How can it hurt if HIS WIFE WILL NEVER KNOW?

do you not have a conscience?

Brandie H

So let me get this straight...you have been cheated on and after experiencing first hand the hurt and humiliation you would inflict that on someone esle?!? Wow...if only I could be like you...I think I'd shoot myself...

You need to get a life and leave that man alone. He is someone's husband now. He is married and whether or not that means anything to you it does mean something to his wife...Leave him be.

PS I have been cheated on too and I would never...I repeat NEVER inflict that kind of pain on another person...Shame on you.

charisma

No, you are not seing anyone else, but he is. He happends to have made a vow to his wife, and i bet you any money he is fuc**ng her too. She WILL find out sooner or later, you are a woman, you know you would find out if it were you. And I also think, that you should not lower your standard to a man that is commited to another woman... don't you ever feel like you deserve to have your OWN man?? You should talk to him and call it off before the sh*t hits the fan.

kevin02915

simple married means no one else forever

i hope you get cheated on then you will know

Pegi

You homewreckers really make me sick. Put yourself in his wife shoes, if you found the man of your dreams and married him but there is a trick from his past that is offering to do a dirty deed with him and he takes her up on it, how would that make you feel? better yet what if it was your daughters husband would you tell him to continue on as long as she didn't find out about it. Get your own man and then you wouldn't have to sneak 1200 miles just to get laid.

lady31

and how did you feel when it was YOU who was being cheated on.

She will find out whether she checks phone records, emails, something. SHE WILL FIND OUT.

What kind of woman are you?

Neptune2bsure

How selfish is this question, if you don't want him, why do you want to hurt the one that loves him and does want him.

You sound like big trouble and you and your friend are commiting adultery, if you can live with that, go ahead. There is a price for everything.

Just remember, things like this have a way of coming back and biting you in the b hind.

cheri <3

BECAUSE HE'S MARRIED.

can you not find a man of your own? must you take other womens MEN!?? does no other man want you?

Victor B

With all of the available men why would you take on the greif of a married one. There is no future at all in that relationship, besides the fact that its just plain wrong.

michaeljazz

If you truly believed in your heart that there was nothing wrong with doing this, then you wouldn't have to ask strangers for their advice. Are you hoping we'll tell you something that you already know you won't hear?

It is your own conscience that you are now trying to convince. Come on lady; you know that you're wrong.

Mitch

KARMA IS A *****!

Oh wow â™¥

Have some decency, woman.

sunbun

it is your choice...why are u asking again...did u not like the answers you received...are u so desperate that you must USE another woman's man...Can't u find your own.

freaky momma

Are you just stupid or are you dumb to! What do you think GOD is thinking about this.

luv2love

What goes around comes around. You are a selfish person. Put yourself in the shoes of the "other" woman. Find a real man who is true and honest.

travelingirl005

Integrity and Ethics are the reason......

Even if she doesn't know....You know...and that's reason enough....Not too!

Just because someone else does it, does it make it right?

You were there....you know how it feels....why lower yourself to a sublime level?

Hoping you see the light.

Best wishes

Lil_jonathan_onDeck

because even thought u don't think it can hurt you it is still in him and then he go to his wife knowing that he has did xy and z with you and he starts to feel it they have a sercert bond that they made to each other and he just broke that and if his wife don't know guess what GOD knows

Lulu

When your husband cheated on you did it hurt you? I bet it did. Why on Earth would you want to make another woman feel as hurt as you did? Also it is just plain wrong. You would be no better than the man that cheated on you! And by the way not all men cheat, my husband loves me and has never cheated. In fact, this is his second marriage, the first on broke up because SHE cheated on HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

freddie

first of all....why are you condoning the fact that this guy is cheating on his wife...and second of all what if he's doing that with other women...how long will you be disease free?

Jewells

Have more respect and pride for yourself. Why on earth would you want to put yourself in this situation? Sounds like trouble to me.

Sharon M

Because it will change how he behaves toward her. Once there is a secret in a marriage, the foundation of the marriage starts to crack. And what about your self-esteem? How good about yourself can you possibly feel when you become the "dirty mistress?" And don't kid yourself that she will never know. Wives know.

rhamm618

First, you better make sure you know the woman you are about to tread on before you do; otherwise, tread lightly.

Slice of Life

Well, it takes 2 not one. The question is: Is he doing this with many women? You cannot trust someone's words. I say stop because you're only hurting yourself. So what she doesn't know but in the end it will affect you. So leave him alone. Don't respond to his advances. Even though you say you don't want him, why isnt there anyone else that you're seeing?

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