How do I get get my boyfriend to admit he cheated? (or at least find the truth)?

When we were havingsome difficulty, and we were both unhappy about 7 months ago I think my boyfriend cheated. Heres all the evidence: 1. He spent the night at her house "people were trying to kill her" 2. She moved in to his attic " About 5 other people lived there, and she was hiding from the people who were trying to kill her" 3 He called me "Angie" in his sleep 4- his ex-girlfriend gave me his myspace password where I found a message from angie telling "you didnt tell Becky we *******" he said "Both those girls hate me and they're out to get me" and 5- Angie herself admitted everything in detail that happend. He denied. Denied. DENIED. Back then I was to much of a coward to face what happened. I just dropped it. Seven months later our relationship is so great were so in love, but I cant let go of that until he tells me the truth. Then I can work things out and move on. Ive already tried to call the Maury show but they dont take calls from Ohio. Please help.

jude

a man won't admit to a thing unless he is ready to leave u. if this happened seven months ago why bring it up now? the time to have brought it up was then.

Paul&Fran

First off what good is this going to do for you? If things are good now put the past behind you and enjoy it. Drudging this up is just going to drive a wedge between you. I know its hard to do but give it your best shot. I know this from personal experience. I almost lost what i had by not letting things go.

Cathy

Have you told your boyfriend all the evidence you have found?
Maybe you should tell him why you think he cheated. Make sure you don't seem like you're very mad (your not?), tell him you just need to know the truth.

Good luck.

â™¥B@BY~GURLâ™¥

LEAVE HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Alexis C

This looks fishy and it is apparent that he is lying to you. The fact that this is still nagging you means it is time for you to confront him and if he does not tell the truth, believe me it is obvious that the other girl already has the truth. Everything is apparent and he is in a great deal of denial. It doesn't matter that he wants to stay with you now and you guys are all good, what matters is he might be lying and you need to smarten up and make a decision, either you stay with him without knowing the full truth or you get out of the relationship. In my opinion, he cheated on you.

BOBBY

when u love some one there should'nt no hide and seek game between u too happiness is what we have ......................if he really felt love with another girl why he will live with u buddy ........
think before act

mom737

good luck on getting him to admit it.....i had an ex that i knew for a fact cheated on me(VM on his phone n friends telling me). But even after I left him and he started dating the girl he cheated on me with, he still wouldn't admit he cheated!!!!!!!!!! Most guys are scum.( My father on the other hand is the epitomy of a great man. Ben with my mom for 32 years and counting. He still buys her flowers just for the hell of it!!!!!! ) Wish I could find one like him! You will never get the truth out of him. And exactly what good would it do now if you found out????? Especially since you are both so in "love"!!!!!!!!!! Sorry if this sounds a little depressing but it's the truth.....Why does it matter now???????????? Oh and by the way...I'm pretty sure he cheated. Why would he make up so many BS stories?

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