How can i get my husand to do more things in the bedroom?

engineer

Just tell him and show him what "does it" for you..

kurticus1024

Tell him what you want. Get books to show him what you want. Try to be willing to try things he wants. If he won't then maybe councelling or divorce time I think.

I'm all yours

Make a list of ALL the things you want to do and put it on a post-it pad. Then have him take one at a time each night. And if I were you, I would keep adding more pages each night. You'll get everything you wanted.

jbellbeauty2

If you watch a flick it really opens up their imagination. Toys will also make him want to experiment. If anything just tell him that you want to experience new things, he'll either love it or disagree.

dale621

comunicate your desires with your husband , let him know honey u r satisfieying me but i want a lil more excitement or romance added to what we already have , lik e babe i like to try this tonight and explaine to him what he will need to do as well as what u are gonna do , and try it , at first u and him may feel uncomfertable with it so dont give up try it another night the next night etc , get a video or dvd of what u want done to u or what u want to do to him , and let him know , u never know he may have been thinking the same thing but was afraid to say anything , he may be afraid to say anything in fear that u may think u r not satisfieying him and visa versa , thats why its best to say what i said at the begining , and another thing some pepole were brought up that this and that were not ment to be done and if thats the case i would sugest bringing a few toys into the bedroom with u toys for u and him as well , and if it involves more than u and hubby i say leave it out , sometmes that can be the death of any relationship , so if u and him have that fatasie of another one in your bedroom leave it as a fantasie either way good luck and like all new things its gonna take time and practice

dot&carryone.

What? Like cleaning the windows!

eehco

ASK! Initiate something new and get his brain to thinking.

marabierto1961

suggest a threesome or foursome....that'll get his attention again and stimulate him enough to take care of business......

Austin L

maybe he wants to do the same, but you 2 haven't opened up to discover the freak sides of eachother for fear of scaring the other.
start by telling him something you heard (something made up of course and something you would like to do) then ask him what he thinks of it.
Example: "this girl at work was telling me her and her husband role play.... -describe the situation-....what do you think of that hunnie?"
He might say "wow. sounds fun." then offer.. "maybe we should try it!" or that opens you up to offering any other ideas you might have.

glitter3317

Tell him you are in charge tonight and you want to do things a bit different, and then go to town and have fun! Set the mood too, candles, strawberries ect.

question_ahoy

Put a bigger TV in there, a lazy boy, and maybe a putting green.

Isis

He's lazy-he'll never change-trade him in for a better model.

kimbermalloy

Start without him

Quasimodo

You mean like hang curtains, make the bed,...stuff like that?

queen_chocolate_beauty

tell him you have something new for him to try and explain to him what it is

hesterthehester

Tell him how the pool boy does it..

Seriously.. Go to an adult toy store (a clean well lit one) with him.. And open a dialog.. about.. what, and how things will be fun..

I can also recomend a PC game called BLISS.

-HtJ

Stakiefett

TALK TO HIM! If you don't tell him he will never know!! Husbands are not mind readers.

tannedknight45

I would just be honest with your husband. Tell him things you want to try, and get him excited about it :)

Jlyn

Tell him your deepest secrets. Tell him what turns you on and what you would like to try. Ask him to do the same for you.

whynotaskdon

Write out a reqest list with check off boxes. Paste it to the mirror. Put pencil on astring and hand next to list. He better laugh and check one off-- or send him for a transfusion!!!!!

Emma Woodhouse

things like what?
tell him what you want,seduce him-it's legal!

silkshop

ask for it

mookchop

Like what? Do things to him and see how he reacts...

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