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How do I make my boyfriend understand that when he sleeps w/his wife, he is CHEATING ON ME!!!!?

I'm thinking about calling it quits. "Anthony" told me he wasn't sleeping with her, then he said "just once in a while", come to find out, it's every day! I find this kind of behavior and his lying to me to be very disgusting.

And I'm tired of having to fib to my husband about where I am every Tuesday afternoon (Anthony and I meet at the Super 8 Motel on Grandy Blvd everyTuesday at 2pm).

Is there any way that I get this through his thick skull? What's the point of having a relationship with someone if they aren't going to be faithful to you? I can't believe he is doing this to me. Is he just a low-life scum ball, or do you think I'll ever be able to get him to understand?


    




Frankie
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You're question has produced the best group of idiotic answers I've perhaps ever seen. Bravo!!!!!

Oh, and by the way...but....YOU"RE cheating...omg....and you are a top contributor on R&S...the horror!!! and you're a hippycrit!

Please...think about the children!!!...the children for f**** sake!


EDIT: It's a shame that I could only give you a star, because you really deserve a medal........oh and you sicken me,blah blah.................


TRIXIE
i say really spice it up and everyone meet at the hotel at 2:00 on tuesdays.


KingAndrew
That's just plain funny. I hope everyone realizes that also. My ex-wife had those same issues with all her boyfriends. It's hard to find people willing to have an affair and stay committed to the affair. What is this world coming too?


JJ
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dont you think you are being a bit hypocritical?


benjamin m
Pot calling the kettle black much?


brwneyes
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If you were not a top contributor, I would call you a troll. Get a life.


Parum Affinis
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This is a system that needs mathematical analysis!

So you're both double cheaters,and this relationship complex is x4 unfaithful(has an unfaithfulness of a 4th degree).

Now,if you started a relationship with his wife,it would be x8(her cheating on him,you cheating on three people)and if he started one with your husband,it would be x16.Now if both of them started a relationship with each other...

wow,the potential.


snipe1967
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This is a ridiculous question and I hope it's just a joke. Neither of you know the first thing about faithfulness, so why do you expect it from him? Yes, what is the point of having a relationship with someone if they aren't going to be faithful (aka "I'm tired of having to fib to my husband"). Go home and tell your husband that you are cheating on him so he can kick you to the curb and find someone that has an idea what faithfulness means.


Bl♥ndy: Original Recipe
Lol. Nice.

Edit:
I love it how no one realizes you're trolling.


icewitch54
Uhuh, when you get it through your thick skull that you are also doing what you are complaining about what he his doing.


Kelly S
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You have the nerve to call him a low-life scum ball? You're BOTH cheating on your spouses. You need some professional therapy and marriage therapy as well. I really hope this is a sick joke.


Star Gazer
I don't even know how to answer your question, darling. When I have a problem, I usually drink rum and yell "freedom" like the Braveheart guy, and it usually works out until the cops get called because I'm trying to free the cows that are caged up. Yes, I live in Okiehoma.

I hope your problems are worked out. Chow, darling.


daisyy[;
"What's the point of having a relationship with someone if they aren't going to be faithful to you?"

your being unfaithful here, too. you have a husband, why are you fooling around with another married man? you both are cheating, i really hope your husband and his wife finds out.


fokker - it's an airplane!
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thanks for the laugh -

maybe you two can get your husband and his wife to have an affair with eachother, and then you won't have to keep fibbing to your husband.

on the off chance this is true, please do not have babies.


Johnny
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The nerve of the guy!!!!!!!!!!!

You should get back at him by sleeping with your husband a couple times a week.


Angel's Wings
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Is this a serious question? The "other woman" is barking about being cheated on? Unbelievable!

Ok, Yep, he's a "low-life scum ball". No, I don't think he'll ever understand why his mistress is barking about him sleeping with his wife...if he has any sense at all he'll be on the floor laughing. Then he'll realize what exactly he's attached himself to and do the right thing for once and take out the trash!

Sorry to be harsh, be sheesh!


Bze
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So let me get this straight, your married and your boyfriend is too and your worried about him cheating on you? No one in this situation is right. If you two care about each other divorce your spouses! If that isn't the plan then focus on your own marriage. Do you really think it's romantic meeting at a motel? Take time and really evaluate what position you have put yourself in and how many people you're hurting by it.


Bs Girl
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Ok you are married and he is married??? What is the problem here?? Call Jerry Springer or Dr Phil!!


Lprod
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Hmmmmmm and you'll tell us that you NEVER sleep with your husband and you ARE faithful to your lover? I don't think so.... but if you want absolute loyalty, then I'd recommend you search for a single lover, not a married one.


DO-ŤHę-mÅŤH
You are both low-life scum balls. And to see that you are a top contributor to Religion and Spirituality makes me sick. You and your BF are whats wrong with this world. You will never be happy and if this story is made up you are sicker than I thought. Get a life.


{ Unleash the Fury }
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i dont know what makes me more upset the fact that you wasted everybody elses time or your own and thought it was worth it

why use the 5 points ?


Miss BHave
Who are you to point a finger at someone for CHEATING?

That is his WIFE, and like it or not he is not cheating on you, he is cheating on her WITH you. You said: "What's the point of having a relationship with someone if they aren't going to be faithful to you? I can't believe he is doing this to me. Is he just a low-life scum ball"

Look in a mirror, you said you cant have a relationship with someone who cant be faithful, that is the pot calling the kettle black since you yourself are married. He is not doing ANYTHING to you. Get a divorce and find a single man and you wont have this issue, better yet, go home to your husband. You are being hypocritical. Cheaters are scumballs, not just this guy.......


wouldn't you like to know...
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Haa. Oh, wow. Seems like both of you could use some MAJOR counseling. You obviously have a 'thick skull' if you believe his going to leave his wife & that he isn't sleeping with her..good one. & How are you going to to ask "What's the point of having a relationship with someone if they aren't going to be faithful to you" when you are being a hypocrite & cheating on your spouse. Grow Up.


Wire & String
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plus you know the super 8 is just trashy. cheat at the holiday inn.


(celestial) baby due July 17
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You're disgusting.


moonstruck ★ prefers her lips
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Good one. I meet my boyfriend at the Motel 6 every Thursday at 1.

Funny how people are taking this so seriously when obviously no one would come on here and ask that expecting real answers...LMAO!


Malik L
The Sarcasm meter just redlined





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