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Julia
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Shame on you...get out before it gets any deeper. There are other men out there...he's not the only one. Don't be the reason why 2 lives are ruined. Move on |
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Jujeaux
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its not going to happen i have many lovers and only 1 wife.
why would i leave her to marry someone who would cheat with me!!!!! Get a grip your just weekend recreation and probably well paid at that. dont mess up a good thing for yourself. |
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Just My Opinion
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You have got to be kidding don't you fear GOD the question should be how does the mans wife get you to leave her leagaly married husband alone.....Leave what God has joined together alone before God shows you who is really in charge.
Why not date HONORARIUS you deserve each other... |
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confused269
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you dont,if he cheats on her now you can bet he will cheat on you later |
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KRAZYKOOLKATZ05
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I agree with linda Once they have sleept around on someone with you you'll never fully trust him because you know he will and if his wife don't know how will you? either keep it has it is or let it go |
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linda h
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YOU DONT IF HE IS CHEATING WITH YOU NOW JUST THINK WHAT YOUR LIFE WOULD BE WITH HIM |
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HONORARIUS
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Send his wife evidence of the affair... Then she will leave him... |
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Goldenmutt
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FIRST OFF I WANT TO SAY THAT EVERYONE SHOULD STOP BASHING YOU , LET'S REMEMBER HE IS THE MARRIED ONE AND HE IS THE ONE DOING WRONG, LET'S BASH HIM!!!!!!!!!!! THE QUESTION IS NOT ABOUT THE FACT THAT ITS WRONG I AM SURE YOU KNOW IT IS AND SO WHAT, HE IS NOT GETTING WHAT HE NEEDS OR WANTS AT HOME BUT DOES NOT HAVE THE GONADS TO LEAVE. I AM SURE HE HAS FEELINGS FOR YOU BUT DON'T TRY TO GET HIM TO LEAVE, YOU WILL ONLY PUSH HIM AWAY. YOU NEED TO EITHER DEAL WITH BEING SECOND BEST OR GET OUT. ONLY HE CAN MAKE THE DECISION AND YOU CANNOT FORCE HIM OR CONVINCE HIM EITHER WAY.
AGAIN I SAY TO ALL THOSE BASHING YOU, LEAVE HER ALONE HE IS "WRECKING" HIS OWN HOME AND THAT IS HIS CHOICE. |
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browneyes33
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Why would you belittle yourself this way by being second, you should love and respect yourself more than this. Do you realize how bad that makes us women look. No matter what, a man can lead us to doing whatever they want us to do, regardless of the situation. You also make it very difficult for men to be faithful to their wives, when women like yourself are out there, so easy and thoughtless knowing he has a wife. We as women would not have to be concerned about our husbands cheating if there were not women whom falls weak, just b/c a man has good looks or a good stroke. But sweetheart, you are insane if you think this man is gonna leave his wife for you, so there is nothing you can do other than give up. Not too many marriages are ended by the man, the wife normally ends it probably b/c she is fed up. With that being said, you can wait for the wife to leave him and you can get the trash when it is thrown out. I am sure you will be waiting in the nearest dumpster........ |
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Serving Jesus
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How can I get you to leave your lover? |
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heavytrafficman
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Does it really matter? If he leaves his wife for you, it's only a matter of time before he's making time with yet another woman while he's with you. Cheaters are just like that.
But why would he leave his wife? He's got two women to screw whenever he wants. And neither you nor his wife have left yet. So he surely thinks he's got a good thing going. Leaving her would mean one less bedroom partner. (Till he meets someone else). |
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just_wondering
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you home wrecker! |
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pgg90789
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move along. not gonna happen.if he was gonna do it ,he would have done so buy now. |
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susenjungle
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Tell her what is going on and then leave him, he does not deserve niether of you. you and his wife deserve better. |
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Elaine
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take pictures of both of you and send them to her. don't tell them it's you! |
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witchy_mich
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If he was gonna leave, he'd have left by now... Give it up, and stop being a home wrecker... People like you make it worse for the rest of us hunny.... |
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Mr. Primetime
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tell him to pull a scott peterson
(murder her)
but why would you want to do that i mean he's only using u as a F***buddy |
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missgp_1946
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Stay out of it. If he leaves her ...he will leave you. |
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caren_hill
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You can't so you might as well leave that alone. If your lover can have his cake and eat it to by having his wife and YOU on the side, why in heavens name would you think that he would leave her? And honestly, if it's been five years and you still believe that crap he's feeding you then I think you have some serious issues. Move on to somebody else who isn't already taken.
But, I'm sure that you already know what you're doing isn't right. And I hope that you take our advise because what you're doing is entirely disrepectful, not only to yourself but, women in general. That's the problem with us women. We don't respect each other and it's only getting worst. How would you feel if you were married and another woman was shagging your husband? Honestly! Women have enough issues.
It's stressing you out like crazy and he's not worth it. No woman deserves to be second best. Believe me hun, he's going to string you along as long as you allow him to. You deserve better, so please just consider it. Let him go. And when he tries to talk you back into your fling, push him away. Don't get persuaded by his game. You deserve better, and if he really did care he wouldn't be doing this to you. Cheating on his wife should tell you want kind of things to expect anyway.
Obviously there's some flaws in their marriage and he seeks what he's missing in you but, it's not a compliment when he only keeps you on the side. You're not his personal toy. Do you enjoy playing cat and mouse. For five years you've allowed yourself to become a man's play toy. Harsh isn't it? |
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shy_fun_sentimental
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You are a sick human being HE IS ANOTHER WOMANS HUSBAND you need too walk away and leave him alone or else you deserve every hurtful thing that comes at you! |
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burkheadthurmond
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you dont, if hes going to leve her he will if not thin you need to move on ,sary for the blunt nes but wake up |
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Nagitarâ„¢
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are you kidding me. this man is never leaving his wife. why? because you are still being strung along. it's more expensive to leave his wife especially if he has kids |
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dctfreak1_2001
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If he hasn't already, he never will. Give up...he doesn't love you just as much as he doesn't love her by having an affair with you. Respect yourself and leave the situation and find someone who will care for you. |
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whiteknight3273
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You don't, you get yourself together and leave him, if he was going to he would have and if he does, then he will just leave you too, sooner or later. Honestly, no one who really likes themselves would date someone who is married, you may believe that it is ok, but you are actually helping him to hurt his wife, and if he leaves her for you, then the next time, you will be the one he cheats on. |
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la_bluegrrl02
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Well im not sure if you havent just asked him about it. If you've talked to him about it and he says b/c of the mother thing thats not good enough. If you feel obligated to be with someone you shouldnt be with them, tell him that. Other than that if he still wont leave her maybe he really doesnt want to and im not sure you can make him. |
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mitval
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girl, this guy is NOT leaving his wife...y shud he? he MARRIED her ryt? esp. if there are kids involved then most definitely, he wont leave her...u think ur more important becoz he's lying to his wife for u? nah, ur just for passing tym, in the end, the guy will still go home...remember, there's no place like home..and the WIFE, not u, is also at home bwahehe...GET A LIFE OF UR OWN>>>ther are so many great SINGLE guys out there |
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misfitfiend085
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if he's not faithful with his wife what makes you think he'll be faithful with you!? |
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steven marton
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First of all, its not right to be having an affair with someone and second, how could you do something like this??? its just WRONG!!! You need to build up some self respect and go to church, and if u do go to church then...... |
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Ameen
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You should never get into a married man's life. If you were his wife. Would you like it? I don't think so! It will also ruin your social life because you'll have an enemy: his wife. So my advice is to stay away from a married guy. |
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mcdornes
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1ST THING YOU DO NOT I REPEAT SLEEP WITH A MARRIED MAN WHARE I AM FROM WE WELL CALL YOU 2 THINGS 1 STTHING A S**** 2RD THING A HOME WREAKERD P.S. YOU AND YOUR BOY FRIND OR WHAT YOU WHANMT TO CALL HIME YOU ARE GONING TO HELL!! |
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