How do I???

BrownEyedGirl

Good luck with that. She may never be for this situation. Sounds like a mess.

galfonso11

Stop dating a married man... that might help.

blue eyes

well first of all u are a HOME WRECKER!! and how old are you to be still living with mommy. GROW UP couldnt you find a single man

Debz

you dont.
you ruined someone else's marriage.
im sure your proud of yourself. who are you to think you can just walk around and steal other peoples husbands. you want respect... well you certainly did NOT show respect to that poor woman or to her husband. what goes around, comes around and hits you twice as hard.

dunvop

"Respect" has nothing to do with this. Never had, never will. The sooner you accept this, the better off you all will be.

freakyallweeky

If you want someone to respect you, you have to show respect. You did not respect this man's wife or the fact that they are married so why should your mother respect you? You should have told this man that you have a connection with him that you wish to persue but you will not be involved with him while he is married and then never see him again until such a time as he is divorced or seperated and no longer living with his wife.

MLE

You can't expect her to respect you being with a man who is cheating on his wife. Don't worry she won't disapprove for long, soon he will be cheating on you too and you will be begging her for forgiveness.

Angela

You don't deserve respect as you are "seeing" a married man.

Tracey

Stop dating him.... she will love that. If he cheats on his wife, he will cheat on you.

Magic 8 Ball: The Witch is In

You are still living with your mother. You have to obey her house rules, it's part of the deal whether you are 16 or 56. Her house, her rules.

Homewrecker. Shame on you for seeing a married man.

Pepperpaige

she may never because she knows that your actions were very wrong. just move out and get your own place.

TAT

That is a toughy. Unless she is okay with infidelity (married people/affairs) she probably will not respect either of you but getting your own place would be a step in the right direction.

Aaron M

I wouldn't respect either of you. You will be known as a marriage wrecker to your mom and the soon to be ex-wife. I'm sure your mommy is very proud of you.

Wanderer

homewrecker?

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six3rd

HOMEWRECKER

Baby girl due 6/26/09!!

I can't answer that question because I personally can not respect a woman who goes after married men. This man has no respect for the sanctity of marriage. If he was unhappy, he should have gotten a divorce before he started sleeping around. Believe me honey, he will do the same thing to you if he marries you. And when he does, don't get mad because you're going into this relationship with your eyes wide open, knowing what kind of man he is.

condosgirl

If I were your mother, I wouldn't respect you either - he's a married man that is cheating on his wife. What is there to respect about that? And your actions are just as bad because you know he's married and you're still willing to sleep with him. Pay for a motel or grow up and get your own apartment.

She may not respect it because she thinks he is going to do the same thing to you that he did to his wife.

Rainy

I would find it hard to respect a man that cheated on his wife . .so I wouldn't expect your mother to respect him either . . respect has to be earned . . . personally I would never respect him he could have chosen to divorice his wife first but he didn't . . if you knowingly "dated" a married man I wouldn't have much respect for you either

pinniethewooh

Post again when he actually leaves his wife.

Lisa M

i agree with every answer that says...
'HOMEWRECKER'

my mom wouldnt like it much either if i ruined someones marriage. I side with your mom... he's not for you.
If he will do it to his wife who he placed a bond before god and his family... im sorry to say that he will deffinatly do the same to you.

Erin M says ss?? kiss xxx love u

stop sleeping with a taken man WOULD HELP

Gettin' There

Try not dating a married man......you inserted yourself while a married couple were probably unhappy and going through a rough time, and now instead of working on his marraige or going to counseling with his wife etc YOU have enticed him to just cheat on her give up all together and now leave her........if he'll do that to her he might do it to you sweetie......consider this: People get married because they were happy and in love at one point. If I was your mom I wouldnt have any respect for you or him either

J-Luv The Bunny

You can't get her to support let alone respect something so immoral. If she is a moral/virtuous woman I hate to rain on your parade but it's NOT EVER gonna happen.

Even if you're not religious right is right and wrong is wrong, period there is no in between and it seems like Mom is not giving you that in between neither. Her house her rules, wait until you get your own house to sweep your own dirt in. Until then be prepared for lots of disapproval, treachery, misery, and deceit. You are in for a life of turmoil.

Danometer

Your mother might never respect him, and the fact that he was willing to cheat on his wife should make it difficult for you to believe that he's be true to you.

It's going to take years for her to accept it. Be prepared.

Robinmp

There is no respect in a situation like yours!!!!!

Kat the Almighty

ok dating a married man, thats pretty screwed up. Dump the guy, let him live his life, and find someone available.

Karabear

she will probably respect him more after he is divorced bc right now you are the other woman and how can you respect a man that would cheat on his wife he should be ashamed

Female

Put yourself in the other womens shoes. How would you feel if you found out your husband was having an affair. Your mother has every right to feel that way. She can't respect someone who is cheating on his wife. It proves that he might not be trustworthy. He could cheat on you. She doesn't want to see you hurt.

I'm sorry. I had to say that.

I can't see your mom respecting him. You're just going to have to ignore it. He is going to have to prove himself to her. (That he can be trusted)

Queen of Beer

Man, you screwed up. Your mother won't respect you OR your married boyfriend. Way to go.

Dave R

If you seek respect - show respect for others. I won't pass judgment on your relationship with the guy as I don't know the whole story. He displays a lack of respect for marriage and you need to take very serious note of that as you move on.

Good luck

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