How can i discourage my husband from having extra marital affairs?

BWLJ

Try satisfying him in bed for a change.

Wizzard2

funniest question of the year!

tasgilla

If you even have to ask this question then why should he be your husband? That's the real question. Think about it.

Saudi Geoff

Treat him so nice that he will never need to look anywhere else!

Ericka B

I don't think anyone can do that.Was he cheating before you got married ? That's a question you need to ask yourself.If he dosen't apprecaite what he has at home,then you are better off finding someone who does.Even try therapy if he's willing to.

ivehadit

I think blu cantrell had the best advice for this in her song "Hit'em up Style"

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watch this

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scooter47

Stop saying anything about it, and make him wonder what you are doing....Lay some clothes out and when he comes in begin to get dressed and go out...stay gone for a couple of three hours..don't answer his calls or pages.....when he questions where you have been just look at him and don't answer....

winkicu1108

FIRST I WANT TO ASK WHY ARE YOU ASKING THIS QUESTION WOW THIS IS OUT OF HAND TELL YOUR "HUSBAND" EXTRA MARITAL AFFARIS ARE NOT PART OF BEING MARRIED IF HE NEEDS THEM THEN MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR HIM. REMIND HIM THERE ARE ALOT OF ILLNESS OUT THERE THAT CAN KILL HIM OR YOU... YOU HAVE TO PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN AND STOP THIS, OR LEAVE HIM THIS IS YOUR LIFE AND YOU ONLY HAVE ONE AS DOES HE. DEATH IS NOT SOMETHING YOU PLAY WITH TAKE CONTROL OF YOU LIFE AND DO NOT ALLOW THIS TO CONTINUE STOP IT NOW OR GET OUT NOW B4 ITS TOO LATE

DIVORCE..... that may discourage him a little

zara01

Why would you have too? Pay attention to him would be the best preventitive measure.

CrayzeeKat

If your married he shouldnt be having affairs and if he is / has i wouldnt still be with him.

dhalia_1977

Ask him to choose - you or ho bags who sleep with married men.

marks3kids

Toleration of a particular behavior gives the person with the tolerated behavior an unofficial approval of the behavior. If your husband has had an affair and you tolerated it, then he knows that it will be ok the next time. Here's what you need to do; Get some alone time with him and tell him that the time together is for an open honest conversation. Tell him that you will give him a "get out of trouble, FREE" card during this converstion, so anything either of you says won't be a fatal statement to your relationship. During this time you need to let him know that you know of his previous affairs (or desire to have an affair now) and that you want to make it perfectly clear what his options are relating to future affairs. Then you set the rules. Perhaps him having an affair will be fatal to your relationship. Perhaps it will allow you to have affairs. Perhaps you will decide to have an open marriage. Perhaps you will tell him that if he has an affair, NEVER come back home. All of those options and any others that you can think of are up to you. After the "rules" of having an affair are laid on the table, then it's up to you to follow through with enforcing the rules, even if it hurts. On an aside, if he has had an affair you might consider forgiving him for having it, but you need to find out why. Are there need that you don't meet? I will be happy to go into detail. Just email me at marks3kids@yahoo.com Good Luck

mentalmanc

Hmmm,do you have a patio?Problem solved!

Need more details ... what makes you think that your husband is thinking of having extra marital affairs??

glazer_098

you should leave him and file for divorce, if he has done it several times he is going to keep doing it. what will you say when you get a STD? or another woman pregnant? go find you a good man!

Lil mama

have your own affair instead

Jason D H

Show em STD videos! tell em if you **** around you'll get this nasty one here.haha

peachtree73

divorce him

Lalana

Leave his @ss

Mike Hunt

Honey put this in your journal. After the divorce you are going to read it, remember the way your mind worked while you were with him and slap yourself for not leaving him sooner.

Glue yourself too him... otherwise... you can't, if it's in his nature to betray you!

loveing_u_hurts

You cant, irrespective of what you feel or how you may try to discourage him he will do it if he really wants to.
Divorce him ....that's the best discouragement!

sexy love

tell him that if he loves you he wont do these things to you.......he married you not all the hoes hes messing with!....

stephen d

have one yourself, i aint got nothing going on at the moment

Steve xx

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