How can i tel if my wife is cheating while im deployed to iraq?

tushpush1966

You don't, you trust her.

Stacey

Don't worry about it so much. It's horrible that you would even suspect her of the in the first place. Women ARE capable of keeping their legs closed for a certain amount of time you know..

Rachel R

I'm sorry you are questioning that, especially being in iraq. As a marine wife, I have seen a lot of it. If u really dont trust her, hire someone to investigate, but if I were you, I would just ask her, and see what she says. If she says she hasn't, then just believe her and put it out of mind so you can do your job there and stay safe. Worry about it when you come. God Bless.

Big R

I'll take care of her and let you know !!

lol

just kidding.................dont you trust her ?

mm_mm_good80

heave friends or family drop in on her every once in a while or hire a private eye

msthinkpositive

Look, your loving your wife and getting married should have been done in good faith, meaning that there should be trust too. If she's never given you a reason to doubt her, then you really don't need to be in a state of doing that now with your health & life being in danger. Say your prayers for all to go well both there and at home, and things will be OK.

jalmanny

Have a friend watch her i guess.

MISHELL I

eyes.. they are the doorway to a persons heart and soul. Just stop and look, and ask her your questions, but let her eyes do the answering. You will get you answer.

Pretty Pimpin

Have you seen the movie Jarhead?

"the Otter"

Get your friends who are stateside to keep and eye on her, checking in from time to time. You could also hire a private investigator

grapeshenry

When you joined the military or when you got married, did you discuss long absences and how hard they would be on you both? This is really important. Can you tell? Probably not unless she leaves you for someone else. If you are asking this question, you don't trust her already. Better talk about it before you go! Maybe this marriage is already over.

"A" Mommy

When my husband was in the AF it happened all the time other men's wives "visiting" other men while they were away. My advice is make sure she knows you love her and trust her, have conversations with other men your working with and see if there wives say anything, I don't know of many DW's that don't know "whats going on" at someone Else's house! AND the other men will also tell you if they think she would... my husband had heard "rumors" once and the guys he works with told him, no way, I know your wife and I don't believe that for a minute. Bottom line, if you think you can't trust her there is probably a reason for it, step up and let her know "your the man the only man" she is probably lonely and scared.

yorkiemom

Free yourself let go of your fears, if you are that worried you should not be married to someone you do not trust.

Jeff L

trust her if you cant trust her why marry her. spying on her will just get you in trouble if she ever finds out.

Jack

You can determine if you wife is cheating while you are stationed in Iraq via several methods.

-Ask her if she is cheating on you
-Ask her friends if she is cheating on you
-Ask your friends if she is cheating on you
-Hire a private investigator to see if she is cheating on you

oohhbother

Why did you marry someone you have no faith in?
Go for marriage counseling when you get back - you clearly put no belief in your marriage.

prince47

tell as you like, because you are not here.

garre

you have to trust her....
if you cant, ask one of your close friend to spy on her.

cheer4tgirl@sbcglobal.net

ask her

coughfeeman

you cant=but if she is=hope its with another woman

MetallicLego

dont u trust ur wife enuff

ANGEL

PUT CAMERAS IN YOUR HOUSE.

Kalahari_Surfer

hire a private eye?

Joe L

Dude you're going to have enough to worry about over there.
If your wife can't be faithful while your gone she may not be worth worrying about anyway
Good Luck and may god be with you !

green_eyez1004

give her a polygraph test when you get back, i know it's hard man my husband is currently deployed and i worry about him but cheating has never evr crossed my mind. if she loves you she wouldn't.

God Bless

You can't.....you're just going to have to trust her. If your relationship isn't built on trust, then you are in the wrong relationship.

bigbbraz

If you come home and shes pregnant
It happened to a friend of mine

Go buy a hidden cam

boxing_fan_4_wlad

Find a local friend or private investigator to check up on her.

toni h

Honey, if she seems more distant, short in conversations, somethng could be going on. doesnt always mean she is cheating though. she could just be going through alot of stress, anxiety, loneliness, depression and worry with having you gone. sometimes, the signs are hard tell. good luck to you.

Shining Ray of Light

All you can do is ask. See what kind of reply you get, and upon returning home, you'll be able to see it in her eyes whether or not she's been faithful.

I want to thank you personally for being brave and serving in the military. It takes a lot to do what you've been doing...just want you to know you're much appreciated. God Bless!

As far as your wife, live for today is the best advise I can give you. It's bad enough you have to be away from your family for "X" amount of time, you shouldn't have to worry about what's going on at home. If she's cheating on you, she doesn't deserve to have a man like you.

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