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Pretty In Pink
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Are you married to a dog ?
It sounds like you are since you used the word "train".
I recommend sending her to the best obedience school money can buy. Preferably one that is AKA approved. |
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Charlie M.
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You can't train your wife, she's not a dog. |
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nickipettis
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OK, you can not and should not try to TRAIN your wife, even to be something that she used to be.
Based on your Q, you 2 are already in deep trouble. Please find a marriage counselor, for your child's sake. |
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Real Talk
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maybe its not your wife. Maybe its you. Myabe you need to change to adjust to her changes.
Or...
Maybe yall have grown old of each other. A child is no reason to stay in a relationship, especially if you are just going to be miserable. Those emotions, whether you realize it or not, will get picked up by your child, one way or another, in the long run. In that case, it may be better for yall to separate before things really turn sour between you and your wife. |
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♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥
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Well Omar, she's not a dog that you can "train" She is a person. And people do change over time. Many things can contribute to a person changing. |
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ghdsklabk
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You cant simply 'train her'
Try to get romantic, take her out on a date.
Take her places.(dont spoil her though)
Make your wife young again, get her to exercise, or get her a hobby.
good luck. =] |
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SO BE IT!
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Sorry dude she's not a dog!!! |
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Spirit
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train did u say train your wife? how about a leash and some treats? i'm sure she will be laughing as she watches you pack yor bags.are you even 1/2 way serious? |
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Christian T
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ok you can't train your wife first of all... maybe you have changed too, you have to think about things before you do them... just try to make everyday a good day
the simplest things can make a day a good day |
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freestyleQUEEN
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If you have to train her, then that ain't what you want. Your girl is already molded into the women that she's going to be, and if she breaks that mold, you ain't were she wants to be. So maybe you need to train yourself to be the man she fell in love with. |
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free-spirit
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maybe your not the same guy she married...try to put some romance back into the relationship...it takes two to tango...right?stop treting her like a dog in trying to "train" her.
shes human and has feelings /thoughts and emothions. |
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happy
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Have you tried talking to her about your feelings? Tell her how you feel and if she still cares for you, she might change. She could have problems of her own. Try to be understanding and talk it over calmly. Good luck. |
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kimaam
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well talk to her about it, tell her how you feel, because it really is sad that youre only with her cuase of your daughter and not because of love! but maybe she'll change for the better, but also make sure you havent changed with her aswell, because if you have then thats why shes changed too. |
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heartsarebad
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Hi,
You haven't said how long you have been married, but you probabaly have changed alot too. If you married young, you are not the same person, and neither is your wife.
A Woman has a lot of growing in her lifetime, and there normally is a huge difference between being 18 and 25 , 30, 35, 40 and so on.
Please try to talk to her and work things out because you seem like a great father. |
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dragonfli507
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It's over! Married too young? Maybe it's you. Don't work hard to make yourself look attractive anymore perhaps. |
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Tina
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Let her know how you feel. Tell her you think she isn't the same person you fell in love with. You should also talk to in to going to consoling. It sounds lame but trust me it works wonders. Don't listen to any of these retards that are saying divorce her or cheat on her. Cheating should NEVER be an option and Divorce should be the last. Good luck. |
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Kat
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"Train"?? What does that say about the kind of guy you turned into?
I'm laughing because we're all wondering why he says 'train' and some schmuck is giving us all thumbs down! |
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Modern Man
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If you want to train your wife you are going to need an experience wife trainer. Look in the yellow pages under "Trainer, sale going on now! Just clip the coupon and save over 50%!" Maybe you have changed a little too. See a marriage counselor. You may have to change counselors quite a few time because most are not that good, but it is worth the trouble. Good luck |
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Lindsay's Putative Sangfroid
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There area lot of steps you can take, but you need to figure them out. Why be in a relationship that is damaging, and that your daughter can tell is probably keeping you so distant. Marriage can do that kinda thing. |
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letterstoheather
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If your wife has changed, then perhaps you have, too?
It takes TWO to make a marriage work....maybe she has some issues? It wouldn't help to ask her how she feels about you and the marriage.. and tell her you would like things to go back to the way they were.
If you both work on a decision on whether to try and work things out (marriage counseling, self-help books?) it may be better for the two of you.
take care. |
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sweet
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talk to her..
remind of her all qualities you loved before..
you must first to make initiate
sweetnessess/romance
to restore your love or vice versa..
Give, and it will given/back to you.. |
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aida
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she is your wife not a dog that you want to train her!!!go educate yorself no wonder she changed.I would never marry someone that wants to TRAIN me!!!shame on you |
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lnce
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In what way you wanted her to change?and in what way she has changed?...how long you two got married?as far as I know,as long as your wife never neglected you as her husband,and never cheats on you,you can always sit and talk to her about what you wanted her to be liked as it used to be....you can always work things out if you communicate with each other and be open.....have a talk with her,and find out why....It's good to hear that you're holding on,just becoz of your daughter....keep it up..hope you will find a peace of mind in your thoughts today... |
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Beyounce
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People tend to mostly change and get comfortable once they are in a relationship. It all revolves around respect.
People grow apart and they grow at different rates of maturity speed and educational reasonings.
Come together or your daughter will suffer.
That's why so many Hollywood marriages suffer.
Different of opinions and rate of success, ego's and living openly in the public causes confusion.
Sit down and communicate. Do some counseling. If she can't see your side or visa versa. What will be will be. Listen to this.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=BFS5ToY84_0 |
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Mebs G
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just make trust in your wifes heart for you and try to win her trust
good luck |
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Taylor S
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Lets get one thing straigh, you can not train a person to be the way you want them to be.
Now i would suggest that you try talking to your wife about the way you feal in a nice and none offensive matter. Also let her know that you do love her and you want to make things right. See how she reacts with time and if you are still not happy then i do believe that you guys were simply not meant to be. Their is no harm in getting a divorce as long as it is a peacefull one for your daughters sake. You guys can still raise her well as long as you stay frneds with good communications. Many children grow up with divorced parents and turn out just fine. Its better to have divorced happy parents then unhappy together parents.
Good luck! |
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overweight doomsayerz
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You can't train a person.
You can make suggestions and talk to her. |
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♪Msz. Nena♫
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Maybe you're not the man that she fell in love with either. I have no doubt that you wife may have changed but if you have it in your mind that a woman can be "trained" like a dog, you're out of your mind.
If you want things to work and get things back to the way they were then the two of you need to seek marriage counseling to try and resolve issues in your marriage and work on communication skills. |
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haditforgood
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Train?... No, ! . But maybe you can "teach" her how to treat you properly , and vice a versa. It is possible to teach people how to treat you. It is all about respect and priorities.
Bottom line, of you want her to treat you like a King then you should treat her like a Queen. Then hopefully it will turn out to be a win'-win situation of mutual respect and kindness.
Good luck. I hope it all works out for you both. Leave the "training" to dog handlers. Woman need an open, honest caring environment in order to thrive. |
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kristus412
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People change talk with her. Learn what she is like now you may find you like her better. |
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