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Gary B
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The only way to gain trust is to be trustworthy.
So LET him take you, LET him see what is going on. ASK him to cheer for you.
Some men are naturally jealous, but if all it take is letting him drive, then live with it. |
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sarah
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He's controlling. It's not healthy. Get him help or get out. |
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Alice W
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He is either controlling or he is the one cheating and that is why he can't trust you. Either way you better put a stop to it now before it gets worse. |
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commandercmurder
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Okkay here: Tell one of your good looking male friends to flirt with you while your husband is watching and have an angry face on and tell him to get lost.. isnt that perfect |
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Janet W
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Wow, talk about a control freak. If I were in that situation I'd just leave, I'd say "I'll be back in 2 hours" and go. |
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Tony
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It may be all the free time he had, he has found something on the side. I think he might feel you would too...guilt? |
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honeybee72781
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I've always heard that the accuser is the one that's most likely doing what they're accusing you of. Maybe he's cheating on you? |
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Anjell
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Been there done that...actually still doing it. What I realize is that the seeming-controlling behaviour is insecurity. They think we have some secret Romeo to replace them with.
It's hard not to feel annoyed sometimes but just know that he loves you and can't stand the thought of losing you, especially to someone else. Promise him some action after the game...he'll be co-operative |
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B
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You can't if he feels insecure or feels a need to control the situation then there is nothing you can do about that. That's his personality, you can either learn to deal with or NOT! |
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Christopher W
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Tell him that you are an adult and that he is not your father. Then plan a great girls night out and have fun!
Tell him, "Look, either you trust me and I can go out and have some fun like an adult, or you do not and perhaps we should go see a marriage counselor about your issues".
Oh, and your comment of "He works nights so he CAN'T be cheating". If I had a nickel for every time a woman said that and was wrong....
Not saying that he is, just saying. |
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krissielonglegs
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I can relate. My husband is an extremely jealous person and I'm tired of it myself. I work shifts so sometimes i dont get off until 12, 1am and when i get home he is up waiting for me and his first question is how many men hit on u today or how many numbers did u get today. He thinks its funny but i am sorely affended.
Your husband needs help if not for his sake for yours, because if he doesnt loosen up you probably will feel like you should cheat or should have been cheating, im there. |
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euclid_avenue_girl
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Be honest. You are going to cheat! Get that google GPS thing so he can see where you are all the time. |
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ranger_822nd
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my girlfriend went through the same bs for years - had to know where she was every second of the day - she had to have one of the kids with her so she couldn't be "meeting" someone else!!!! -
well - it finally got to her - she figured she is constantly being accused of something she wasn't doing so she said screw it - and did!!! except the it was me!!!!! - been seeing her for almost 9 months now!!!! and she is leaving him soon!!! |
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Lucy
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I can't believe what you women deal with!! He won't let you????lol He's gonna take you to softball??? lol I think your giving him too much freedom..he sounds like he's not trusting you because he's doing things that are "wrong"... he sounds guilty to me!! I have a brother that does the same thing!!! Life is too short to be playing games as an adult...get him some counseling or get out of this immature relationship!!! Sorry to be so blunt, but you asked..I'm trying to raise 3 daughters to pick happy and healthy relationships and this sounds all wrong... |
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