How do I get back at a married man for playing with me?

KingAndrew

Sorry that you were lured in by this S.O.B., there really is not much you can do legally, but there is a few things you can do, but, you have to be careful and not get caught. As a retired S.O.B., I have had one of my classic cars beaten with a baseball bat. I have had windshields broken while I was on patrol. I have had them show up at my house with male friends threatening to beat me. But the worse one, talked me into marrying her, then caused me 8 years of hell. So take you pick and next time be more aware of all the S.O.B.'s out there.

SAM

By walking away and be glad that he is out of your life.

Trying to do anything more will only entangle you with his life and all those issues/problems/chaos in his life/relationship.

Ms. M

Why do you want to get him back? You let him play with you...Consider it a lesson and don't keep doing it.

Gordon Shumway

Be mature enough to let it go and stay away from married men. That ought to show him.

sarah

Karma

Quasimodo

Why?

Stick a gun to your head did he?

Takes two to tango. maybe you should do some background digging before you share your bed with someone.

Jason O

Find out his home address and have flowers sent to him with a nice card thanking him for the great time and can't wait till we can do it again. Be sure to use his name and refer to his poor unsuspecting wife by name as well so he can't say it must be some other guy named Bob.

B G

Mmmm ask his wife this question and she what she thinks.

jerry_6669

A married man huh? Did you know he was married? he probably done it before. consider it a lesson and move on.

Mystic Renegade

Tell his wife and make him suffer the consequences. Unfortunatly, you make her suffer too, but if my husband were cheating I would want to know.

BadMonkey

If you knew he was married and played anyway you do nothing. If he lied about being married and you feel played with because you found out about his marital status, tell his wife. If you've beth been lied to then it's not a douche-bag thing to do. If you went in with eyes wide open, though, you keep your mouth shut and move on.

aha

have gay magazines subscribed in his name, sent to his workplace or his favorite hangout, bar, gym

leahcane

Let it go he'll get his soon enough.

I tell it like it is

Meet his wife and go for coffee. BTW, didn`t you know when married men fool around they always play you?

Sara

kick yourself for being so naive

lilshrtcke

Call his house late at night and ask for him. tell her oh i'm sorry are you married to him. he has met with me before and i never knew he was married or i would of never had anything to do with him. well i'm sorry for waking you up and please tell him to never call me again. I have more character then that. again sorry

kittysue2000

If you knew he was married, you don't have any right to get back at him. You knew right away that he was just playing with you

If you didn't know he was married, found out later, and broke up with him immediately, then you can tell his wife.

concernone

Players will eventually get played. He played you but you deserved it for messing around with a married man and now you're seeking revenge, unless you didn't know.
He will get his in the long run but if you continue to do evil for evil, it will eventually back fire on you again.

missmaggie

seriously, i would tell his wife...

the gay magazine subscription idea someone lese mentioned wasnt a bad idea, either.

tell someone else in his family, too.

dont listen to other people's negative comments. while its not cool you did that, its more his fault than yours.

bordermec

Depends on how he played you. Were you expecting more from him? Are you married? Was the relationship happy? This is a hard question -without knowing all the facts.

Marcus

You don't.
You learn to not be played.

Faith

You dont you knew what you where getting yourself into silly.

Trevor

Go sleep with his son and send him a picture of what he is missing! haha

Brian Tubbs

Don't build your life around revenge. Let it go. Learn from it. Grow. Move on.

RuthAnn

His gift to U is that now U know better. U won't make that same mistake ever again -- but he probably will. So feel lucky, and go on with your precious life.

happy 1

moving on is the best.

Wisen Smart

The same way you'd get back at a lion after he bit you when you put your finger in his mouth. What did you expect?

charlie

Stop wasting your time on him. haven't you already spent too much time on him?? For christ sakes, except that YOU also had responsibilty in this too for seeing a married guy!!!!!!! Next time make sure they aren't married!!!!!!! Forget it and go on with your life. Start moving forward instead of backwards!!!!!!!!

Faith

a. Learning from your mistake.
b. forgive yourself for lowering your standard, and making yourself look cheap when your worth so much.
c. forgive him for being so weak
d. forgive yourself for getting involved
e. grow

Gabriel C

you don't ,you got f-ed twice!!

sheilasidberry

Ignorance comes in many form as you can see through the comments...LOL...I advise to let go and let God because the battle is not yours...I was once in your shoes and know how it feels to be betrayed and lied to...always remember you can walk away at any time..it is the wife problem because if he cheated once on her, he will do it again....just thank God first for revealing it to you..then move on to someone who is more worthy for you....This woman has to worry everyday of her life that her husband do not bring her any type of diseases, or a mad stalker because he choice to be deceitful...men like that can manipulate you into thinking he is not with his wife and promise you the world..Let Go and stand back and let God do the work for you...(Big Smile)

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