How can i tell when my man is cheating?

My man takes walks to the store with our dog and doesn't come home for an hour or two. And when I ask what takes him so long? He gets mad so easily and refuses to answer anything. He keeps to himself alot. Texts at night, when I am asleep. He says it is his friend Al.
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Thanks for all of your e-mails. So I did a little investigating and looked into his phone records on my laptop. And looked into his : My StudioV on his Virgin mobile number. And there was this girl blowing kisses and showing off herself. I couldn't believe what I was seeing. And remarks his response was I love you, her reply was me too. See you soon. When I confronted him about it He says that MyStudioV already includes the photos. Now he is coming up with another lame excuse. Now does anyone know in what he is saying is true.?

magnolia_76

â™¦ Surprise him, by going on the walk with him... Just cheerfully tag along, as soon as the dog is on the leash. The texting a lot, could be a sign, especially if he is trying to keep it private. If he comes up with excuses NOT to spend time with you.. thats a sign too.

Cre8ive H

Maybe Al is short for Allison

windmill ever

hes up to something...maybe hes got a gay lover...

keirahâ„¢Æ¸ÌµÌ¡ÓœÌµÌ¨Ì„Æ·

get him followed. then you get your closure

Space Cadet #5

Tell him you are going to be naked and waiting for him in bed. If it still takes him an hour, either he's being honest or you've got a bigger problem.

Dragonfly

Get mad easily wit simple Q.. refuse to answer.. text at nite.. sumthing's not rite lady. Y didnt u check his communication log? Never ignore even the smallest thing gal.. e.g. he calls u b but suddenly he calls u baby.. anything. Listen carefully..

Via or Livi

Well ,that could be a sign. My ex before I dumped him, started going for long drives and saying he was just thinking. Then he started hanging out with his buddies more, pretty soon he had his own cell phone and would go outside and talk on it when I was around. One night when I got up to feed our new born son, his phone viberated. Me being me and not affraid to look, picked up the phone and looked at it. To my suprise it was some girl texting him at 3am telling him "hey baby how are you haven't heard from you in a couple days. Hit me up let me know whats up". I was sooooo pissed, but I didn't wake him up, I looked through his texts and found quite a few from girls I didn't even know and to boot at least 15 of them! The phone rang again,,and I answered. Asked her what was up and that it was pretty cheap to do such things. Then I found out he actually cheated on me with one of his so called girl friends and a 15 year old (he is 30). This he didn't tell me for two years (he is in jail, but we keep in contact for our son-pictures and what not), he wants back in but, in my gut I knew before he told me and that to me is the worst you can do to a person is lie and break their heart, when if your not man/woman enough to tell the other person its not working out. Talk to your man and hey...check out the phone! Best idea i ever had! lol

nitsrek

When he walks to the store and doesn't come home for an hour or two, and gets defensive when you ask what took him so long.

When he texts at night to his "friend" Al.

manymeese

My man and I take walks together... what is yours hiding? Another woman? Drugs? Did you ask him? Go with him.

Danielle

You will have to investigate that, be sneaky and follow him one night when he walks the dog. Check his phone records. If he is texting his friend Al that late at night then they must be fu*king, I'm just saying. What man really texts his friends like that?? If you are already feeling like something is wrong, then something probably is. Trust your gut and digg deeper to figure out what is going on. Good luck.

Positive P

Hard to know.

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