How can you tell if this married man wants a fling n the side, and should you go for it if you want it?
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How can you tell if this married man wants a fling n the side, and should you go for it if you want it?
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i work in a very public place where i am in constant contact with many men away from home on business.. well, i have become oh, so extremely attracted to one in particular guy.. he is 18 years older than i am, but hes hot, funny, flirty and so nice, its a shame hes married...
well, he is flirty, and hes told me hes had very impure thoughts about the 2 of us, and i really want to induldge in those thoughts, and make them a reality..
yes, thats wrong, and i should leave him alone, but miss him when hes away.. it makes me ill to think of him alone at home w/ his wife.. if he is so happy, why would he be so flirty w/ ME ??? yes, i know ladies, im a "homewrecker", but that is not really my intent.. i want him as a friend and as a lover.. he and i have a great time talking and the playful banter we share is special.. just talking to him makes me feel like a woman should.. he makes me feel desired, and thats nice..
how could i possibly make him, or get him to do what he says he wants to?? im not asking him to leave is wife.. i just want some lovin from him.. please advise, and stay outta this if you're goning to be nasty... i want good advice, because i do want something from him
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jude
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it would be just fine if it didn't involve hurting someone else. |
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I Love 007
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If you "ain't settlin" then why would you hook up with a married man?
I'd say that is settling. |
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Shannon
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NO. Tell him he should put that much energy into his marriage and maybe his wife wouldn't be so cold to him. |
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Complicated
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You can't make someone do something they don't want to. And, I don't understand why that would be appealing, anyway.
Stop trying to force his hand. IMO, he's in BIG trouble if he gets intimately involved with you. You are going to be a hassle--I bet he sees that bc it's crystal clear to me. |
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lizardb876
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This is a very sincere serious answer..And I am answering for your benefit, please believe me.....
This "high" your on...Is dellusional...And this situation will destroy you and bring you down....
If you don't believe me go to www.gloryb.com....Go to Forums...Click on "Endings" and see the wreckage...of "OW's"...
"Other Women" and the sheer destruction these Married Men cause to you, themselves and their families...
If you have one ounce of self preservation RUN! RUN AWAY AS FAST AS YOU CAN!
The fact that you already "feel ill about his wife..." states that the psychological ill dynamic of this situation has already gotten to a sick place with you...
You are not different, he is not different...this has been acted out a million times before...You are headed for a horrible horrible human experience....
Don't believe me? Go to the link I sent you above.
I say this, as I truly do want you to be healthy and wish you the best.
But I don't think your going to listen, I think your going to fall hard and f*ck yourself up completely...
It is my absolute wish that you do not...take it from one who knows....
Get out now and save yourself, send him packing and find a "thrill " or "happiness" elsewhere....
Away from a Married Man....Seriously.
All the best....It sounds like I am being harsh, I just know whats going to happen here and trying to save you.
hugs. |
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Sweetie
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If you want good advice, then you know it is wrong! And Please don't think you are the only woman he is flirting with! He has a few women, just not you! Sorry! |
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huckleberrymoe
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First off, you are already lying to yourself and that's a big no no when fking a married man. You can't stop thinking about him yet you just want him as a fck buddy and a friend, think about that, doesn't make any sense.
You are falling for him already, you are already emotionally attached, if you do him, that will just tip you over the mountain you would be the crazy hoe on the side who can't let go. Walk away from this and compose yourself. If you were just in it for the fun and the 2 or three time fck, I would say go for it but you are already in over your head sweetie. |
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PB
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wow... what if that were YOUR husband? I think youre living in a made up reality and youre going to feel shame later on. I think youre lonely and making bad decisions. |
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