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mspriveye
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he has lost your trust and he disgusts you. Tell him that. He will not be able to handle the pain of the truth as well as you have handled the pain of his disloyalty and disrespect. |
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BabeHeart
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You're a lot more patient (or foolish) than most to put up with it a 2nd time...why is it so hard to tell him how you feel? Just do it, and then get out of that situation and move on with your life. Have enough respect for yourself not to tolerate that behavior from anyone. |
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Sapphire
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easy, leave him, he ovbiously isn't ready to commit, atleast not to you....
you only live once, dump his cheatin a s s and find someone that will treat you right. |
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dance_babe_xoxoxox
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tell himt that u cannot stand this anymore...if he doesnt luv u then u should leave or u should tell him to GET OUT....
there is not need toforgive him, knowing that he has already done it three times...
before u do that, u should tell him wat u think...do not bothering about going nice to him about it....
he DOESNT deserve it.
just give it to him...
i hope this helps...
o and divorce him if u have to and find a guy that wil appreciate u for who u r !!!
i hope this helps a lil' bit!! XD |
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someones love
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tell him straight up, but then again why did u let it happen 3 times?? |
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L G
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You need to tell him just like you wrote it. Once its his fault, twice its your fault, and third you are stupid for sticking around. Not only has he cheated on you 3 times that you know of, how many times don't you know of? Is he using protection? He is puttig your life at risk. I know you aren't asking for this. But when is enough, enough? When he tells you he contracted HIV and gave it to you? You have children? What about them? Is your daughter going to think that it is ok for men to treat their women this way? When she grows up most girls marry ore get with men that remind them of their fathers. What about your son? Will he grow up to be the slime ball his father is? This man is belittling you and degrading you before your very eyes. Do not allow what little respect you have left for yourself to disentegrate. It is not your fault. But by staying with him, no matter what threat you make he will still cheat becuase he knows he can get away with it. What happens if you cheat? Will he be so understanding? |
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Denny Crane
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In baseball 3 strikes and your out!!! |
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kinacl
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Girl why are you so worried about how to tell him anything. You deserved to have had a faithful man by your side. He didn't think about your feelings or your marriage when he cheated 3 times. Girl just tell him, he is lucky you are telling him at all. I would make sure it is a good time for you and only you. Now do what is best for you. Girl I would wait until I have everything together for myself, then I would tell him. Girl don't feel bad, you will be OK. I'm a Christian and I'll be praying for you. Watch this and feel better. www.mayyoueblessedmovie.com |
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Ferrari Babe ¸.•*´`*♥ ♥*´`*•.¸
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Tell him you forgave him but you can't forget the betrayal. It can't be a surprise to him you've had enough after the third time. |
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Baby
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tell him the truth |
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freeman3905@sbcglobal.net
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man o man its hard on you you have to let the jurk go he wont stop. it will go on and on |
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cheoli
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Be honest with him about your feelings and how bad you are hurt. You've given him enough chances, this being the third time. It sounds as if it is time for you to take care of yourself and your needs now. Give yourself some time. I hope you get some help or even counseling to get you through this. Look for family and friends for support. I hope everyday and every Christmas is better for you. Best of luck. |
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Wphs
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Tell him the truth... sit him down and explain it to him, do what your heart tells you to do |
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SupaDupaWoman
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Tell him exactly how you feel. There is no way around it. It may be one of the hardest things you do but you will feel better having done so. Besides, what could he say to you? He's the unfaithful one...not you. |
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Mr. Smooth
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I think you just come out and tell him. Let him know that you can not get over the fact that he has cheated on you multiple times, and that you need to find someone who will treat you with respect. |
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hurts so good
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sorry you should have learnt after the 1st time he is not going to change because you keep on forgiving him.. now he done it again on chrismas day of all days time to wake up and smell the roses he is not worth the air he breaths kick his cheating *** to the guter where he belongs and dont ever let him sweet talk you back into his life....good luck |
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Dimples
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I think you need to do what's right and beneficiary for you at this time. You just need to come out with it and tell him what you just stated here. Make yourself clear and tell him that you just can't stand or take what he's put you through. Get the courage and face what else life has to offer you. |
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Just Me
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tell him the truth and leave. when you said this is the third time, my thought was that she knows about and won't be the last. get out. |
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candygrl
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HOney if this is the third time He will go for the fourth. There is no nice way to say that you do not love him. SO just be direct and say it.
My advice...... get out of that relationship!!!!!!! |
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Cheryl S
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Pack up his stuff leave it out the front and change the locks he will get the message without you saying a word. Letting him get away with it just tells him it's ok to behave this way. You can do a lot better than him sweetie. |
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Goosters
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Sorry for your heartaching story.Stepping on Two boats is what men desires?
If you do not have any children, matter will be much easier to handle..give him a Final warning before he lost everything in life incl custody of Rights. |
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Forlorn Hope
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just kick him out and take him for everything he's got, in divorce court... was his boss male or female??? |
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BrendaWise
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if it is the third time, obviously he is going to continue. So you don't need to forgive him. You just need to accept that that is the way he is, and decide if you want to continue to live with him the way he is |
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aquari-kat
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Just tell him as you have told us. He's made the mistake, you've tried to work it out, but it is now obvious that he is not as committed to work on this relationship as you are. Personally, I feel that there is no reason for someone to cheat on their spouse and that it is unforgivable. Once a cheater always a cheater-what's to stop him again if there is no real consequence. You are a better woman than me for trying to work it out. Good luck-everything will work out. |
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shadow79812002
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dont be afraid to tell him. just come right out with it. just remember hes the one thats in the wrong,not you. and if he did it before he will do it again |
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nicolas n
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get rid of that loser, he wants other girls and will never stop. Stay with him and you'll end up with kids or more kids and nasty custody battles. Every day that pass, you're getting older and may miss a great guy. Christmas parties are the number one time for infedelity according to stats. When you tell him that you dont love him any more, have back up or some one close because he might go balistic, you don't watch those crime shows? |
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~Mae*Flower~
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well i would leave him. you can do without him. you do not want a man that will do that to you . |
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Douglas D
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Well if you can't muster up the courage yourself, you could always have your divorce attorney do it for you when your husband is served up with a summons to divorce court.
You know, "three strikes you're out", & don't feel like you lied to him when you said you forgave him. A girl can change her mind, & you did.
Besides, if he's cheated on you before, & then cheated again after you forgave him the 1st time,then he doesn't deserve your forgiveness.
He needs to learn to live with the consequences of his actions, & he won't know about consequences if you keep on forgiving him.
Plus if you think you can't manage on your own without a man in your life, forget about it. Lot's of women do it all of the time. The rest of them just don't realize that they can.
Oh, & he used YOUR car for the tryst? Tell him it's his car now, & take the one that he used to drive. (That is if it's the better of the two, & it wouldn't suprise me if it is)
So good luck with that, I know I am assuming that you are finished with the marriage. But you said that you can't stand looking at him. I am just suggesting the shortest path to a happier life.
Cheers! |
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Mary Jane
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If this is the 3rd time what on earth are you doing crying still. I'd stay as far away from him as possible before you catch something. If you caught him 3 times how many times do you think he has done this? |
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Joni J
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You owe him absolutely nothing. Just get on down the road. Better yet, send him down it. And I am so sorry. I went through this, well not his boss, a skanky crank ho, about 3 years ago. Life is good, just do good things for yourself, and surround yourself with good, positive people! But, he will not change and you deserve better. GOod luck, God Bless. |
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Vix
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Get a plan together first. Once you tell him you're done, he may turn ugly or mean and try to take what you have to spite you. Get some $$ put together and have a plan ready about what to do once you leave. Ideally, get him to leave the house instead. Then just be ready to stick with it and tell him you thought you could forgive him but you can't and you want him gone. If he cares at all, he'll agree to a separation while you work it out in your head. If he gets aggressive, it just means he never would have stopped cheating on you anyway. |
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