How did you get revenge on your cheating or abusive husband?

Tmeda

Don't focus on revenge. Revenge is the Lord's. What you do is get out of that relationship. Do things to make yourself happy being happy should be your ultimate goal. If your a good woman (which you probally are) it will be his loss. Losing a good woman is more than enough. Don't reward anyone who doesn't respect you with your presence. KARMA is a mother* and it will come back. Enjoy your life and be happy. There is more to life than trying to get revenge on anyone.

cutie

I wouldn't try to get revenge. I would just leave him and walk out of his life.

Champagne

No revenge.

I said goodbye, walked away,lost weight, went back to university and enjoyed life.

Jeez did he regret being a cheating scumbag.

Pam H

Living well is the best revenge.

Amarie

Wish I was as nice as some of the others but I wasnt. He abused me, cheated, got another girl pregnant. I 'cleaned' out the house. Took everything but the bed he cheated on me in, the washer, dryer and refrigerator. I put sardines inside the mattress, Fix-a-Flat in the washer, dryer and refrigerator hoses, clorox on the hardwood floors, sardines down the heating vents and turned the heat on high before I walked out the door. I also put Epicac syrup in his tea, just a little. Took all of his food and BEER, that made him upset the most since he was an alcoholic. He called the cops on me but since I was 250 miles away they didnt believe I did it. Of course they said even if I did take everything in the house, he couldnt do a thing because 1. we were still legally married, therefore I was entitled to the belongings and 2. My name was on the rental agreement NOT his. He fought the divorce for 8 months but I finally won. After the divorce was final he asked me to take him back...I did...just long enough to clean out his bank account. NOW he is married to an ugly woman that he met in a bar. Yep, he met her on a Saturday, married her on a Monday. From what I hear, SHE IS abusive to HIM!
But to me, my best revenge was becoming a Christian, losing weight, finding a GREAT man, starting my own company and sending my ex a thank you letter. Yes, I thanked him for making me see what type of person I could be without him in my life. Would you believe he still asked me to take him back?? Even offered to divorce his new wife, which is #4 by the way!
My advice is, if you want revenge, you are NOT really over this person. I realized I just wanted to hurt him because he hurt me and that I was still trying to hold onto him. I finally 'let go of him'. Now My life is soooo much better and I am a LOT happier!

5drtyu

I divorced him and now have a ton of money.

wrfine

Life will get you in due time

Debbie

I've not had a cheating or abusive husband but I have heard this story about a woman that did. When her husband left and divorced her, he got the house. So when she was moving out she took some small fish, like sardines or something and sewed them into the hems of the drapes. Now that really caused a stink! LOL!

spicy girl 1

Sleep with his best friend. Besides his BF knows everything about you anyways.

icantstandher

i unfortunately have had both of those in my life. i left them both and could care less about revenge. I can only assume that life will take care of the rest. or at least that is what i am hoping.

aie n

dump him and find someone better for you

tiuliucci

Revenge on a cheater or an abuser is not really possible. Cheaters do not respect their partners and abusers do not believe that they have done anything wrong in the first place.

Forget revenge. Move on and make sure you understand why you found such a person. That way you can find a better person in the future.

In order to avoid cheaters and abusers you have to find someone who respects you. A good relationship is based upon two best friends who trust, respect and love each other.

Take care,
Troy

iaidoka1967

My sister in law slept with her husbands brother. Her husband is now kissing her ***.

flowerchildofthecorn

I spent many years trying to plan the best revenge. I finally realized that it was consuming too much of me, and gave up and just hope kharma will happen in it's own time

azz hole

This is azz hole himself....

Get all the credit cards and go shopping, get the check book and go shopping, but do NOT bounce checks because you can be accountable for it in the court of a divorce.

Anyway - then throw the **** away!!

MEN - we love our money, that is our dreams, that is why we work our damn butts off.

Pay backs are a *itch

Sharon F

i wouldn't worry about getting revenge

something will happen in his life and it will all come back to him

pick up the pieces of your life, move on and be happy for YOU

danya2171

buy the cheapest Axe body spray u can find (3 cans is Good, any size) then make them spray all of there contents into his car

put salt into his coffee

pore Nair or some product that is used to dissolve hair into his shampoo

or go on the TV show Cheaters

Taz

It is called DIVORCE.....

betty hello!!!!!!!!!!

revenge is mine says the lord, so i left the house and got my own place and prayed for them. and by the grace of god they have to give up their home because without me they couldn't afford it. and live where ever they can. prayer works wonders. im happier than i have ever been and all because i prayed and relyed on god for guidence to help me move on.
revenge would have made me no better than the person i left.
besides everything that has happened is only bad news for them.

xp2c

Living your life right, and being a good person, is the best revenge. Good luck.

shedogg30

i think that leaving is up to you but if you want to stick it out don't do anything cause that just puts you at their level and your better than that..let karma do it's thing

bronzebabekentucky

"revenge"? well, living a wonderful life is great!
i divorced my lying cheating ex... then i bought a new house, put my kids thru school, worked and made a lot of money, then met and married a great guy
is that revenge?

BabyDaddy-U Gone Smell my cologn

Karma will give him your revenge.

Sometimes, the best revenge is no revenge at all. They keep expecting it to be coming and are always looking over their shoulders waiting for it to happen. It can make them very paranoid, which, in itself can be a pretty good revenge. Besides all that, they are building very bad Karma, all on their own.

lisa asks

The greatest and sweetest revenge is getting on with your wife and being happy!! Then he gets to see what he has lost...

nobody you know

Just live a better life. Once he sees that you are happy and content even without him, then he will see what he lost. When that day comes, you won't even care anymore whether or not you got your revenge.

Sweetness

I try not to be vengeful because i'm a huge believer in karma, BUT... my abusive ex-husband and I were divorced and he refused to move his broke down truck from my yard. I knew the DMV was in his grandfather's name. I gave him two notices to move it, then hired a scrap metal salvage person and had him cut it into thousands of little pieces and dispose of all the evidence. It just dissapeared overnight and there's no sign of it now. It probably was made into something new by now. I just got sick of his control and the games and had to move on with my life. I'm proud of myself for it.

Jenny Smith

why get revenge? just leave the loser

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