there.
Be warned though you may not like what you find.
Good luck x

staceyl25_2000

From former experience, he's chatting online with some other girl online or more........when i was with my boyfriend, i would erase the history because i was chatting and meeting people online

sugarplum9903

you could always try and do a system search for files and folders(in the start menu). Maybe look for 'internet', 'cookies' etc.

Wonderweb

Yes!!!!! Ask him outright about what he is up to and try checking the cookies on the computer, that might tell you what he is up too!!!

The Original Highbury Gal

Why dont you just ask him instead of snooping, that for me show's a total lack of trust, my other half is often on line and i wouldn't dream of checking up on what he's been looking at, or finding out his password and logging on as him.
So maybe he is looking at some bird with her baps out, big deal, unless you know for sure he's doing something dodgy i'd let sleeping dog's lie otherwise you'll end up torturing yourself and the pc wont be the only thing you start snooping around in and you may not like what you find!

bassmonkey1969

If he's clearing his history then he's definately up to something.

farleyjackmaster

Yeah I think so, turn the history back on without him knowing! Or just out with 'why do you clear the history whenever your on the pc' and watch him get very sweaty!

marvalgirl

Prob looking at things he shouldnt be!

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