How do I get my wife to get over the fact that I called her lazy and selfish?
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How do I get my wife to get over the fact that I called her lazy and selfish?
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I called my wife lazy and selfish when she was pregnant because she wasn't acting,and she is still holding it against me.It was months ago and she won't let it go.How do I tell her to get over it? Additional Details I can't believe everyone is attacking me.
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Brianna
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Instead of trying to get your wife to get over it, why not pick a nice moment where you try to engage her in a real conversation about it. Really a good sit down and allow her to express her feelings, thoughts and emotions. You hurt her dearly and you cannot just try to get her to get over it. You need to take responsibility for the pain and anguish you caused her. You need to explain why you said these things and hopefully didn't really mean them. You need to apologize for being so callous and nasty to her. Until you show true remorse and have a heart to heart... forgiveness will be a goal that will not come. |
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Brad V
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Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
She isn't going to get over it. You'll be hearing it for years. She'll bring it up often during the divorce too. |
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Amarante
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it's hard to move around when pregnant and hormones make act a weird way (being angry a lot)
could apologize to her |
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free_angel
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She will never forget you called her that. She will hold that over your head until your dying day. You need to get over it and accept that you were wrong. |
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The African Queen
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Why don't you just insult her some more? That plan seems to work out well for you. |
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daughter_of_God
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Give her a divorce and set her free. |
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Ms. Abominable
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Maybe you should try apologizing instead of brushing her off. After that, compliment her on practically anything she does. Did she dress your child before you got home from work? Tell her you like the outfit. Did she clean? Tell her the place looks nice and kiss her on the cheek. If you notice the little things she does, she'll be more appreciative of you and will forgive that hurtful remark from before. |
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originata
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Have you apologized for it yet? They are extremely petty creatures and lack perspective so likely there is nothing you can do about it. |
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