How can my partner leave his family?

*â‰ˆSTEVIEâ‰ˆ* *â‰ˆBâ‰ˆ*

You`re a selfish cow, leave him to his family. If i was the mother of his kids and you were trying to nick my bloke you wouldn`t have much of a face left.......

Lor24

You sound a little selfish,it's not all about you! It's difficult for him to make that commitment. I would guess that he doesn't really want to leave them anyway.

Devdude

Your just a snake and probably dont deserve our help.

Emily Hobhouse

It's not "your" partner. It's someone else's. And they made four children who deserve a decent homelife. Those kids didn't choose to come into their world - their parents decided to have babies. And now one have them has changed his mind. "Oops - I made a mistake. I shouldn't have had children!
People like you make me really angry. You are so utterly selfish.

outsideoftacoland

HOMEWRECKER! What comes around, goes around. Your turn will come sooner than you think.

lolly

If he really wanted to leave them he would. Maybe he is stringing you along. Might be time to move on.

steph

um.. maybe you shouldn't be invovled with a married or a committed man..

take the hint he obviously doesn't really want to leave his family for you..
otherwise he would..

Hope

homewrecker, why can't you just find a man of your own.If you knew he was married, why did you go for him in the first place.We don't need peopel like you.

a_lot_smarter_now

That was your first mistake. Getting involved with a banded man with committments and responsibilities to someone else. Personally, I don't understand why ANY woman wants to try to build a relationship with someone like that from the very beginning on such a shaky foundation. If he is messing around with YOU on her, what makes you think the next better thing that comes along won't replace YOU? I don't want ANY man I have to steal out from some other woman.

Stitch

Back off..............cheater

tattylashes

why are you trying to tear this man away from his kids? do you know what damage it can do to them? thats really low life....get someone who's got no kids....if you cant wait forever...move on...it's obvious that his kids are more important than you....i pity you

notyochic

girl i hope you like fire cuz you r going to burn in HELL!!

Secret S

if he can cheat with you he can cheat on you. get the drift...... get your own man. you're the problem honey.

Mrs Stevo

You selfish little ******

miss.sunshine

obvisouly he not in love with you he should tried harder the point is he know going to leave his family for you. you need to move on

louloubelle

Sorry, but you are not getting any sympathy from me. You went into this relationship knowing he had a partner and children. You should have had enough control and respect for yourself and his partner to wait until he had left her before embarking on a new relationship.
I'm sorry, but if he really wanted to leave his family, then he would have done so. He obviously doesn't care much for them to have betrayed them like this anyway.
He has got it made, wife and family at home, and bit of stuff on the side. Why would he want to leave?
Get some respect and finish it now.

native

he is cheating with you now, if you get together he will be cheating on you. he is a cheater and he always will be. you should move on now and find someone who is single.

***Missy***

Girls like you make me sick!!!
Why cant you find your own man, rather then stealing an other women's??
If his cheating now, he will cheat on you!!!!
If he REALLY loved you he would have left his family for you by now.
Your nothing but a marriage wrecker!!!!

Kailey

You need to make it easy for him!!!! Why would you ever want a man to leave his family for you?? You need to get out of his life so he can be where he belongs - with his children!!!!

Doesn't sound like your in a relationship to me!

Maureen

What is it that you love most about him? Is it the way that he can lead a dishonest life in order to do whatever feels good for him?

If he wasn't happy in his relationship, why didn't he make an honest, respectful break with his partner?

kathleen c

If a married man welcomes another woman into his life, it shows his true character.....I don't care HOW much this behavior is accepted anymore, it is JUST WRONG. Those kids have no choice, do they? If their dad chooses to cheat on their mother, it's a cowardly way of hiding from issues that NEED to be addressed between he and his wife, and NOT to seek "comfort" from YOU! There are plenty of single men, so address your OWN actions.....you are allowing yourself to tresspass into someone else's life, and to possibly change their futures FOREVER! This exact situation has happened to me and my family.....my kids are 27, 23 and 16, NOT babies, and still, they are broken. They hurt. They will NEVER be able to have a Christmas together, sit down at the dinner table together, experience joys and sorrows together. Damn you, and damn my husband of almost 30 years and his little homewrecker. He has taken advantage of the weakest and most vulnerable time of my life to justify his choice to leave. They never considered MY kids, just as YOU are not, let alone considering me or the wife of your "boyfriend"......that person was right, telling you that YOU are NOT his partner, his WIFE IS! Get out.

magic

Well dont wait forever then BIT CH.

cleancutspike

ain't nobody leaving nobody for you.

cutiepie81289

You have to stop thinking about yourself. I know how difficult that can be but his children come first and if that means that he needs to stay in his marriage no matter how unhappy that makes him then he must do so, you can't expect him to just leave them behind and to be with you. I know it's difficult for you to understand from your point of view, falling in love with someone who is married is the worse thing because you can never truly have that person the way you want, you have to steal time together and if you love him then you would wait forever.

Unfortunately, that's one of the biggest headaches about being involved with a married man. He may not really WANT to leave his family. And even if he does succeed, and you get him in the end, what have you really gotten? A man who is known to cheat. He did it with you, what are your assurances he won't ever do it to you? Can you ever really trust him?

Valentina

They all say they are going to leave their families. It's not going to happen. Move on and let him try to work out his own problems with his family. Trust me he isn't going anywhere. He is married, he has a family.... if he hasn't left by now he never is.

jillybird

There is no need to wait forever. Encourage him to stay with his family and you move on.
You cannot build a happy relationship on someone elses unhappiness.
He will always regret hurting his children and will come to resent you for making him.
It is always the woman who has to be strong so think of your own future and find someone without all this baggage.

Leapling

I'm not going to take the moral high ground with you - I've had a fling with a married man but I did it with my eyes open - I never expected him to leave his wife for me.

If someone wants to leave they will find a way. So I'm with most people here, he doesn't want to and poor you have got your fingers burnt.

I suggest you don't wait but move on - that will force his hand one way or the other and at least you get to stop being 'the other woman' and be sure that if your lover says he's gonig to turn up a problem with 'the kids' or 'the wife' won't keep him away.

sassy

he has no intention on leaving if he really wanted to he would. sounds like a bunch of excuses.

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